I remember kinda forcing myself to have sexual dreams and tried placebo effecting my brain into liking them when I was younger because everyone else seemed interested in sex but I just wasn’t September 15, 2021 at 11:53PM

I had one start, but before it could get anywhere I woke up very confused September 15, 2021 at 11:52PM

Don’t know if it counts as sexual, I had a dream where the person I currently like romantically was very visibly not wearing any underwear under her skirt. Dream me was more worried about the legal consequences of this rather than the fact that she was basically nude. It’s the only real “sexual” dream I think I’ve ever had. September 15, 2021 at 11:50PM

I call them stirrings after the plot point from The Giver lol. They are rare for me and never about an actual person. Just sorta the vague shape of a girl. I've never had sex so that might change if I ever do. They are sorta neutral for me. Just kinda weird but at least they're not of like my friends or something. September 15, 2021 at 11:50PM

How long should sex be how long should I be lasting for? Not foreplay included just sex Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:30AM How long should sex be how long should I be lasting for? Not foreplay included just sex

ok so i don’t know much abt periods and stuff and how cycles work. we have sex and i wear a condom and she’s on birth control. she is a day late and im afraid it won’t start. we’re waiting till friday to see if she needs to get a test. can someone help me understand what’s going on? Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:31AM ok so i don’t know much abt periods and stuff and how cycles work. we have sex and i wear a condom and she’s on birth control. she is a day late and im afraid it won’t start. we’re waiting till friday to see if she needs to get a test. can someone help me understand what’s going on?

Hello there, so, I've just created this throwaway account, because this seems slightly embarassing. I sincerely hope, this is the right subreddit for this (nsfw just in case). Does anyone know of a way to decrease a man's stamina during sex (optimally without drugs)? I usually take a very long time to arrive, and while that may seem like a pretty neat deal to many people, for partners it can get rather frustrating. My girlfriend has stated a few times, that it gets very tough to keep going after a while (due to exhaustion, sensitivity, or sometimes if we're a little rougher, even pain), and to be honest, it's embarassing. I've googled the issue before, and a lot of the things I see basically boil down to don't masturbate for a while, get yourself horny beforehand, or finish yourself later, the first two i've tried of course, and the last one basically meaning "go masturbate after sex" which is just.. that's cuddle time >.> Quick not...

Basically I want to be kidnapped by midgets and tickle tortured. It’s a random fantasy I have and I don’t care the gender of the midgets. Could this be a sexual fantasy without sex involved? I don’t get aroused by this fantasy. This is my only tickle fantasy. Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:54AM Basically I want to be kidnapped by midgets and tickle tortured. It’s a random fantasy I have and I don’t care the gender of the midgets. Could this be a sexual fantasy without sex involved? I don’t get aroused by this fantasy. This is my only tickle fantasy.

I have tried different hormonal types of birth control and I didn’t like them so I am currently off of all birth control (except using condoms). I got my iud removed a few days ago and my bf and I have been using a condom but both times he told me to take it off during sex and he said it’s because it makes it harder for him to cum. It is just annoying because it defeats the whole purpose of the condom and even though he pulls out it still makes me worried because of pre cum :(. He’s so used to not using a condom now and this all stresses me out. Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:55AM I have tried different hormonal types of birth control and I didn’t like them so I am currently off of all birth control (except using condoms). I got my iud removed a few days ago and my bf and I have been using a condom but both times he told me to take it off during sex and he said it’s because it makes it harder for him to cum. It is just annoying because it defeats the whole purpose of the con...

Hi all, currently trying to figure out where to go in this current relationship and whether the person I'm with is someone I'll be best friends with vs. someone who is a long-term romantic partner. We've been going out for almost 6 months now. I don't feel much romantic butterfly-like physical attraction, but I do feel the following: feel like I can tell her anything / vice versa; feeling safe with each other. have a ton of fun with her no matter what we're doing; time passes too quickly when i'm with her. on the same page about a lot of core values always respect / kind to one another care about her - always thinking about what to do next with her, about what to get her for an upcoming event, hoping that she is happy We've already said to each other that we'll be best friends forever no matter what happens. This is my first relationship, so I'm trying to figure out whether this is going to work long-term or not. Any advice would be helpful!...

