I recently went to this volunteering event at my university and while there this guy approached me very politely. We spoke for a while and at the end he asked for my number. I wasn’t very into him but not opposed to maybe talking more. He seemed normal enough. Fast forward a few days later he reaches out asking me what my weekend plans are. Honestly, I don’t think I’m that interested in him. We talked for awhile at the original event and I just wasn’t attracted to him. I know one date isn’t the end of the world but idk if I feel eager to go. So I was just wondering what’s a polite way to make that clear. I don’t have much dating experience which is why I’m asking. I also know this is a chance to gain more but idk I just wasn’t into it that much and more gave him my phone number to be nice. He wasn’t a bad guy but I don’t think our personalities and goals match well Submitted March 06, 2022 at 12:11AM I recently went to this volunteering event at my university and while there th...

Title says it all. I’m new to dating so not sure if this is normal. Basically am feeling drained both physically and emotionally each time after seeing someone. Our dates are typically very long and involve a constant flow of conversation so maybe that’s why it’s so draining? Most of the time I’m enjoying myself I just think maybe it should feel more effortless? Or am I overthinking it. Submitted March 05, 2022 at 09:30PM Title says it all. I’m new to dating so not sure if this is normal.Basically am feeling drained both physically and emotionally each time after seeing someone. Our dates are typically very long and involve a constant flow of conversation so maybe that’s why it’s so draining? Most of the time I’m enjoying myself I just think maybe it should feel more effortless? Or am I overthinking it.

I recently ran into my ex. We hadn’t spoken in over 3 years after about five years of off and on dating that was very serious at times. It was a rollercoaster of a relationship where the highs were like ecstasy and the lows were us being at each others throats for doing or saying something that upset the other. We were young and dumb and I made a lot of mistakes, as did she. The final breakup (which she delivered) tore my heart apart for a while, but I eventually began seeing other people, as did she. Over the past three years since the breakup, we never spoke, aside from a couple times when she called or texted because she didn’t know who else to turn to and I couldn’t help myself but help her and once when I reached out to her to congratulate her on a move (to which she responded with basically a long version of a “I have a boyfriend”). There was a lot of anger and resentment towards one another for a long time. We’ve both moved to new cities and I just assumed life was never going...

I met this guy on tinder and I was scheduled to move back to school the day after. We went on a really great first date. He made it clear he wanted to see me again, however I think I came of a little suspicious since I said I went on the date "for the hell of it bc I was bored." To make up for it, I texted him after the date saying I had a great time and he responded with the same. We messaged for a bit the following few days. He sent me a whole recipe at one point telling me how to make it; I had a lot of questions so I responded with quite a few messages. He has not responded in the 5 days since. I thought the guy was great up until he pulled this. I was thinking of either just leaving it or texting him a lone peace sign. Good idea? Submitted March 05, 2022 at 08:27PM I met this guy on tinder and I was scheduled to move back to school the day after. We went on a really great first date. He made it clear he wanted to see me again, however I think I came of a little ...

This chick we not dating yet taking it slowly she said she still getting over a ex and stuff and I wanna hang out soon she keep saying we get there. But yet she wanna go hang out with one her guy friends that moving to the another state. But when I ask hang out seem like she don’t know but we get there. Should I ghost her Submitted March 05, 2022 at 06:40PM This chick we not dating yet taking it slowly she said she still getting over a ex and stuff and I wanna hang out soon she keep saying we get there. But yet she wanna go hang out with one her guy friends that moving to the another state. But when I ask hang out seem like she don’t know but we get there. Should I ghost her

Im (29F) seeing someone new. He’s great. I make him very happy and he makes me relatively happy. We were casual and then turned into a serious relationship recently. I know I shouldn’t have even allowed someone new into my life while i still have feelings for an ex. I hate even calling him (ex) that because we dated only 6 months. I ended things because I was at my wits end with being unofficial and I couldn’t keep doing what we were doing without labels. He said he couldn’t give me what I need at the time because of personal/professional issues. he is continuing to chat w me here and there and I feel like I’m getting breadcrumbed. I never expressed the depth of my feelings to him because I don’t like to advertise every feeling outwardly. I keep my cards close to the chest until I have the security of a relationship. He asked for more time or to talk things over but I didn’t give him the chance to. I just abruptly ended things explaining I don’t do casual this long. but he really ope...

Yeah to hell with that slut. We're impervious Olympian spells! March 05, 2022 at 11:31PM

GReat, now I got hungry just as I was to goto sleep mode. March 05, 2022 at 11:30PM