I think I’m rly in love, dam I fall for people so fast but she’s different, wish I could get closer with her <3 Submitted April 27, 2019 at 04:13AM I think I’m rly in love, dam I fall for people so fast but she’s different, wish I could get closer with her <3

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Look. I know you are/were real. That's why I made a Reddit account with your name. That's right. So if you look yourself up, I hope you see this. Forever and always, right? Anyway, I am real. Everything about me that I said. The shemagh(tactical fabric square) that's me. I didn't lie to you. But now I just want to apologize for not being there for you. And if you want to talk, I moved to Indiana. I work at a store in Merrillville called Gordon Food Service. I hope you see this and come find me. Call the store if you want to talk to me. Anyway, if you've moved on, then don't worry about it. Kay? I just hope that I'm right and that you're real. Later, Sammie. Submitted April 27, 2019 at 05:46AM Look. I know you are/were real. That's why I made a Reddit account with your name. That's right. So if you look yourself up, I hope you see this. Forever and always, right?Anyway, I am real. Everything about me that I said. The shemagh(tactical fabr...

So..... In the 5th grade I met a girl, not gonna day name but it starts with a H. (Incase u find this❤️) I was crushing on her hard and I had to transfer schools due to bad grades. She had to move away. We lost contact until January of 2019. She had a boyfriend and she seemed happy. Around the beginning of March they broke up due to him not texting anymore. On March 9th I asked her out. I was sweating and stressing bad. She. Said. YES. I cried I was so happy. We started out by FaceTiming and recalling all the fun times we had in the 5th grade. She told me that at a party there were dirt bikes and I caught her looking at them. I asked her if she wanted a ride on one with me. (I cannot remember this) and I was asked if I liked her when we got off the dirbike. I said no in fear of being rejected. She didn’t think I liked her. I really really liked her and I love her. I am in deep love with her and never wanna let her go. We get to see each other every weekend but in one month, she will b...

So, awhile ago I regained contact with my old crush...now. I had been dating someone at the time of talking to him again but instant thoughts came to my mind of remembrance of how happy he made me. To be completely honest...I’ve liked him since the 5th grade. But sometimes fear of losing the ones we love gets the best of us. Anyways. I feared that if in 5th I had asked him out it would never be the same friendship if we broke up, so I never asked. Recently, about a month and a half ago and even a little more, (we are both in 8th grade now) after finding him on Snapchat for the first time in around 3 years...I had been so happy. The person that I was dating I had always talked to my “crush” about because he understood me and would always be there to talk to me about him. And even, at the time i had no clue, the fact that he liked me while he was talking to me...he still talked to me about my bf at the time. As the relationship grew my relationship with my bf at the time was fading. He ...

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you will probably find this at some point in time. I just need to write.... you glow so much, you are the only person I know that radiates like you do. Life and soul personified, just walking and emitting so many things that drive me crazy; what is your secret for your abundance.... of this immense energy and power you have... it leaves me speechless. voice, hair, skin, eyes... have you ever heard of perfection before.... You have something inexplicable, I feel so out of place it makes me sick and nauseous, your energy overtakes my mind and makes me unable to think straight. you are literally a true human being please know whatever happens between us I'll probably remember you forever randomly appearing in my life, just out of nowhere thanks for showing me you can in fact fall in love twice...... thanks for showing me how a real person looks like, how a person should feel and think..... Just this insane feeling of finding a person you admire so much it even feels odd. When I fi...

How about this ? April 27, 2019 at 07:22AM

Had a date 2 days ago. We matched on a dating site and texted back and forth. He couldn’t wait to see me. We set a date for the next day but canceled because of heavy rain. Then scheduled the next day after that day and finally met for a dinner. He was very interested and chatty and always complimented me. Both of us were nice to each other. We split the bill and I saw him off onto a taxi at the moment he had to leave before the metro closed. Then the next days he had been very active in texting and I could feel his strong interest. And he had asked for another date with me. He was a nice and fun guy and I like to hang out with him , but honestly I didn’t feel that connection. I struggled when and how I should tell him how I felt. Just now when he texted me asking how my day went, I finally told him that I would like to be normal friends with him and ask him if he still likes to hang out with me. He replied ‘of course ´. So I am very happy to get a friend from a date. Submitted A...

