I don't have any personal experience that could help you (I think I'm probably aromantic), but here's this: https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/relationships October 21, 2019 at 12:11AM

Yeah, I still get sexual urges, but I do feel them to be a burden most all of the time, like I think it would be nice to just not have them October 21, 2019 at 12:10AM

So there is a group of boys and girls in my college and iam trying to getclose to a specific girl in it ..all my attempts failed lately any advices?? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:17PM So there is a group of boys and girls in my college and iam trying to getclose to a specific girl in it ..all my attempts failed lately any advices??

Throwaway because this embarrassing and I'm really bad and shy about this stuff. I (22M) have been talking to this girl (22F) for like 2 and a half months. I live in the US of A and she in England. We've known each other for a few years but I kinda just decided to try it and see what happens, making my intentions clear, and I think she knows that. Living in different time zones 6 hours apart makes it kinda hard to talk often, given work and sleep, but overall I think its been going good. We talk basically daily, and usually on our days off try to make time to talk to each other, sometimes brief. And I don't think anything bad is happening as far as I'm aware. But, I'm really really bad at this stuff, and I'll say I'm not that confident. I'm a pretty mature, level-headed fellow, except for things like this. I know she's usually shyish and quiet, and will give 1 word answers a lot. But I also have trouble making conversation because I don't wa

Hi. I want to know what's your take on this. I'm a female, 28 y/o. This guy invite me on a date this week: I met a guy through Facebook; from his pictures, he seemed cute. So we started chatting, and found out he have the same interests, hobbies and tastes. So that was pretty awesome, since in my country is really hard to find someone with those specific things (I mean, my interests, hobbies, etc)., so I thought that was reall great. After some time, he asked for my number and I gave it to him, and he started to text me everyday (in a good way, not in an annoying way, lol) and I texted him too. We talked about everything, so eventually the conversation turned about sex, and it was good, however after that, everytime we talked he kept veering the conversation towards that theme and I found that dissapointing, and kinda annoying tbh. But I overlooked that because of all the other stuff. However the other day he told me that he would like if I give him a blow job, and I was lik

So for the last week I’ve been texting this guy 8 years younger than me, he’s 20 almost 21 and I’m 28, he started talking to me first. But he’s real cute and nice and I’m sick of being in toxic relationships. Anyways I’ve never talked to anyone this young and he seemed to be real interested. He kept messaging me everyday and he would say I was cute and yada yada. We were going to hang out Friday and I told him I got off work around 9:30 10:00 pm, then he said that was too late and that he was tired and what is there to do that late? And that he still wanted to hang another day. Then we message the next day and he wanted to watch the yankee game at his house last night and I said ok. He lives about 20 min away from me and I said I had to get a snack and I’d be over around 35-40 min. This was around 8:30 pm last night. Then he says that he didn’t know I’d be that late and getting food and that he was getting tired to be honest and he said he easily falls asleep when he watches tv at nig

"When there is discipline, there is respect. When there is respect, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is love." It'll be your move on comprehending this one, we all have different opinions after all. Anyway, what's your own advice before dating someone? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:41PM "When there is discipline, there is respect. When there is respect, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is love."It'll be your move on comprehending this one, we all have different opinions after all. Anyway, what's your own advice before dating someone?

So there's this girl in my hs I like I have no classes with her and dont even have her on snap and I kinda suspect she like me or atleast thinks I'm cute but I've never said a word to her so I'm in a but of a pickle. pls send help Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:41PM So there's this girl in my hs I like I have no classes with her and dont even have her on snap and I kinda suspect she like me or atleast thinks I'm cute but I've never said a word to her so I'm in a but of a pickle. pls send help

I'm a 35 year old female. Never married no kids. I did a lot of post-grad schooling, and haven't been in anything serious for a while. I do not have the effort to deal with fuck boys, or men unsure of what they want. I am ready for the real deal. How do I weed out all these dudes on tinder, hinge, bumble, and okcupid and find my mate? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:41PM I'm a 35 year old female. Never married no kids. I did a lot of post-grad schooling, and haven't been in anything serious for a while. I do not have the effort to deal with fuck boys, or men unsure of what they want. I am ready for the real deal. How do I weed out all these dudes on tinder, hinge, bumble, and okcupid and find my mate?

I have been told I’m attractive, even when I was fatter. I think I’m cute and take decent care of myself. But I have never been approached by a cute guy like other women. I have no friends and am reserved but that doesn’t mean anything. I have had friends in the past that got approached left and right. Why have I only been approached by ugly guys? Or guys online? Why don’t I attract quality guys in person? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:43PM I have been told I’m attractive, even when I was fatter. I think I’m cute and take decent care of myself. But I have never been approached by a cute guy like other women. I have no friends and am reserved but that doesn’t mean anything. I have had friends in the past that got approached left and right. Why have I only been approached by ugly guys? Or guys online? Why don’t I attract quality guys in person?

