TL;DR - What should I do about sexual incompatibility within marriage? Anybody want to be my sex therapist? My husband and I (F) have been together for about 6 years. We had a relatively healthy, but imperfect, sex life in the beginning, but I had always assumed it would improve. It hasn't. In fact it's gotten a lot worse the last couple years. I'm afraid that we're just sexually incompatible and I don't know what to do. I used to love giving blowjobs. But he works hard and doesn't bathe as often as I feel is necessary, and quite frankly he gets funky down there. We've discussed this many times at length and for a while, he did absolutely nothing about it. Like for years. So the frequency of the blowjobs widdled down to nothing. He was pouty about it but eventually he started washing more. I gave occasional blowjobs during that time, but years of gross smells made me hesitant. And I am making an assumption here but I believe he stopped washing often ...

I started masturbating from a pretty young age so I think I developed it throughout the years. But basically I have to cross my legs when I masturbate, like criss-cross applesauce lol. I also can't touch my clit directly when I do cuz it's so sensitive. It's embarrassing doing it infront of my bf and it makes it difficult for him to make me cum. It's almost like I have "death grip" except for a girl. Do I have to train myself to masturbate differently? Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:37AM I started masturbating from a pretty young age so I think I developed it throughout the years. But basically I have to cross my legs when I masturbate, like criss-cross applesauce lol. I also can't touch my clit directly when I do cuz it's so sensitive. It's embarrassing doing it infront of my bf and it makes it difficult for him to make me cum. It's almost like I have "death grip" except for a girl. Do I have to train myself to masturbate diff...

So I've got 2 lady's I've been messaging that I contacted through online dating both seem very nice. I've been messaging both for about a week and I've asked both to meet but never got a definite answer. The one seems very cool and sends great coversational messages the other just a sentence or two but keeps sending messages. Is their anything you think I should ask the "quiet" on to get a better response or engage more? Every time I think she may not be interested, I'll get another message and oddly we seem to have things in common, but no real in depth responses. Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:26PM So I've got 2 lady's I've been messaging that I contacted through online dating both seem very nice. I've been messaging both for about a week and I've asked both to meet but never got a definite answer. The one seems very cool and sends great coversational messages the other just a sentence or two but keeps sending messages. Is ...

Hey guys, I need advice, as I'm new to dating! Well long story short, I met a girl and we hit it off for the first 2 dates. But I noticed she seems flakey and it's been over a month since we've set another date. She cancelled on me once already, and never sets definite plans. But counters a different day to meet right away. So, this week she offered to meet with her friends at a night fire. Sounds like fun, but i feel like this is a test for her friends to meet me? Anyways, I told her that I would prefer to meet 1-on-1, just to get to know each other better. But at the same time, I feel like I'm missing out.. since it would be fun to go out and meet/get to know her friends. I don't like going back on my word, as it's a bit indecisive. Did I make the right decision not to meet her friends? Would it be wrong if I were to change my decision and meet with her and her friends? Thanks! Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:29PM Hey guys,I need advice, as I'm...

So I just met a girl in my major in a lab area (she helps students get electrical parts). We talked briefly and we found out we will be working at internships close by to each other this summer. I only talked to her briefly about our past internships and other stuff for maybe about 5 minutes last week and then today. Would it be appropriate to ask if she wanted to hang out this summer and exchange numbers even though we only spoke for maybe 10 minutes total? Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:36PM So I just met a girl in my major in a lab area (she helps students get electrical parts). We talked briefly and we found out we will be working at internships close by to each other this summer.I only talked to her briefly about our past internships and other stuff for maybe about 5 minutes last week and then today.Would it be appropriate to ask if she wanted to hang out this summer and exchange numbers even though we only spoke for maybe 10 minutes total?

There's this girl (woman I suppose) I know who says almost all guys are pervs. I am a straight guy and I am confused because she posts a ton of revealing pictures on IG. Is she looking for attention? To be honest I don't want to make assumptions but I want to know if I'm onto something or if its something else. Thanks! Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:41PM There's this girl (woman I suppose) I know who says almost all guys are pervs. I am a straight guy and I am confused because she posts a ton of revealing pictures on IG. Is she looking for attention? To be honest I don't want to make assumptions but I want to know if I'm onto something or if its something else. Thanks!

She claims on the app she's a big gamer girl, and is into a lot of other geeky male things (seems too good to be true). Half of her photos are very attractive (way more attractive than what you'd imagine a gamer girl to be), but the other half are basically stupid memes (seems like she couldn't find enough photos to fill the dating profile). Asked her to video call, and she refused to do video call, and then got really defensive about it. Submitted April 21, 2021 at 11:57PM She claims on the app she's a big gamer girl, and is into a lot of other geeky male things (seems too good to be true). Half of her photos are very attractive (way more attractive than what you'd imagine a gamer girl to be), but the other half are basically stupid memes (seems like she couldn't find enough photos to fill the dating profile). Asked her to video call, and she refused to do video call, and then got really defensive about it.

This guy I’ve been talking to for the last month has been communicating with me pretty consistently except he texts me super dry and boring! Never asks me questions about myself. He’s different in person, I met him in person for the first time a couple days ago and spent the night with him (no sex) just made out and stuff. We had insane chemistry and had a really good time together. I wasn’t hearing from him so I texted him and we had yet another painfully boring text convo before told him I had a good time with him and he said “I did too :-)” now it’s been three days and he hasn’t asked to hangout again or anything and he’s active on ig LITERALLY ALL DAY LONG watching my stories and everything. He doesn’t have a job so we could literally hang out whenever or at least make plans but he prefers to invite me over last minute instead of making plans. I also saw he commented on a girls picture and said “hot” the same day before he invited me too his house 🤮 do you think he’s not interest...

i (17f) asked my guy friend that i sit next to in class to hang out and go shopping with me and he said yes. we made plans and are going out tomorrow after school. is he just being friendly or is there’s a chance he’s into me? Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:02AM i (17f) asked my guy friend that i sit next to in class to hang out and go shopping with me and he said yes. we made plans and are going out tomorrow after school. is he just being friendly or is there’s a chance he’s into me?