I'm turning 43(M) in a week, and wants to have kids. I'm finding that the women I'm meeting want to stay child-free or don't want any more children. I have 3 children from my previous relationship. I'm really close witn my youngest (5f) but not with my older children (17f/21m) because when the were growing up I wasn't really around ... long story short ... I was in the military and deployed ALOT (9 times in 15 years) ... also their mother harbors a lot of resentment towards me and "poisoned the well" while my 2 oldest were growing up. So I sort of feel cheated on the whole raising kids aspect. I usually bring the having children talk early on (date 2-3). My rationale is to make sure we're on the same page and not waste time pursuing a relationship that doesn't fufill my wants and needs. Am i going about this the wrong way? Submitted April 26, 2019 at 02:18PM I'm turning 43(M) in a week, and wants to have kids. I'm finding tha...

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we dated for 2 years. He was honestly an asshole, was way too dependent on alcohol to have fun, was aggressive, loud, obnoxious, selfish, and had the biggest ego I’ve ever seen but somehow was still so insecure and emotionally unstable. I had problems with how he never seemed to make me a priority as much as I made him one. He never expressed interest in the things I loved, despite me always going to sporting games with him, watching his favorite shows, letting him pick our plans the most of the time etc. We broke up recently and I know logically I’m better off and I deserve someone better. But the relationship wasn’t 2 years of straight misery. We did have a lot of fun together at times. He could be caring and sweet and make me feel loved. So I still find myself missing his companionship and wishing I weren’t single. How do I cope with this? Why do I miss with someone who didn’t treat me well? Sometimes I’ll get really angry over all the fucked up shit he did and I’ll feel independ...

So for some background, I have been with my girlfriend for close to 2 years now. For the most part our relationship is good. We’ve had our ups and downs like any other couple but I love her and she loves me. So the issue he is that I am tired of the direction my life is going. I am stuck in retail and hate it. After some time reflecting on everything in my life, I have decided that I want to join the military. To do this I have to lose around 60 pounds (I’ve already lost about 15, which I am very happy about). I know I can do this and after that I will be able to join and get some direction in my life. I have a plan laid out and I am willing and ready for the challenges that lie ahead of me. But my girlfriend is being very difficult about it. I understand some of her frustrations but at the same time I hate how hostile and discouraging she is about the whole thing. She makes derogatory comments about the whole thing, about the military and says she can’t believe she would ever be wi...

The newly weds are in my extended social group, myself and my partner used to be closer with them but had a falling out earlier this year and we were uninvited from their engagement party and not invited to the wedding.There's no animosity and we can be around them at social events with no issue. We were all together with a larger group recently and myself and my partner brought a good friend of ours to this event. At the end of the night the husband started messaging our friend which eventually led to him sending her a dick pic, his tattoos are visible so we've confirmed it's legitimate. I don't particularly want to get involved but I feel like I have a moral obligation to let the bride know. Aside from the moral dilemma I don't think she will believe me because of the falling out. Do I have a moral obligation? And how do I tell her? TL;DR Very recently married husband sent a dick pic to my friend, even with evidence I don't think the bride will believe me...

tl;dr: Trying to deal with my boyfriend who has a high sex drive and is difficult to reach compromise with. I've (M, 22) been dating my boyfriend (M, 29) for five months. Obviously we don't live together at this point. Regardless, he wants me to come over (since he lives alone, and I live in a dorm) every evening to have sex and/or sleep over. I'm usually on a busy schedule with remaining classes, working on my thesis and doing part-time work at a call center. Unless it's the weekend, I'm usually exhausted by the end of the day and don't have the energy or will to drive to his place, prepare for sex, have sex. Not to mention having to watch what and when I eat every single day (not going into the dirtier mechanics of anal sex, but you get the picture). My boyfriend works a 9 to 5, doesn't do much else throughout the day. He barely ever cooks or does housework. So from his perspective, he doesn't understand why I'm so tired during the week and not ...

