I recently had a bad breakup. It was terrible. And so, just as a mind-diverting activity, I downloaded a dating app where I matched with a guy. I was visiting another city during vacation, where the guy lived.. but it was my last day so I couldn’t go on a real date with him or even meet. I specifically mentioned 10 mins into the convo, “Now that you know I won’t be able to meet you, do you still wanna talk?” And he said he is okay with it. This was 5 days ago, and we have been texting and sending snaps back and forth. He replies a little late to my texts but I honestly don’t care about that. He asked for my Instagram and we started talking a little there too. We were casually talking and harmlessly flirting a little too, nothing major. But i sent him a text today and he has seen-zoned it for 7 hours. I am not sure how online dating works (I know this isn’t exactly dating), but is it common for people to leave you on seen like that? Or is he just a jerk? Submitted September 18, 2...

This guy and I have been going out on dates and he flirts a LOT. I thought I was pretty good but it gets to me sometimes and I’ll get shy, avoid eye contact and won’t be able to face him He normally just laughs but I’m not sure if this is giving more of a friend vibe than someone I’m attracted to vibe. Guys what are your opinions. Submitted September 18, 2023 at 11:59PM This guy and I have been going out on dates and he flirts a LOT. I thought I was pretty good but it gets to me sometimes and I’ll get shy, avoid eye contact and won’t be able to face himHe normally just laughs but I’m not sure if this is giving more of a friend vibe than someone I’m attracted to vibe. Guys what are your opinions.

I’m a 22 year old guy. I never been in a serious relationship I dated 2 girls ever 1 I was paired up with when I was 18 she lost interest. And a girl I met on hinge at 21 idk what happened one day she was interested next ghosting me or at least it seemed she was interested. I don’t think my looks are an issue I’m average but I have a few good features like I have blue eyes I get compliments on regularly, I tan real well, I have dark hair, was once told I had a nice ass (by a older woman). I think my biggest issue rn is meeting people and idk if it’s my social skills over text suck or what but I have a real hard time trying to keep a convo going with someone i just met over texting (like on dating app chats and stuff) I’m a lot better in person. I really want to get into a serious relationship not just a hookup and I feel like dating apps are my best bet but idk it’s hard Submitted September 19, 2023 at 12:05AM I’m a 22 year old guy. I never been in a serious relationship I da...

Need advice! I (24F) am too embarrassed to tell a friend about my current situation. I met this guy on a dating app a few weeks ago. From the start he showed strong affection for me and showered me with complements. We moved pretty quickly on a series of dates in a short period of time where I reciprocated the infatuation. Since learning more about him I have noticed some major red flags. He is comfortable stealing often, moves quickly from job to job, spends all his time wandering outside, and only wants to hang out at the park? I felt like he presented himself differently to me when we first met, like he had his life together when he clearly does not. We are scheduled to go on another date but I feel sure he is not for me. What should I do? Tell him over text message? Go on the date and tell him in person? Thank you god bless Submitted September 19, 2023 at 12:14AM Need advice! I (24F) am too embarrassed to tell a friend about my current situation. I met this guy on a dating a...

I met a guy on Bumble and we were supposed to meet at 6:30 for dinner. I texted him the night before just to confirm date, no response and I had a bad gut feeling. I texted him again at 5:00 p.m. because I didn't want to get ready and leave my house if no date was happening. He texted me saying that he was sick for the past few days but wants to reschedule for 'maybe' Thursday but will let me know later in the week. He didn't even apologize. I knew something was off. If he hasn't been feeling well for a few days, fine. Things happen, I get it but the fact that he waited an hour and a half before the date and I had to text him twice to confirm leaves a bad taste in my mouth. My friends are telling me to ghost him and I basically agree. Thoughts? Submitted September 19, 2023 at 12:15AM I met a guy on Bumble and we were supposed to meet at 6:30 for dinner. I texted him the night before just to confirm date, no response and I had a bad gut feeling. I texted him a...