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/u/dennisftw on I WILL Find Romance... Eventually...

As someone who's not asexual and just stumbled across this, people have a hard time relating to you guys not because we think you're meant to have sex being born with genitals but rather sex is a fundamental pillar of our lives. We and almost everyone we know experience arousal and pleasure from sex in some way. For non-asexuals, sexual relief is a secondary need and something that we consider universally enjoyable. So when people encounter asexuals telling them they want nothing to do with sex, its like hearing someone tell you they don't like having a soft comfortable bed or they don't enjoy a nice hot shower on a cold night after a hard day or they don't enjoy eating delicious food; you get the idea. Its just simply a completely unrelatable and foreign concept for most people to consider. Also genuine question because I'm curious, do you guys feel zero pleasure or sensation when having erogenous zones stimulated or is it just that you have no sex drive or ...

/u/eat_my_arrow on Anyone else like Pink Floyd?

Little weed and Pink Floyd is always a good time for me December 04, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/CupcakesAndDeath on Make sure you go through all the stages before you get your ace ring (you can repost or make it better if you want)

Good timing, I just got my full blown ring yesterday December 04, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/alicewithanm on Posting this here as well...

Its scares me too :-< thank god I'm so ugly December 04, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/AquaticHornet37 on I WILL Find Romance... Eventually...

Man asexual dating is awful. This kinda made my first relationship weird December 04, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/AnxiousTuxedoBird on Posting this here as well...

I kinda feel it too, like I’m thankful I’m not sexually attractive. I’m terrified of being seen as sexually attractive and someone sexually harassing me or getting into a relationship with me just to get sex or expecting sex. As someone so sex repulsed and asexual the though scared me December 04, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Melange-Witch on Came out as asexual to my husband tonight

Couldn’t ask for a better reaction! Congratulations to you and tell him thank you from the romantic single aces for giving us hope and warm fuzzies! December 04, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/TastyBaconMann on Me: maybe I’m not ace I could just be faking :/ The test I took: do u take me for a fool???

when I did that test, I was in the red lmao December 04, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/Ersonified on I WILL Find Romance... Eventually...

Am I the only one who likes the idea of romance, but never really into it...? Or am I just weird? December 04, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/i_love_dance_ on Budding anyone?

ya i would not want to raise myself lol December 04, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/kitkatkis on I don’t know what exactly am I, please help

Thank you! 😭 December 04, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/rezkia on Make sure you go through all the stages before you get your ace ring (you can repost or make it better if you want)

Hell yeahh December 04, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/Jeff__-09 on Question

Thanks December 04, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/Jeff__-09 on Question

Thanks December 04, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/JJlikestoast on Do you guys like Frankenstein?

Im not sure what I am but frankensteins cool December 04, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/thatuglybeangirl on Question

Yes, some asexuals do and some don’t. A lot of us don’t experience attraction to others but still have a libido. Some of us can’t or don’t like to get off to porn but can to others can and do. Asexuality is about attraction, not action. Just like how some aces have sex December 04, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/Raptormind on Question

Answer I can’t speak for all ace people, but I do December 04, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/ace_ventura__ on Budding anyone?

Okay buddy, I know a thing or too about biology too. Let's say you took a body cell, and swapped the nucleus of an egg cell with the nucleus of said body cell, and then implanted it similar to IVF, you just had offspring without undergoing sexual reproduction. Therefore I can be asexual 😎😎 December 04, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/shannoouns on Currently reading and this book has amazing ace representation and is so relatable

I love her webcomic heartstopper You can read it free on tapas if anyone's interested December 04, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/Jeff__-09 on Question

I don’t but I just want to know if people do December 04, 2020 at 11:27PM

/u/Bronztrooper on I hate being treated as little more than just possible dating material

He sounds very, very insecure. December 04, 2020 at 11:25PM

/u/redherringbones on Birth Control?

Uh...medications can have FDA approved uses for multiple conditions. It's not just oral contraceptives being used to minimize acne or endometriosis symptoms. It's not just a....pink tax/misogyny type of thing. Topamax is an anticonvulsant but can be used to prevent migraines. Atarax is an antihistamine but can also be used as an anxiolytic. Etcetc. December 04, 2020 at 11:24PM

/u/Pack15_ on Urban Dictionary of asexual:

*in the voice of the high priest* WE HAVE NO NEED FOR PUNY MORTAL INDEAS SUCH AS GENDER FOR WE ARE OMNISCIENT AND ABOVE ALL YOU PEASENTS December 04, 2020 at 11:23PM