Not sure if this is the place, but any tips from anyone on how I (29F) should get over a one night stand (27M) that ghosted me after (well, never contacted me after nor responded to my text). I think I’m caught up bc I had a great first impression in all aspects. But now I’m just sad and feeling like I did something wrong (even though I know he’s younger than me and probably just wasn’t looking for anything else at all) Submitted September 15, 2021 at 11:57PM Not sure if this is the place, but any tips from anyone on how I (29F) should get over a one night stand (27M) that ghosted me after (well, never contacted me after nor responded to my text). I think I’m caught up bc I had a great first impression in all aspects. But now I’m just sad and feeling like I did something wrong (even though I know he’s younger than me and probably just wasn’t looking for anything else at all)

In the past couple of years I've been on numerous dates and all the girls whom I like we'll date anywhere from 3-6 weeks and then the girls just seem to lose interest and end it? I don't know what I'm doing that maybe causing this: any suggestions or tips would be appreciated. Submitted September 15, 2021 at 11:58PM In the past couple of years I've been on numerous dates and all the girls whom I like we'll date anywhere from 3-6 weeks and then the girls just seem to lose interest and end it? I don't know what I'm doing that maybe causing this: any suggestions or tips would be appreciated.

I think its extremely weird when I see couples who look like each other. They seriously look like brother and sisters. Its a bit disturbing. Am i the only one who sees this? Would you date someone who looks like either yourself or a family member? Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:01AM I think its extremely weird when I see couples who look like each other. They seriously look like brother and sisters. Its a bit disturbing. Am i the only one who sees this?Would you date someone who looks like either yourself or a family member?

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice. So i work with a girl that i think is cute. When we first met we talked for a couple days and then i asked for her number. She gave it to me so I thought she was interested. I texted her maybe the next day asking if she would want to hang out this week/weekend and she responds that she doesn’t think her boyfriend would like that. That was all a couple weeks ago and now every time i see her shes super cold and i feel like she doesn’t want anything to do with me. Its annoying because i need to interact with her everyday because of my job and idk for-sure but i feel like she told a lot of her coworkers about it and now i just feel uncomfortable when I’m in their building. Should I apologize and say i didn’t mean to make things awkward, or should i just go on like nothing happened? Any advice that you might have would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:09AM Hey everyone,I could really use some advice. So ...

This has been bothering me for the past two days. I have a friend who is my roommate and I am close with her and her bf of three years, they are both great friends of mine. Two nights ago I came home and heard basically what sounded like blowjob sounds from her room, and her room door was locked. We live in a student apartment so I can't say for sure if someone's car was out front. Any ways I freaked out and left after I heard that for about 2 minutes I also heard a man's moans. It wasnt her bf because I saw him on campus an hour later and he was saying he hadn't seen her all day and she hasn't responded to his texts yet. My thing is I'm not sure if it was a porno she was watching or if she was blowing some guy. I honestly don't view her as someone who cheats but I would love to know so that my other friend is at least aware. How can I have this conversation with her?? Submitted September 16, 2021 at 12:11AM This has been bothering me for the past tw...

Out of curiosity, what cartoon was this villain from? I agree with you completely, this villain sounds insane as does the people who sexualize said villain, and it reminds me a bit of The True Crime Community . Unfortunately, before I read about “the multiple genocides, abuse, mind-control, possesion of almost an entire planet..”, this made me think of my (only) favorite villain, Vlad Masters/Plasmius (from Danny Phantom), because he is also very sexualized (although every character in the/any show would be simped for in this way eventually), but I only liked him because he was played Martin Mull (and, oh my gosh, the food puns)! Your vent is valid and don’t you forget it! 😄 September 15, 2021 at 11:49PM

It sounds like your already doing it but I would just keep reassuring her and keep that dialogue open and sincere September 15, 2021 at 11:48PM

Uh...(s)he said they're looking for a partner who feels the same way. Aka someone who is also disinterested in sex/romance September 15, 2021 at 11:47PM

If I did I wouldn’t remember them, I remember very few dreams. September 15, 2021 at 11:44PM

While you're invading France be sure to bring back cakes. I'll be making quilts and afghans for movie nights. September 15, 2021 at 11:44PM