For back story I used to best friends with this girl (never anything romantic) in high school. When college started we started to drift apart but our relationship would be like really strong for a while then we wouldn’t hear from each other for a few weeks then back to good friends it was really up and down and odd. 2 months ago I drunkenly told her that I was worried that I was being a bad friend and that it sometimes gets weird between us and she said that we were good and it was never weird and it’s all in my head. Ever Since that happened we’ve barely spoken. We hung out a few times in groups but even then we barely speak directly to each other. I just found out that she’s been bad mouthing me to some mutual friends and it honestly really hurt just because we were really close so it felt like a betrayal. I suck at confronting people and I really wanted us to just be back like we used to be a few years ago in HS. Should I even bother trying to fix this or should I just cut her off ...

So, I (17F) just started on antidepressants about a month ago. I haven’t been consistent with taking them so I know that they could be still be affecting me. I was told by my doctor that I shouldn’t be making big decisions while just starting and that they can really affect my mood and if I have side effects of depression I should stop taking them Im kinda feeling depressed about this because I feel so lost but at the same time i don’t know if I’m rushing it or over thinking it. So, I gave my boyfriend (17M) an ultimatum: he needs to make a little more time for me and text me more and do small romantic things (compliments, saying I’m thinking of you, that sort of thing) by next Thursday or Im breaking up with him. I told him that it doesn’t need to be full on romantic things, but I need to see that he’s willing to improve and wanting to be better to me. (He’s had a lot of problems with lying to me) The reason I gave him this ultimatum is because I haven’t been feeling his love. I s...

I need advice. So lately my bf has been playing video games late at night. I get it I guess, thats when his friends are on and he wants to play with them which is fine. But we have the same discussion every. single. damn. night. He gets on around 8, which he always complains is too late even though his friends arent even on that early. I ask him for a little me and him time every day about, cook dinner together, watch tv or youtube videos, listen to music, do art, anything thats just us, till 8 when he gets online. Every night I ask him to get off at 11 or 11:30 at the latest. He works at 7:30am every week morning and he always complains that he doesnt get enough sleep and is always tired. But every. single. God. damn. night. He complains to me that its not enough time and when I ask him nicely to try and be off at eleven or 11:30 he looks at me like ive killed his dog and says "but I'm having a lot of fun" It's like no matter what i do I can't verbally explain t...

my boyfriend (23m) and I (19f) have almost been together for a year (it will be a year in June). I know, I know, we're very young still and a year is and isn't super long to be together at the same time. but hear me out. this man is like a dream come true. honestly. he does so much for me and our relationship that it's kind of hard to believe, but at the same time he's such a giving person, and I try my hardest to put in the same amount of work as he does, because he deserves it as much as I do. here's where I need some help or ideas, whatever ya got. what should I do for him for our anniversary? we wont be able to celebrate on the actual day because he'll be in Michigan for his annual 2 week training, but when he gets home i want to surprise him. i have a few ideas like surprising him with a nice dinner and maybe - big maybe - pulling off the cheesy '365 things i love about you', but is there something else that is maybe more sentimental? little acts o...

Hey all. I'm really new to Reddit, and don't know much about this place. I figured it was a good place to share my thoughts. Anyways, as you know by now, there's this girl I have a pretty huge crush on at my school. She's currently in my computer class and sits directly behind me, in the row behind me. I've known her since 8th grade, and haven't really considered her as a person I have a crush on until literally like last week. Last semester we had the same history class, and near the beginning of the year I actually sat right next to her (but like I said, I didn't really think much of it). I honestly can't really tell how she feels about me. She's not out of my league, that's one thing for sure. I'm currently a sophomore in high school, 4.0, A's all my life, involved in school wrestling and track/field, YouTube channel with 4000+ subscribers, etc... I basically consider myself a half-jock half-nerd, since I also love video games and st...

