God only knows 🤷‍♂️ nobody's ever done anything about it! December 19, 2020 at 12:02AM

A crush? December 19, 2020 at 12:01AM

Oh my gosh I've watched Fisherman's Friend like 10 times! I love sea shanties! December 18, 2020 at 11:59PM

The question you have to ask yourself: when talking about asexuality with anyone at any time, are you advocating for yourself or for the community at large? If the former, I'd argue you should do what's best for you while understanding that stating you are something without some research may be harmful down the line. If the latter, I'd say pushing a fixed definition makes more sense to gain more positive recognition and acceptance for the community. December 18, 2020 at 11:59PM

My brother got me a flag for my birthday. My parents think it’s a phase so I haven’t shown them my flag. I have it hanging in my wardrobe among my longer clothes. I would probably hang it up properly if they were more accepting but I’m ok with it being hidden away for now. I think it is ultimately up to you. If you are willing to talk to your parents then that’s great. But if not you have to decide weather you want to hide a flag in a closet or just not get one for the time being December 18, 2020 at 11:50PM

Sea shanties all day every day December 18, 2020 at 11:43PM

Definitely into your heavier more synth instruments then. Honestly, if you have Spotify, going to your favourite Muse song for that day and selecting “Go to Radio” via the ellipsis (...) could help find new music/bands. It’s honestly how I found some of the stuff I listen to religiously now. December 18, 2020 at 11:43PM

I will occasionally read YA books, and every time I do I get frustrated. I can't tell if the type of romance that plagues these books are just badly written fanfiction-level stuff, which may or may not be influenced by how horny the author is, or just what a depiction of what awkward teen romance is suppose to look like (I wouldn't know since I have little interest or experience with that sort of thing). The overwhelming horniness that permeates any given relationship in YA books just overtakes what made the relationship actually interesting (at least, to me). I actually don't think I mind sex scenes or romance, but I can't help to believe most it is just so badly written that maybe I actually do? December 18, 2020 at 11:42PM

Neat! December 18, 2020 at 11:41PM

This is a big time struggle. Especially when romantic and platonic feelings are very similar at times. I have made people feel very awkward when I have told them I like them but then completely contradicted myself by saying that I want to be friends. Btw. It’s sometimes both and it can either be a good thing cause then it’s just fun times with the bonus of forehead kisses. Or a bad thing being that they don’t want to be friends or romantic partners for an unknown reason December 18, 2020 at 11:39PM

I like a lot of things tbh, so long as the tune is good. But I love muse. They’re always my go to December 18, 2020 at 11:38PM

I recently discovered 21 pilots and have been wondering how I missed them for so long December 18, 2020 at 11:37PM

According to Spotify my main genres of music are: Alternative Metal, Psychedelic Music, Video Game Music, Post-Rock and Space Rock. Most of those genres are very instrumentally heavy (more instruments than vocals). I’m rather fond of instrumental music, orchestral and heavier stuff. Ernesto Schnack does some relaxing pieces. I’m unsure what I could recommend being in the same vein as Muse as their music changes style quite frequently. December 18, 2020 at 11:37PM

Reverse succubus, I love it December 18, 2020 at 11:37PM

Oh goodness! A Fib? I hope that got fixed quickly December 18, 2020 at 11:33PM

Yeah I have the ace flag as my calling card :) December 18, 2020 at 11:32PM

I know right? It always seems like we're forgotten by everyone but here we are December 18, 2020 at 11:32PM

Jinjer, a extreme progressive heavy metal band from ukraine December 18, 2020 at 11:30PM

I just started playing today and I was so happy to see ace’s represented! December 18, 2020 at 11:30PM

I like lots of music. I definitely don’t like country or rnb. I’ll jam to almost any pop song or older rock song. I grew up listening to all the 80s songs and 2000s pop so I’ll happily listen to either that or some of the new twenty one pilots / panic! At the disco December 18, 2020 at 11:27PM

I've been using that calling card since June. Its really cool to see the game have pride flags for us and other folks in the LGBT community. December 18, 2020 at 11:27PM

Oo and it has the Romanian flag too, neet December 18, 2020 at 11:24PM

Thanks for your comment and i´m very sorry you went through this. As you said, the difference between not wanting something and not wanting to refuse is very relatable. I hope you´re doing well and you sound like an amazing person. <3 good luck on your journey and if you ever need to talk, I´m always willing to do so. December 18, 2020 at 11:17PM