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What’s a good text conversation starter?

Besides the generic “how was your day” kind of thing? I’ve been kind of hanging out with a guy, but we don’t really communicate all that much unless we’re together. We have plans this weekend, and I feel like they’re set in stone because we bought tickets to an event. But since I saw him on Sunday we’ve only had one very quick conversation. So I’m looking for some fresh ideas! Submitted April 12, 2023 at 01:14AM Besides the generic “how was your day” kind of thing?I’ve been kind of hanging out with a guy, but we don’t really communicate all that much unless we’re together. We have plans this weekend, and I feel like they’re set in stone because we bought tickets to an event. But since I saw him on Sunday we’ve only had one very quick conversation. So I’m looking for some fresh ideas!

/u/JessicaBecause on My dad gave me some insight into asexual history, and it was a bit interesting

who “loves to fuck themself” Nah, Even my own Self doesn't get much of it. April 12, 2023 at 12:06AM

Is it okayy to hold hands and walk on the first date? I[M23] Date[F22]

I know it's a stupid question but I have not been on many dates and i was planning that after we meet at a coffee place well go for a walk and listen to some songs. Will it be okay to hold her hand while we walk and listen to some songs? Submitted April 11, 2023 at 11:26PM I know it's a stupid question but I have not been on many dates and i was planning that after we meet at a coffee place well go for a walk and listen to some songs. Will it be okay to hold her hand while we walk and listen to some songs?

Ending Things - advice pls!

I’ve (20) been dating this guy (19) since the start of this year and we started exclusively dating last month. He had initially asked to be my boyfriend but I told him to ask me in a month because we had just gone through some issues. I had told him that our relationship felt platonic because he hadn’t kissed me yet (first two months) and I also told him I had an issue with him living 40 miles away and him always working (he works close to where I live). When we resolved our issue, I had told him I would take the bus/train to see him so he didn’t have to pick me up AND take me home. Even so, our schedules don’t align so I only get to see him once a week. Recently I asked him if I could see him every Sunday before he entered work and he said he’d be too tired + traffic but then he changed his mind. He even told me that Sunday that there is no traffic on Sundays so i was like ??? Anyway, the following week he didn’t bring up hanging out on Sunday so I made plans with my family. Furtherm

/u/lunelily on I’m not sure if I’m asexual

Sounds like aesthetic attraction rather than sexual attraction to me! April 11, 2023 at 11:10PM

/u/lunelily on Am I asexual or did I just have bad sex?

Sexual orientation is about attraction, not action. Do you ever feel an intrinsic, physical urge to have sex with other people because the idea of doing that makes you aroused? If no, you’re asexual. Doesn’t matter how good or bad your experiences with sex in the past have been. Some asexuals even really enjoy sex (sex-favorable) despite not feeling sexual attraction toward anyone. April 11, 2023 at 11:08PM