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His ex is still living with him and we are “together”

The question: would you wait for him, be jealous, or committed and how would you move forward? Situation: During summer last year myself (W30) met a guy (M36) in a summer vacation and we fell in love. He was back in the days 6-7 years in a relationship with a 5 years older girl, I was single. He is well financially situated, can’t really assume what his real income or job is, however he was in jail for some minor tax reasons, drinks and does cocaine when going out…Girl was loyal the whole time. We kept on seeing each other for 3 months and all this time I was requesting a plan, any indication how this should move forward as he was telling to everyone how he finally found his one love (me) and is happy. In his family there is history of cheating on one or two places and in mine too. So I broke up after three months as it became an emotional torture for me and I felt super bad for being the affair who’s ruining the relationship. Two weeks after we broke up he comes back saying he broke...

Where can I (22 F) find provider males?

Im just going to be straight to the point I graduated school and started working 6 months ago tbh I dislike working. Im not a fan of the commute etc and my job only pays ~35k a year, I live in Dallas so its manageable but I would honestly like to meet a provider male who can handle the bills and give me and possible children (2 or 3) and upper class lifestyle. Ive estimated this amount to be $250k USD salary in Dallas area closer to 500k if in New York or California. Basically my question is where to find these men? Im not looking for a sugar daddy Ive done that before, money was fine but it was gross tbh because I think he thought I would have sex with him. Are there apps to meet succesful men? How to go about this? Thanks Submitted January 04, 2022 at 02:02AM Im just going to be straight to the point I graduated school and started working 6 months ago tbh I dislike working. Im not a fan of the commute etc and my job only pays ~35k a year, I live in Dallas so its manageable but...

Teasing

Feels weird cuz this isn’t about dating, but about casual sex, but not sure where else to post. I’ve been flirting with a guy and we’ve made very explicit jokes. I’m not looking for anything with strings attached now, but am attracted and would totally sleep with him. Earlier after a pretty explicit flirtatious exchange, he says that I should know that he’s just teasing, and hopes he isn’t breaking boundaries, and that it’s just teasing and doesn’t mean anything. Is this his way of trying to convey to me his boundary that he isn’t interested in casual sex? Or is he trying to be a gentleman and/or avoid rejection? Submitted January 04, 2022 at 02:06AM Feels weird cuz this isn’t about dating, but about casual sex, but not sure where else to post.I’ve been flirting with a guy and we’ve made very explicit jokes. I’m not looking for anything with strings attached now, but am attracted and would totally sleep with him. Earlier after a pretty explicit flirtatious exchange, he says th...

/u/_alex_perdue on What does “defenestration” make you think of poll?

Avenge Vilem Slavata! Overthrow the Elector and bring Bohemia back under Imperial rule! January 04, 2022 at 01:48AM

In the friend zone idk what to do

Me (22F) and this guy (22M) started off as friends with benefits when we met through bumble. We hit it off immediately but he friendzones me after a few nights together. Confusing and hurtful to me because he seemed very interested in me and was very sweet to me and I could see us becoming serious. He says we can still be friends and I agree just to be nice and civil. He continues to text me consistently and then commuted 2 hrs to visit before I left to go home for the holidays. While I’ve been home he’s texted me everyday even when I leave him on read and we’ve FaceTimed at his request and has even slightly flirted with me. I really like him and I’m torn between telling him I feel or just completely breaking all contact with him. Idk what advice I’m looking for but I just needed to vent. Submitted January 04, 2022 at 01:15AM Me (22F) and this guy (22M) started off as friends with benefits when we met through bumble. We hit it off immediately but he friendzones me after a few ni...

/u/Dull_Grapefruit7837 on Y'all ever just???

Yeah maybe I'm just overthinking and need some time to get over this January 03, 2022 at 11:32PM

Tips on how to get over a breakup

So I (M26) ended things with this girl (F24) that I was seeing for a few months (well I say I, it was more mutual than anything). Naturally I feel pretty (actually a lot) sad, cause I liked her a lot but knew that long term we weren’t compatible. It had been a while since I’d been in the dating game so kinda forgot how this felt. Any tips on how to get over the initial phase of feeling pretty depressed? Submitted January 04, 2022 at 12:14AM So I (M26) ended things with this girl (F24) that I was seeing for a few months (well I say I, it was more mutual than anything).Naturally I feel pretty (actually a lot) sad, cause I liked her a lot but knew that long term we weren’t compatible.It had been a while since I’d been in the dating game so kinda forgot how this felt. Any tips on how to get over the initial phase of feeling pretty depressed?

/u/AceGreyroEnby on What genre of music do you like?

Soundtracks to games/movies/tv shows and Opera are what I mainly listen to nowadays. January 03, 2022 at 11:32PM