What age should I be dating. I am 35 year old male. Should I date older than me or younger? Submitted November 29, 2022 at 01:15AM What age should I be dating. I am 35 year old male. Should I date older than me or younger?

Welp, this isn't a place to make jokes I see. My bad. November 29, 2022 at 12:09AM

I always thought aroaces have spades because the tip of the spade looks like a black, upside down heart (with a stick through it), so it's like the opposite of romance. That's how I always saw it. November 29, 2022 at 12:09AM

I think the good ones rely less in lust. Once I heard some guy talking to his friends about his gf saying "dude I don't even want to fuck her I just want to make her happy". And they are still together and happy after many years. I think, in general, love wins over in good healthy relationships and lust less so? Idk. As personal experience lust for me is one more need that feels good to take care of from time to time, like a vampire that doesn't need to sleep but still likes to do it because of the dreams and because it feels nice. So I don't have a context for relying on lust. On love yes. November 29, 2022 at 12:08AM

So about a year ago I finally realized my partner of 11 years was a toxic shitty person and ended it. I spent a year by myself starting grad school, losing weight, working on self improvement. I realized recently that I want to start dating again, but I’ve never dated before. I start dating my partner as a teenager, (i’m 28F) so I don’t really know how any of this works. When I ask around everyone says they either met in college or on a dating app. I don’t feel great about apps, I feel like I have a RBF in all my pictures, and every interaction I’ve had is just like sex please? (I’m up for casual sex, but I need to meet someone first before I know I want that). I don’t know if I want a relationship yet, but I do want to date around and see what’s out there. I’ll take any and all advice, I have no idea what I’m doing. Submitted November 29, 2022 at 12:15AM So about a year ago I finally realized my partner of 11 years was a toxic shitty person and ended it. I spent a year by mysel

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