Me and my girlfriend has been in a relationship for about 13 months. We have had the talk where we went over past intimate relationships, and I mentioned this girl I was dating for about 2 months when I was 17. Ever since I mentioned her I have found her stalking this girl, and she has been mentioning that she is insecure. Yesterday, however, she demanded to look through my texts with this girl on facebook. I had a conversation with her 9 months ago, and although it wasn't directly dirty it could appear flirty. I didn't even remember to have this conversation, so I was pretty shocked as well. Me and this past girl was pretty close friends in high school, then we started dating for a brief period of about 2 months, which also involved sex maybe 2-3 times. We broke it off, but remained pretty close friends. After seeing the text I have been unable to have a proper conversation with my girlfriend. She thinks she is nr2, and if I got the opportunity to get back with my "ex...

So, me (M20) met this amazing girl (19) on Reddit around 8 months ago. We hit it off from the start and one thing led to the other and we became very, very close. She is genuinely one of the smartest, funniest and strongest girls I have ever met and I appreciate her so much. She's gone through so much and stands tall. I developed feelings for her and so did she. We talked daily for a long time, hung out on call, played games, talked dirty on the phone, watched movies, video called, I even came to befriend her little 4 year old sister. But something happened, and I don't know what. At around Christmas, she started drifting apart a little bit and we didn't talk as much. I still was always there for her and will always be. I recorded silly songs for her and reminded her that I would be here whenever, but she never replied and if she did, it took her days. I recently made her an edited funny video about all I think about her still, after months of not talking. She replied and ...

My girlfriend and I have been with each other for just around four months now. We're both fresh out of college and she currently lives with her parents, while I live with some friends from college. Early on in the relationship she told me about her somewhat conservative parents. They have almost consistently been a hurdle to our relationship, and she keeps telling me that there is "nothing she can do" about it while she is still financially dependent upon them. The first time they found out she had even come over to my house she was 'banned from seeing me' for about a week, after which I had to meet both her parents and have a 'talk' about how she isn't allowed to be in private places with me, only public. As ridiculous as I think this is, I accepted, she was my first real relationship and I wanted to see where it would go. As a result the majority of our interactions pretty much exist through skype, however we do see each other about once a week, and...

My cousins’ father passed away unexpectedly and suddenly from a heart attack. He was not even 60 so it was a huge shock for his family, especially since he was the sole breadwinner. My cousins and I are on good terms, but we are not really close or anything. We’d talk when we gather together, otherwise we don’t make much of an effort to hang out or anything. The rest of the cousins are really worried about them, but because we’re not really close to them, I wonder how it’s best to support them? Thanks in advance. TL;DR: how to support cousins after their dad’s unexpected passing, when we are not close? Submitted April 27, 2019 at 06:12AM My cousins’ father passed away unexpectedly and suddenly from a heart attack. He was not even 60 so it was a huge shock for his family, especially since he was the sole breadwinner.My cousins and I are on good terms, but we are not really close or anything. We’d talk when we gather together, otherwise we don’t make much of an effort to hang ...

I (23F) have been with my boyfriend (24M) for 3 years now, we also live together. My boyfriend has apparently made plans to go travelling to Asia and Europe at the end of the year which is great however... it seems like he wants to go travelling solo, as he hasn't talked to me at all about his plans or really bought it up with me before, I only found out because he posted on his Instagram story asking if anyone else would be in Asia/Europe around those times.. I have always wanted to travel to Asia and Europe and if it were also with him that would be even better. We've made loose travel "plans" in the past, however they were never set in stone due to me completing university and both of us not having enough money saved up. I have just started a new job after uni, so being able to save money for travel is a new thing for me, whereas he has been working full-time for a while now and has started saving money. I guess I just feel frustrated at the lack of communicatio...

