if she doesn’t accept that that sounds like not a you problem jokes aside, if she’s at all a good friend, she’ll be fine September 03, 2022 at 01:39AM

Title, I was dating this girl for almost 4years online and I had planned to move to where she was staying by the end of this year (I did not get a chance to tell her but I was planning on telling her in a few weeks on her birthday). Unfortunately she broke things off with me a week ago and told me she had just found someone she was interested in a month beforehand, but did not tell me. When I asked why she broke things off, she left very vague answers for me listing that people drift apart, we were each other's first relationship and that I was just good enough. She told me that both her and I could have done better and that we were heavily flawed people. I don't know how to resolve issues left unspoken since I am a very dense person. Is there anyway I can convince her to talk with me more often at least? I still love and miss talking to her. When I tell her things I wanted to do with her in the future, she responds back with that we just drifted apart and that no one was a ...

so I posted a few weeks ago about how I was forced to cease communication with a guy that I developed some strong feelings for because he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship and wasn't sure when he ever would be. to be honest this broke my heart as we had been dating for 4/5 months and all the messages he had sent (even the last few) told me how amazing he thought I was and how he was going to regret his decision in the future. maybe I am still not over this guy as I miss him every single day. nonetheless I went back on hinge to try new things after maybe 4 weeks. I'm ngl I hate texting so online dating isn't my favourite but everyone has recommended it so I thought I'd try. I started speaking to some random guy for marine 3 days. I appreciate this is nothing serious and I don't even know the person but he has JUST messaged to say how he's recently out a relationship and not ready for another one. what the fuck. I just feel like this is a sec...

TIL they're not just a cool vacation with your spouse September 02, 2022 at 11:49PM

Once I realized guys could actually want to do stuff just based on my face, I want to literally cover myself with a blanket.... September 02, 2022 at 11:48PM