So long story short, a bit over a month ago I was asked to join a group regarding my 10 year high school reunion. I got a friend request from a guy whom I recognized, but didn't talk a whole lot to in middle and high school. I clearly state I am in a relationship publicly and in my heading on Facebook. He had come up on hard times with a chick he dated for 3 months who was texting a friend saying she was naked in bed and to come over. I saw the fall out on fb. Lol needless to say he dumped her. Me, being a nice gal, decided to give him advice when he was saying "hey any single gals want to go out with a good guy?" First commenter suggested he put his personal life elsewhere and I told him to try online dating because I met my boyfriend there. Fast forward a couple weeks later and he messages me and is just talking and talking. He says he was sorry he made fun of my last name in school (don't remember it) and that he always had a crush on me. I was an odd duck in h

How does one spend time with someone, they tell you that they care about you and when you ask them a question for example "whats your biggest relationship fear" they say that they don't want to get attached. Like how am I supposed to understand why we even hangout, i mean i get the vibe and everything, we smoke and hangout alot, the other seems happy with me. shes very touchy, shes very positive and wants to have a good time all the time when we're together. if im trying to be serious with this girl and all i hear is i dont want to come home one day for a family, likes to be alone, she doesn't want to be attached. how are you supposed to work with that if you really care for someone? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:52PM How does one spend time with someone, they tell you that they care about you and when you ask them a question for example "whats your biggest relationship fear" they say that they don't want to get attached.Like how am I sup

(I’m on mobile, sorry) To preface: I’ve had one boyfriend before when I was in high school. It was a really tame relationship, we never even kissed. He was nice and someone I could count on to be my date to dances. However, I’ve been told our relationship wasn’t a normal one (it wasn’t) and now I’m really clueless when it comes to dating. In a moment of weakness, I decided to download a dating app to try and get myself out there. I’m not looking for hookups or anything like that, I was/am looking for a relationship. I matched with a few people and specifically started talking to this one guy (M21). Right off the bat he texted me constantly with good morning and goodnight texts, calling me pretty, and asked what I was up to multiple times a day. Being with my first boyfriend, who barely texted me at all and didn’t acknowledge my presence that much, this new guy is a real 180 from what I’m used to. At first he seemed right up my alley, with interests and beliefs that lined up with mine

The stranger is a policeman who knows my landlord and ever told her he wanted to find a girlfriend from Asia (My landlord is from Asia, so am I). So my landlord would like to connect me (single) with him, but we can't find a way to build any relation with him especially we haven't met! The policeman was resolving an issue for the tenants living in my landlord's house, but they only met and talked once! He can speak French and English. My landlord suggest me contact him through emails, but I have only his boss's email and I wonder if it's inappropriate to contact him in that way! My landlord can call him, but her English not that good and she's afraid she would screw up all the things! Anyone have any suggestions? Submitted October 21, 2019 at 12:12AM The stranger is a policeman who knows my landlord and ever told her he wanted to find a girlfriend from Asia (My landlord is from Asia, so am I). So my landlord would like to connect me (single) with him,

So I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months now and I really like him and I know he likes me because he has addressed it to multiple times... I have aswell. We text and talk over the phone all day everyday and he has surprised me by showing up to my apartment a couple of times already. The first time we met, I was on my monthly and I was in so much pain and he literally stayed the whole night and bought me food. And the second time we went on a date to the movies and out to eat. We've talked about being in a relationship but a couple of weeks ago, he told me about just being friends because he knows I've been through alot with being raped earlier this year having a miscarriage, being in the hospital and so on. He told me that he wants to be friends because he knows I've been through a lot but he wants to help me get back to who I use to be before I was raped. He even told me that I was not ready for a relationship. However we still talk every single day, multi

So I (23) technically broke up with my ex (25) couple of months ago, before summer started. I wasn't sure of my feelings, we had a certain lack of communication when it came to conflicts solving and on top of that I started questioning my sexuality. We kept seeing each other during the summer (like 5 times) and we had sex on those occasions, mainly because I feel very secure around him. We still had this deal that we are not together and we are allowed to sleep with other people as required. He said he is not interested in meeting other people, but I knew I need to sleep with a woman before I even consider getting back with him, for clarity. I went for holidays, apparently we had a phone call after I came back, during which he asked me, in context, if I slept with a man during our time apart. I said that I didn't. I avoided the confession which would naturally follow up after that. The truth is that I did not sleep with a man, but I did sleep with a woman over the summer (we

I'm a married ace as well. Few suggestions. Get a copy of the invisible orientation.it has a section on being in a relationship with an ace person and does a good job of dispelling the ace people dont like /want/have sex myth. 2 try useing the closeted gay analogy and sex workers. Meaning a lot of gay and lesbian people will have sex with the opposite gender before they accept who they are or to try and change themself even if they are not sexually attracted to them but that doesn't make them straight And that prostitutes and those in porn have sex with people they are not attracted to all the time. Sorry you are going through that. I had the same situation but once my spouse realized it wasnt that I was reflecting him but that I didnt feel that way about anyone it got better. Hope that things work out and remember that if someone doesnt love and respect you enough to accept who you are then that's their loss. It is not your fault and there is nothing wrong with you. If se

See that would be hard in our area. Let's just say it's a very "conservative" place, full of people who insist they're "traditional". And not to be is.... not easy. We're lucky because we look like a hetero ("normal") couple, but my bi sister would suffer here. It was an effort to even figure out myself being raised in that kind of environment. October 21, 2019 at 12:02AM

I got tossed that at work recently, I said I was confused about why were talking. October 21, 2019 at 12:00AM

Yeah! When I went to prom in my senior year, I went without a date but I had my group of 5-10 friends all without dates and it was super fun! Whenever a slow dance came on we just split up in pairs. I think going without a date and with your friends instead is a much better option tbh. Not just because I'm aroace but also because spending all night with 1 person instead of spending all night with all your friends sounds boring lmao. But yes, destroy the idea that every one needs a date to a school dance!! October 21, 2019 at 12:00AM

Well unfortunately they can figure out some things about you based on your browser history. Probably isn't a sub for that though. October 20, 2019 at 11:59PM

You really get it October 20, 2019 at 11:58PM

Haven't seen this meme around but nice art style... October 20, 2019 at 11:55PM