Awe cute ! Are you going to add colour? November 19, 2020 at 12:04AM

Aight, on my to-watch list I have Parasite Tokyo ghoul done Sword art online done Disenchantment No Game No Life done Steins;Gate ??? cool op? Attack On Titan done maybe you can choose one November 19, 2020 at 12:04AM

Oh my gosh I feel this so hard and it made me smile after a long day and thank you so much! November 19, 2020 at 12:03AM

Glad I could contribute, I’m a writer, so I appreciate that you can understand my descriptions of stuff you haven’t experienced! November 19, 2020 at 12:03AM

That's incredibly explicit, loved the answer. I just can't picture myself in that situation idk November 19, 2020 at 12:02AM

I'm so sorry. Asexuality has a history of being pathologized and it's horrible that people aren't taken seriously about their own experiences. Hopefully this is just an example of ignorance. There isn't a lot of ace representation out there so people don't often 'get' what it is. Any tests you get done aren't going to say something's wrong with you cause nothing is and there's no test to prove if someone's queer or not. It's a betrayal of trust for her to have this response, and you deserve so much better. Don't give up because you have a loving community behind you, even if you feel alone right now. Here's a list of ace friendly therapists by fuckyeahasexual on tumblr - if you're in a place where you can't sidestep her wanting a psychologist at least you can get one that validates you (it's by no means a complete list, but therapists put on their about info if they take lgbt issues), and since you're 15 you mi...

Remember robots can be programmed to have sex 🤢 Nowhere is safe... Nowhere. Not even within the ace community sometimes November 19, 2020 at 12:01AM

Its a fidget ring. November 19, 2020 at 12:01AM

I don't mean to be rude (plus everyone else has already said what I would've) but... where did you get the idea that asexual meant you don't love anyone? Do you think love and sex are somehow tied together? Why? If people can screw eachother without feeling a lick of love, why would it be tied together? November 19, 2020 at 12:00AM

Thanks. Now I will never cuddle with anyone ever again. November 18, 2020 at 11:58PM

JUST LOVE ME, DON'T FECK ME! 😭 November 18, 2020 at 11:57PM

I hope they can resurrect him! November 18, 2020 at 11:55PM

I dunno, I mean obviously he should have anticipated the fact that you'd be hurt by his behavior, if he's a grown-up he ought to anticipate that. That being said, people deal with their feelings of inadequacy in weird not entirely logical ways sometimes. As someone who's basically aegosexual, I can sometimes get aroused from movies, books etc. and for a long time that was the only thing that made me feel "normal," even though I wasn't able to be turned on by people in my real life and never wanted real-life sex. It could very well be that the porn etc. was sort of a way to self-soothe for someone who CAN get turned on by a fantasy and is frustrated with an inability to feel that way about real life, to make himself feel less inadequate. 🤷‍♀️ You certainly have the right to be mad that he's didn't think about your feelings in all of this, but it's possible that he was just dealing with his own insecurity in an unhealthy way, and that now that y...

It’s sort of just an urge, like a buzz of pleasure and excitement right beneath the skin. That’s the sexual bit, the only way I can describe the romantic part is to describe it as fascination, wanting to learn more about a person, growing to care about them deeply, being thrilled to make them happy and just kinda having a mutual relationship of helping each other through life. Is that good? Good enough? November 18, 2020 at 11:54PM

What anime we gonna watch? November 18, 2020 at 11:53PM

i am so sorry coming out turned this way. i may not know you or anything but if you need anything, let me know <3 November 18, 2020 at 11:49PM

Hopefully you'll be able to work through it together. You love each other and just gotta figure out this sticky bit. I wish you the best of luck. November 18, 2020 at 11:47PM

Oof my condolences. I've also found it hard to differentiate platonic v romantic feelings lately. Thank you for the comment. I hope things work out for y'all! November 18, 2020 at 11:47PM

🏅I’ll wear it proudly my friend November 18, 2020 at 11:46PM

That puts things into perspective in a helpful and personally devastating way. Thank you. I guess I should ask what kinds of marital obligations per doesn't want to have anymore, like if it's all, many, some, etc. Ow. November 18, 2020 at 11:45PM

It is? :,(( November 18, 2020 at 11:45PM

This comment is incredibly underrated 😂. Have the poor version of the golden medal 🏅. November 18, 2020 at 11:44PM

I'm probably too late to collect the Karma on it but I've never felt like my username is more relevant. And yeah OP, I just wanna cuddle too :( November 18, 2020 at 11:38PM