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/u/Rhundan on Something that’s been on my mind

If you experience romantic attraction, you're probably just alloromantic with bad anxiety. Which sucks, but at least you can work on anxiety. :) September 19, 2022 at 12:23AM

Had sex with a homeless methhead

6 months ago I met some chick online and she asked for sex that day. She was very rude and made it clear she would never date me. She was over weight and unemployed. She asked if I like meth and I said no. She kept calling me "nice boy". I would fuck with her and she would get mad and act like she was above me. I was in a dry spell so I fucked the shit out of her anyway. I'm tall and athletically built, have a career and my own place. Obviously more physically attractive than her. Just saw her facebook post she said shes pregnant. So asked her and she said it's none of my business and it isnt mine. I did wear a condom and it was 6 months ago so I think I'm good. Anyway found a much better person that I'm dating now. Lol at this junkie methead bitch getting knocked up and talking down to "nice boys". Submitted September 19, 2022 at 01:04AM 6 months ago I met some chick online and she asked for sex that day. She was very rude and made it cle...

Have a lot of regrets in my last situationship and wish I would have gotten out a lot sooner. How to cope and move forward? 😔

Basically I stayed in a toxic relationship for too long. The guy had an overseas girlfriend who he lied about. I’m so hurt and I feel so used. How do I feel happy again? Submitted September 19, 2022 at 01:07AM Basically I stayed in a toxic relationship for too long. The guy had an overseas girlfriend who he lied about. I’m so hurt and I feel so used. How do I feel happy again?

Am I making a mistake

Started dating this guy. He’s really sweet and thoughtful. Takes care of me in ways my ex never did. Makes sure I eat, does well with my kid, willing to flow at my speed while dating. Overall, he’s the perfect nice guy. The only problem: I can’t bring myself to be sexually attracted to him, I barely want to kiss him. He once cried in front of me about how I’m there for him, nothing wrong with that it just took me off guard. He also doesn’t know how to lead a relationship, I’m the “‘man” while we’re dating and I hate it. We’re taking space and I’m actually okay with it. However, there’s a part of me wondering if I’m making the right choice to let him go… Submitted September 19, 2022 at 12:10AM Started dating this guy. He’s really sweet and thoughtful. Takes care of me in ways my ex never did. Makes sure I eat, does well with my kid, willing to flow at my speed while dating. Overall, he’s the perfect nice guy.The only problem: I can’t bring myself to be sexually attracted to him...

How do I know if it's okay to make a move?

I (18F) have a giant crush on one of my friends (20M). We met online about 9 Months ago, when I started to get into gaming. He's a friend of my friends and has been playing with them for years. I heard stories about him but never had a reason to speak to him directly, because I wasn't part of their "gamer group". Until my Best Friend invited me to play with them despite being inexperienced. He and I kinda clicked and started playing more and more together sometimes even just the two of us. Around 5 Months in I started noticing that I have feelings for him, which was kind of a surprise because my crushes usually hit fast and go away just as fast. I've never had one develop this slowly but surely. Around that time my Best friend (the one who invited me to play) asked me what was going on between the two of us and also pointed out some signs of him liking me (Always being around where I was, answering my texts almost immediately even when in game, initiating acti...

/u/SpunkyCheetah on Just curious, are there any asexuals (or any aspec people) here that don't identify with the split attraction model?

I am personally a fan of the split attraction model, but I don't really feel as though it applies much to me. My current understanding of my orientation is that I'm 100% aro and 100% ace so romantic and sexual feelings are just kinda lumped together for me personally September 18, 2022 at 10:47PM