I'm 21(M) currently dating a 20(F). Upon talking to my date after our third outing I found out that she wishes to go to Graduate School in Egypt. While I stay local for graduate school. This is the first person I have ever dated in my life. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, even if it is just for a year until she has to leave. Something like, "Hey I like hanging out with you, would you like to be my girlfriend? Even if it is just for a year, and when you go to graduate school we could re-evaluate our relationship?" I don't know, does this seem too cold? I'm a really straightforward person. Sometimes I can sound rude or cold. Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:03AM I'm 21(M) currently dating a 20(F). Upon talking to my date after our third outing I found out that she wishes to go to Graduate School in Egypt. While I stay local for graduate school. This is the first person I have ever dated in my life.I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, even if it i...

Do you just accept that pain dose not go away? Do you just accept that even if you got cheated on you will still think u could have done something different? Do you just keep living with oh what if i see her? Do you just keep living with not being able to talk yourself into at least kissing somebody new like WTF is this shit i never ever want to have somebody again. Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:06AM Do you just accept that pain dose not go away? Do you just accept that even if you got cheated on you will still think u could have done something different? Do you just keep living with oh what if i see her? Do you just keep living with not being able to talk yourself into at least kissing somebody new like WTF is this shit i never ever want to have somebody again.

I’m thinking that it’s time for my to move on, but I just don’t understand why she suddenly became so cold as she was really interested in me to begin with. She also cancelled another date before this without even apologizing for it or suggesting a new date. I wish I could move on more easily, but I’m still thinking whether I should try texting her again. We’re both 19 btw Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:06AM I’m thinking that it’s time for my to move on, but I just don’t understand why she suddenly became so cold as she was really interested in me to begin with. She also cancelled another date before this without even apologizing for it or suggesting a new date. I wish I could move on more easily, but I’m still thinking whether I should try texting her again.We’re both 19 btw

I’m a guy, 21 years. Never had a girlfriend. I’ve known her for probably 8 weeks around uni. Just amazing to talk to. Best friend I’ve had for a long time. When I first met her, I knew that she had just come out of a long relationship that didn’t end well. But 8 weeks on, I thought I’d say “fk it” and just ask her out. I really like her, and I had to know if she might feel the same way. I think about her a lot. I gave it time, but I owed myself some closure It was a no. Understandable. She told me she’s enjoying being single after her last train wreck relationship and I believe her. She was so nice about it. She started by saying that “there could definitely be potential for more in the future.” What do you guys think? Submitted April 22, 2021 at 12:07AM I’m a guy, 21 years. Never had a girlfriend. I’ve known her for probably 8 weeks around uni. Just amazing to talk to. Best friend I’ve had for a long time. When I first met her, I knew that she had just come out of a long rela...

So this may come off a bit as rant-y since my thoughts are a but jumbled.  I imagine stories like these are common but I felt the need to share anyway.  I'm 25M and never really put myself out there in regards to dating or anything romantic (the spare few times where I did were not successful), but I am trying to make an effort as of late and am feeling a bit overwhelmed. This effort has been constrained to apps like Tinder and Bumble as I don't really know how exactly to meet people and connect in person.  However, I find these apps aren't exactly making me confident or better about myself.  Plus the ease of rejection and lack of responses on these apps is taking a toll on me emotionally to be honest. But if I delete them, I'm pretty much shutting myself out to this world and committing myself to further loneliness, which isn't exactly what I'd like to do! There is this feeling that due to the fact that I missed out on a period of development that most went ...

I'm a person who likes to take action. Dirty room, clean it up. Want to get into running, start a running plan today. Want to talk to a friend, just call them. Successful dating takes the opposite kind of skill, namely a LOT of doing nothing in the early stages. Especially off the apps, and especially in the age of Covid when you can't gauge someone's body language. Whenever I have been interested in someone, I usually felt the need to hold back"on expressing any sort of interest. I don't know why, I guess I'm shy and don't want to mess things up. Sometimes not knowing is better than rejection, ha. This is purely outside of the app-world obviously, where you don't know someone's relationship status, sexual orientation, etc making things so much harder to navigate (and exciting and fun and anxiety-inducing, of course). And having an interest in someone almost always predates knowing them well enough to really get into the kind of flirty banter we ...

Have you tried the Paksenarrion books? The main character is ace April 21, 2021 at 11:39PM

WaIT. Isn’t the third pic a black-headed chickadee? Not here to ruin the mood of the amazing joke we have going on here BUT I’M PRETTY SURE THATS A CHICKADEE April 21, 2021 at 11:39PM

Zero romance in my current webcomic. Or anything else that I write, for that matter, unless it’s specifically about romance. Dragons vs. Deities sounds like a great premise, so don’t ever add in completely irrelevant stuff just to please the target demographic. Maybe we will eventually set the standard that fiction doesn’t need romance to be great. April 21, 2021 at 11:38PM

Oh snap that's me April 21, 2021 at 11:36PM

Congratulations! I’m glad it went well. April 21, 2021 at 11:35PM

Damn, some nice tits! April 21, 2021 at 11:33PM

YES, thank you so much!!! I'm so sorry it took me so long to see this!!! <3 April 21, 2021 at 11:32PM