Its not that i dont want i just dont get any female attention maybe they dont find me attractive enough to be worth their time who knows Submitted November 24, 2021 at 01:05AM Its not that i dont want i just dont get any female attention maybe they dont find me attractive enough to be worth their time who knows

I am in my mid-20s and still an unkissed virgin. I have been trying to find a girlfriend for a good two years. But I hardly get any likes on platforms like Tinder and Bumble. Most of my dates end with "the evening with you was nice, but the spark is not there". I'm at a loss by now. All I want for christmas is ... a girlfriend. I can't think of anything else that I could do. I have optimized my photos and even paid for Tinder Premium. Neither has brought much improvement. I don't know what I'm doing wrong on dates. I've tried asking the women for feedback, but have never gotten a useful and honest answer. Things are no better in real life. My circle of friends and my job in the tech industry are dominated by men. So I signed up for bouldering. But most of the women are already taken. I don't understand why I have such a hard time finding a partner. I'm certainly not a handsome man, I had to learn that the hard way on Tinder. I've tried cha...

You may have seen my OG post, although its now delated. For those who hadn't seen it, ill just write a quick summary. The girl I wanted to ask out is my brothers girlfriends sister in july. We didnt really interact until around a month ago. We spent the weekend at there house sense my parents went out for the weekend, we all ended up going to a amusement park,and we ended up splitting up and i thought we had a good time. Then last week we all went to the boardwalk at the beach (4 of us plus another couple) and We spent like 3.5 hours together, shopping and playing minigolf. I had a good time and I thought she did too. I was advised to ask my brother about it Now onto the update: I told my brother about it and he said no. When I asked why he said that wouldn't work out. Thats all he said, and that was the end of the duscussion. So yeah thats not gonna happen. TL;DR My brother said no to asking her out. Submitted November 24, 2021 at 01:07AM You may have seen my OG p...

I [28M] recently reached out to someone [28F] I was involved with in college. We haven't spoken since college (no hard feelings, just kinda drifted apart), so while it took her by surprise, we were quickly back to joking around and doing what little catching up we could do via text. I asked if she wanted to meet up for coffee so we could actually catch up and she agreed. I have a pretty good feeling that this could progress to reestablishing romantic intentions, but it's been a while since I've dated and I don't want to botch the execution. I'm wondering how to proceed if the coffee "date" (not really a date) goes well. Should I ask her on a real date then and there? Should I let some time pass and proposition her later via text? Should I not ask for a date at all and just ask when I could see her again? If so, when should I communicate romantic intent and how? I'm a big overthinker and I don't have a keen dating instinct, so even though the ans...

Honestly this person is probably just salty about how their ace ex broke up with them because they kept asking for sex and their ex didn’t want them. I’ve never dated another ace person and personally it makes really no difference. November 24, 2021 at 12:49AM

What post did you see aphobia in? November 24, 2021 at 12:47AM

The definition for asexuality actually used to be "no sexual attraction and no desire for sexual activity". Why did that change? To start, you're inaccurate about the old definition. It can refer to a lack of sexual attraction or a lack of desire for sexual activity, not "and". It's still used that way in media and in some dictionaries, including standard ones. One of the problems with that definition is that those two things (attraction and desire) exist independently. Ex. A person can be attracted to the hot new employee at their workplace but have no desire to actually follow through and have sex with them; a person can desire to have sex with their partner even if they don't particularly like the paunch belly. Another problem is the definition's inconsistency with other orientation terms. A homosexual person in a heterosexual marriage (with biological children!) is not straight or bi, but consistency with the "action" part of ase...