There's a girl [21 F] I like, and I [21 M] believe she may be having issues getting over her ex. Doesn't really matter(for the question) if she is or isn't, I'm giving her time, but this brought up another question in my head. How does one become attached to an Ex? I've never understood it. Maybe I'm just a cold person, but with any girl that's had romantic interest in me or vice versa, I've never had a problem permanently breaking things off when I decided I didn't like the relationship(even if it's just a friendship). This is including a 3 year relationship, I broke up with the girl, and my only contact with her after the breakup was a letter basically giving her closure and ground rules if she'd ever want to talk to me again(the reason for the breakup was a bit fucked). TL;DR : I think the girl I like is possibly attached to her ex. Made me wonder "why do people get attached?". Edit: fixed formatting and fixed confusing ty...

Am I (31M) crazy for thinking there may be a shot at a relationship with an older serious (30F) relationship that we broke off prior to her having personal issues? Ok, so I really need someone to talk me out of taking a trip I may regret to see S(30F). To give the current context and there will be more current details later but in short a girl who I absolutely considered the one for me and I have talked on and off and are trying to plan a visit for me to come see her as she does not have the kind of job (chef) that permits a ton of vacation time. This is where my problem arises as I am almost uncomfortable visiting because I think deep down I still love what our relationship was and think it can be revived as there was no great conflict or issue between us that really ended it, here comes the context. We dated much younger for a bit over two years, when we both were 18-20, we lived together at my apartment. I genuinely thought we would be married by now and I believe she did as well...

I (24F) am about a week away from moving away from my boyfriend (29M) who I have had my longest relationship yet and previously lived with. I have a lot of mixed emotions. There were 3 points in our relationship where I actually wanted and could envision marrying him and having children with him. We were on the same page for the important things for the future. However, my feelings came and left because of the trust issues, so I decided to accept a job offer this spring where I will be moving abroad. When we got together again this last fall before the job offer, he drunkingly asked me on two occasions to marry him. I said no both times because he was drunk. He asked a third time soberly, but without a ring and knowing about me taking the job. I hope that I am not sounding like a gold digger here, but I really couldn't take him seriously and felt hurt. He had the whole relationship to ask, and I would have said yes at earlier points and not be moving right now. I said no for the ...

Hi. On mobile, sorry if formatting sucks. So I met my friend, let's say Kayla, about two years ago. She's my usual physical type, so I was attracted to her right away. She is flirtatious in nature, so I didn't really assume something was weird if she was ever overly touchy, especially when we would drink together. She is a self-described "attention whore," too, so it was pretty easy for me to not develop an attraction outside of the initial, physical one when she so desperately pursued other men. This allowed us to become really close as friends, which is immensely valuable to me, so all was good. About a year ago, seemingly out of nowhere she mused on being eachother's "Plan B" if we weren't married to other people in the next ten years. I told her it was a horrible idea, and that I would never be a second choice for anyone. Later in the night, (after more drinks) she asked me to kiss her, which I did. We talked a little about dating and I ju...

I'm going to try to keep this short and sweet. Also on mobile so I apologize in advance for any formatting/grammatical errors. My boyfriend has started a labor intensive job and it tends to make him understandably tired, so sex during the weekdays has been non existent and we tend to do it on the weekends when he's fully rested. Usually we have no problems and everything is great, but around 2 weekends ago things got a little weird. We were fooling around, he got off but I didn't. No biggie, he said he would focus on me later in the night. But as bedtime rolled around he made no move to show me some love, and I got a little upset. I sat him down and told him it kinda hurt my feelings a little. I told him I understand he gets tired during the weekdays and I don't expect tons of sex from him, but the weekends are the only time we have any sexual fun. I felt like he just wanted to get off but didnt care if I did or not. He said he understood and would work on it, and we ...