Aye twinsies lol February 13, 2021 at 12:05AM

Exactly I love pleasuring my self but hate sex and find no pleasure from it February 13, 2021 at 12:03AM

I hate it when my hubs does this. Like thanks for making the convo suddenly weird February 13, 2021 at 12:03AM

Yes! Love supernatural! Probably an unpopular opinion, but I absolutely adored the last few episodes. February 13, 2021 at 12:01AM

I'm on the same boat: i'm sex-repulsed and my bf is allo. The only advice i have is that you two should talk and setting boundaries. Maybe you two could decide to reserve some days for cuddling and making out without the weight of sex. I think she'll feel safer if she knows she won't end up in situation where you could ask her to have sex. I hope you two could find a balance ! February 12, 2021 at 11:59PM

It's tough. Many people take it personally and think they're to blame. I'm afraid to do so to my boyfriend, especially country I'm from, people consider sex to be vital part of a rship. I don't want to lose him but I its tiring putting up with every time we chill we have to sleep together. So I'm proud of you February 12, 2021 at 11:59PM

Demisexual people is this true that only one person has the key, I thought Demisexual people can feel deep emotional connections with being in different monogamous relationships w/ various people? February 12, 2021 at 11:59PM

as many times as i have run into doors, this makes perfect sense xD February 12, 2021 at 11:58PM

Can panromantic asexuals be a revolving wall? February 12, 2021 at 11:58PM

Who am I supposed to be again?? Like I just love genuine conversations so I could be the Second dude too February 12, 2021 at 11:56PM

r/definitelynotmeirl February 12, 2021 at 11:53PM

I’m both sadly, February 12, 2021 at 11:53PM

Happy cake day February 12, 2021 at 11:52PM

I agree with the fact of outsiders not understanding, that’s why I just use asexual to the rest of the world, I’ve found a micro label for myself that works and helped me understand that I was valid within the community. For the most part I just keep this label to myself February 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

Definitely! Is it possible they may identify with some other label (or no label at all) later in life? Yeas, of course! It happens all the time. But what’s the harm in letting kids call themselves ace (or any other a-spec label) whenever it feels right for them? If they’re old enough to comprehend sexuality they’re probably going through puberty and should be developing “sexually” anyways. I for sure would have known I was aroace in 7th grade if my school had better sex-education and if I knew what the hell that meant February 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

Maybe you're apresromantic? I don't think there's a wiki page for the romantic form, but here's the page for apressexual: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Apressexual February 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

I’m the wall that a bartender guards and when you give him the password it opens up (Greyace) February 12, 2021 at 11:46PM

Too relatable February 12, 2021 at 11:44PM

This would be phenomenal on the classic ace shirt slogan, "HELLO FELLOW HUMAN! I DO NOT EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ATTRACTION!" February 12, 2021 at 11:43PM

Thanks!! February 12, 2021 at 11:43PM

Congratulations! February 12, 2021 at 11:42PM

I could never do online dating. The expectations are just too much. Refused to go anywhere near it. I never "dated" strangers. As a demi, I just made friends. Sometimes the friendship would deepen and I'd form the emotional connection that I needed. Only after that could I consider possibly making it more than friends. Admittedly I didn't know what demisexual was until long after I stopped dating. I just knew that I couldn't date strangers. February 12, 2021 at 11:40PM

I can’t even imagine how hard it must be to be 12, 13, or 14 years old (or sometimes even younger!) and getting so many awful responses about a microlabel that makes you feel real and comfortable when these kids obviously take so much pride in them. If I was told that young that I was just trying to get attention and was the worst of the internet and couldn’t put the situation into context and simply shake it off, I would have pretended to have crushes and maybe even forced myself into a relationship out of fear that people would otherwise think I was broken or an attention-seeker. Yes a lot of the times the situation isn’t that serious, but I’ve seen videos from kalvin garrah victims who were young and figuring out their identity and had thousands of random people bombard their dms telling them they were causing “real trans people to look bad” simply for expressing their gender in a way authentic to them, and I’m starting to see this happen as ace people slowly become more accepted ...