Why are people so ignorant? Do they just choose to be like this or are they just stupid? November 24, 2021 at 12:47AM

She's gonna wear a WHITE FANCY GOWN? How DARE she??? What a shitstain of a sister is OP. She seems actually excited at the prospect of ridiculing her sibling online and gathering people to call her unhinged, over a fucking party and a mass, where no one will be scammed or harmed. She should be ashamed of making that post. November 24, 2021 at 12:47AM

Ok bear with me. My work has challenges that allow me to get discounts on my health insurance that include step challenges. Also garmin has step challenges. I wear my step tracker on my left arm and masterbate with my right. In order to get steps sometimes I put my tracker on my right arm. When I do that I can have 1200 to 2500 steps before I get outta bed! 2500 if I'm edging. Anyone else do that? How many "steps" do you get? Submitted November 24, 2021 at 12:27AM Ok bear with me. My work has challenges that allow me to get discounts on my health insurance that include step challenges. Also garmin has step challenges. I wear my step tracker on my left arm and masterbate with my right. In order to get steps sometimes I put my tracker on my right arm. When I do that I can have 1200 to 2500 steps before I get outta bed! 2500 if I'm edging. Anyone else do that? How many "steps" do you get?

Hey guys I even come as a warrior tired of a great battle. I'm about to declare to you my biggest quest for porn. Let's go to the story I was just a kid who discovered a DVD tape in dad's closet. It was my first porn. The cover of the tape contained a blonde woman and an almost middle-aged man who wore dark-lensed glasses. The blonde, lead actress, was a painter and this guy make her a submissive. If I'm not mistaken, the name of the movie was "The Submission" or "Submission". And I believe the name of the actress and actor was Jane and Jake respectively. But for this information I never found this porn on the internet. The DVD was lost and I never saw it again. It was a very good movie. Can anyone help this noble warrior? Submitted November 24, 2021 at 12:35AM Hey guys I even come as a warrior tired of a great battle. I'm about to declare to you my biggest quest for porn.Let's go to the storyI was just a kid who discovered a DVD ...

My boyfriend (of 10 years) when happy will claim he loves our sex which is predominantly giving each other head, missionary, end in doggy style. Again, for 10 years. I really love our sex and I don’t doubt that he does, too. However, every once in awhile, we get into a huge blow out and will call each other boring in bed. I think he really means it though & I’m almost sure that I mean it, too. I’ve constantly, consistently, & frequently asked what he’d like to do different in the bedroom when we’re being friendly and openly communicating and it’s always the same, "I like what we do.” Why call me a boring lay when you’re pissed then? I do feel feel he gets a bit embarrassed at these open discussions & I certainly get the feeling that we’re both sub because I kind of do, too, albeit not as much as him it would seem. Historically before him I’ve always been with more dom partners so this has been really sticky for me. Does he mean what he says when we’re frustrated with ...

Over the weekend, an old tinder hookup asked to have sex. I wasn’t interested at all because it sucked the one time but I realized I hadn’t been horny in awhile. I hadn’t even thought to masturbate. I thought about my last sexual partner (good sex) but even that didn’t excite me. Well I concluded something was wrong….until I went to work yesterday. As soon as I saw my coworker it was as if a party was happening in my vagina. I had two heartbeats. Same thing today! We’ve been pretty friendly since I started the position. He checks on me, gives compliments etc. I know I shouldn’t but I want to fuck. I always thought he was cute but now I have a huge urge to pull him into a room and get busy. I can’t help but to think what it would be like. Would he make me cum? How big is his dick? Is he freaky? I like the mystery. I want what I shouldn’t have. Please share your “coworker & sex” story! Submitted November 24, 2021 at 12:45AM Over the weekend, an old tinder hookup asked to h...

For anyone else out there who are married and have been married for a long time, what's the sex like? Sex with my wife (~ once per 1-3 months) is so mechanical and void of desire. I feel she doesn't want sex anymore. I know she loves and cares about me but I need to feel wanted in that way but she has stated that she may even be asexual or something along those lines. I've spoken to her about this a few times but I don't feel anything really improves, I think it's just really difficult for her to be aroused properly as its difficult to get her in the mood. I don't want to leave her, she's the love of my life, but I feel I'm giving up something that matters to me so much. I miss being touched in that way and the last time she initiated sex must have been close to 6 years ago. I think that maybe she's not attracted to me, but she keeps telling me that looks are not what attracts her to people, she like their personality and humour more that anything. ...

