Boyfriend think im being unreasonable

I need advice. So lately my bf has been playing video games late at night. I get it I guess, thats when his friends are on and he wants to play with them which is fine. But we have the same discussion every. single. damn. night. He gets on around 8, which he always complains is too late even though his friends arent even on that early. I ask him for a little me and him time every day about, cook dinner together, watch tv or youtube videos, listen to music, do art, anything thats just us, till 8 when he gets online. Every night I ask him to get off at 11 or 11:30 at the latest. He works at 7:30am every week morning and he always complains that he doesnt get enough sleep and is always tired. But every. single. God. damn. night. He complains to me that its not enough time and when I ask him nicely to try and be off at eleven or 11:30 he looks at me like ive killed his dog and says "but I'm having a lot of fun" It's like no matter what i do I can't verbally explain to him that its reasonable for me to ask this since 1. I has a sleeping disorder which makes it really hard for me to fall and stay asleep 2. Hes so loud and he always wakes me up if I do fall asleep 3. He complains about his sleep all the time, constantly says he wants to go to bed early the. Plays games 4. No matter what, even if I work that morning and need to sleep cause i never get good sleep, he wakes me up at 6 am every morning cause hes the loudest person ever getting up

Ive explained all these things to him before, ive explained how it males me feel, and that i feel like hes choosing video games over me sometimes (refused to go out to dates cause what of the boys are on tonight and they wanna play. Dates exhaust me) I'm at the end of my rope. I just want some advise on how to explain it to him so he'll actually listen.

Tl;dr: bf constantly plays video games from 8-12 or 1 even though I ask him to get off at 11 or 11:30 cause he wakes up at 7:30am and I dont sleep well, yet he chooses to ignore my requests and make me feel like shit cause i ask this even though I make him aware of how i feel and that I want him to get off at the same time every night.

Submitted April 27, 2019 at 05:32AM

I need advice. So lately my bf has been playing video games late at night. I get it I guess, thats when his friends are on and he wants to play with them which is fine. But we have the same discussion every. single. damn. night. He gets on around 8, which he always complains is too late even though his friends arent even on that early. I ask him for a little me and him time every day about, cook dinner together, watch tv or youtube videos, listen to music, do art, anything thats just us, till 8 when he gets online. Every night I ask him to get off at 11 or 11:30 at the latest. He works at 7:30am every week morning and he always complains that he doesnt get enough sleep and is always tired. But every. single. God. damn. night. He complains to me that its not enough time and when I ask him nicely to try and be off at eleven or 11:30 he looks at me like ive killed his dog and says "but I'm having a lot of fun" It's like no matter what i do I can't verbally explain to him that its reasonable for me to ask this since 1. I has a sleeping disorder which makes it really hard for me to fall and stay asleep 2. Hes so loud and he always wakes me up if I do fall asleep 3. He complains about his sleep all the time, constantly says he wants to go to bed early the. Plays games 4. No matter what, even if I work that morning and need to sleep cause i never get good sleep, he wakes me up at 6 am every morning cause hes the loudest person ever getting upIve explained all these things to him before, ive explained how it males me feel, and that i feel like hes choosing video games over me sometimes (refused to go out to dates cause what of the boys are on tonight and they wanna play. Dates exhaust me) I'm at the end of my rope. I just want some advise on how to explain it to him so he'll actually listen.Tl;dr: bf constantly plays video games from 8-12 or 1 even though I ask him to get off at 11 or 11:30 cause he wakes up at 7:30am and I dont sleep well, yet he chooses to ignore my requests and make me feel like shit cause i ask this even though I make him aware of how i feel and that I want him to get off at the same time every night.