i wouldn’t want kids for sure. but i don’t think my asexuality influences it. i think if i was allo i still would not want kids. it’s literally a lifetime commitment and so much responsibility, i just do not want that at all ! December 11, 2022 at 01:23AM

So me and the person I like have been planning a date which will be coming up soon but we aren't like officially together. Aside from talking to them I've been flirting with a few other people but I wanted to know if I should stop that after the first date or only if they say they want to be exclusive? Submitted December 11, 2022 at 01:16AM So me and the person I like have been planning a date which will be coming up soon but we aren't like officially together. Aside from talking to them I've been flirting with a few other people but I wanted to know if I should stop that after the first date or only if they say they want to be exclusive?

Hi , In the last few weeks i’ve hang out with this group of people. In this group there is a girl who is the ex of a guy in the group. Me and this girl never talked much. They are not anymore together but they still hook-up. However this girl in the last couple of weeks randomly started to have more contact with me (from what I think) while she hooks up with her ex. She started to sit next to me in bars, couches and searched more physical contact, for example on the couch she puts her feet on me, brags about something, new nail colour, new sport she does (boxing) and she wanted to demonstrate me what she learnt jabbing my shoulder ecc Plus she started to react to nearly every single story I put on social media. Here starts the confusion. After all of this when i answer her reactions she doesn’t reply, and when i text her she answers only at the first message. For me is confusing because from nowhere she started having more physical contact and attempted start or keep conversatio

I've seen some people say they have it 3-5 time A DAY, like what? That's excessive af even for allos, like you don't work? You don't have other responsibilities? December 10, 2022 at 11:33PM

I've known the term for ages but never bothered to look up the definition 😭 so it took me a decade more December 10, 2022 at 11:33PM

Similar stuff happened to me, some of this will also be aro cus AA, but ye: One of my friends whispered to me in a shop that someone was hot, I turn around and as loud as I can I say “who, I don’t see anyone in particular” I felt genuinely traumatised after having sex ed for the first time in year 6 Once asked in school during pshe about relationships “why do people get into relationships it seems like a boring waste of time” Felt nauseous whilst watching two characters fall in love, kiss etc during a film with my friends so i just fuckin left lol Legit though true love was real until I was 15 (somehow despite the fact my aunt and uncle divorced and many of my friends had been in relationships and broken up much earlier) December 10, 2022 at 11:28PM