My (20F) FWB (32F) is great. We have the best sex and conversations, but the caveat is that we’re both super busy (he is a ceo and I’m also on the founding team of a startup), so we’ve actually only hung out three times over the past few months because our schedules hardly align. Our dates have been high quality (really exquisite meals/places) and we usually spend the whole night together (say 7pm-1am), we just get along so well (he says I remind him of himself) and time flies by. I’ve also been introduced to some of his friends after he took me to a housewarming soirée, and he told me they wanted to see me again. I like him and I don’t expect this to go past fun/casual dating, but it’s clear that we prefer each other’s company enough to keep trying to meet. A few days back he texted that a female friend from out of town was visiting him, then he asked if I wanted to go on a “date” with the two of them (he used “me and her” when asking, not “us”). Prior to this we’d been trying to sc...

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I (21m) need some help about a situation and I don't know what to do anymore.  I'm going to explain the story between me and her (25f) and I want to know what I should to do. There is a girl I met 3 years ago. My mother and her mother knew each other and that's how we got to know each other.  In short, there was a connection when we first met and we talked a lot when we went out. We didn't go out on dates, it was just the four of us. There were two reasons why I hadn't suggested going on a date.  She was always came late when the four of us met or she didn't come at all. This resulted in fear of getting stood up. The second reason was that at a time when I was still mentally going through a breakup and I didn't like going out with anyone. I did eventually had a date with her, but more on that later. Over a year later, I saw that I was not happy with my situation in my life. I didn't have many friends anymore and was stuck in the past (if that makes se...

We met on tinder and exchanged our numbers. We were chatting most of the time. But whenever i ask her to meet. She changed the topic. She works from 3pm-11pm. After one week i took the courage and asked her out that let me walk you to your building from your work. she said yes. It was 10 minutes walk but we talked alot and everything was positive. Then again i asked her to go out but she said i like to be at home. But we call and talk on the phone. Whenever it comes to go out she avoid that topic. But i want to spend sometime with her in real. Go to beach or watch a movie. Really confused what to do? Submitted November 24, 2021 at 12:14AM We met on tinder and exchanged our numbers. We were chatting most of the time. But whenever i ask her to meet. She changed the topic.She works from 3pm-11pm. After one week i took the courage and asked her out that let me walk you to your building from your work. she said yes. It was 10 minutes walk but we talked alot and everything was posi...

I (23F) Had a great time with this guy (25M) and the last moment before getting in the Uber I realized ‘oh maybe this will be a one and done thing.’ We hadn’t said anything about what we expected from hooking up before hand. I’m pretty insecure with my looks but I think I’m alright, and he told me I was sexy throughout the night and seemed really interested generally. I’d like to hook up with him again bc I don’t put myself out there that much, but I don’t want him to think I’m trying for anything more serious. I also get that mostly men want women to be more upfront and confident, but I’m just so worried he actually had a terrible time and doesn’t want to see me again for that reason. Because in my mind if he was attracted to me, why wouldn’t he reach out to me? It’s only been about 4 days but still. I also don’t even know how or what I should text him, plz help my overthinking ass. Submitted November 23, 2021 at 11:29PM I (23F) Had a great time with this guy (25M) and the l...

I (33M) am supposed to meet this girl Friday. Problem is that she lives 2 hours away from me. She seems nice and all, but I don't know if that distance is worth it. Has any had success with such a distance? Thanks in advance! Submitted November 24, 2021 at 12:14AM I (33M) am supposed to meet this girl Friday. Problem is that she lives 2 hours away from me. She seems nice and all, but I don't know if that distance is worth it. Has any had success with such a distance?Thanks in advance!