I feel like I look too far into good details and wrongfully assume they really like me, or look too far into negative details and immediately think they must not be into me. I really don’t care whether someone likes me, but the guessing drives me crazy. We’ve been seeing each other since the beginning of January, and have gone on 5 dates. He took a solo trip to London for 3 weeks and kept in touch with me every single day, and still does. We’ve done 5 dinner dates and they always end in a quick peck kiss and that’s all. I’m wondering why he’d go on so many dates with me if he wasn’t into me, but why won’t he make a move? Neither of us is too shy. So I’m confused. If he’d offer to pick me up and drop me off (which he doesn’t - is he nervous to ask or does he really not care to?) I’d probably invite him up afterwards. In my past I always found myself chasing after a guy and becoming a pathetic shell of myself and taking the reins so much that the guy feels no need to make an effort at...

She’s currently in England and I wanna text her something cute for when she wakes up in 7 hours or so?? Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:14AM She’s currently in England and I wanna text her something cute for when she wakes up in 7 hours or so??

( I am a heterosexual woman so I used 'he', but you can replace it with anything ) Every time someone ghosted us, didn't want to commit, was flaky... we all wondered, why? The answer is easy. He just doesn't like you enough. We might go over every conversation, every interaction, every text, every red flag. We ask ourselves "Did I do something wrong?" "Did he find someone better?" Or maybe we blame them "He must have emotional problems" "He wasn't good enough for me, I am too good for him" Yes you did something wrong, yes he found someone better, yes he must have emotional problems, yes he wasn't good enough for you and yes you are too good for him. BUT ALL OF THIS IT DOESN'T MATTER. Because unless you did something VERY wrong and unless he is seriously emotionally impaired (i.e. narcissist/sociopath), the only reason why he couldn't settle with you is that he didn't like you enough to get over all the...

So me 30M potentially facing dentures if not a partial very soon, am wondering how women feel about having a partner with them and how or if it affects their impression of someone they might be dating. Im also a late virgin and the fact of having dentures or partials is also weighing on my self esteem and insecurities. Just wondering what you ladies think or am I being silly and should just focus on being myself and keep trying to find someone in life? Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:15AM So me 30M potentially facing dentures if not a partial very soon, am wondering how women feel about having a partner with them and how or if it affects their impression of someone they might be dating. Im also a late virgin and the fact of having dentures or partials is also weighing on my self esteem and insecurities. Just wondering what you ladies think or am I being silly and should just focus on being myself and keep trying to find someone in life?

Before I start I will mention I'm a teen girl. Okay so I'm didn't exactly win the lottery in the gene pool and I'm not very good at making conversation unless I've already become mates with them. I've been trying to do better with what I have in both of those things though. I was thinking of going to a "teen nightclub" and getting a date there although this is my first time and idk how I would introduce myself. I'm not sure how I would ask for details either. Now, I'm not looking for an amazing lad because I guess that would be double standards and I'm not looking to kiss too soon but, if I was to find someone that I liked there how would I go about it. Lads what do you think most of yous would appreciate? And ladies what have you done that has worked? Sorry if I sound stupid but, I don't know a whole lot about this so I'd appreciate any advice. :) Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:16AM Before I start I will mention I'm a...

Im a 25f whose only had one short term relationship eight years ago. Wow. That sounds like so long in my head, but to be honest a good few years of that was recovering from a sexual trauma.. but ever since the past four years, any guy that has expressed interest in me initially run away once I start to show interest back or use me for sex. It's like I have a sign over my head that says "USE ME BUT NEVER GET Too CLOSE." It's horrible. How does everyone else in the world get to have a normal healthy sense of love and I don't? I give love whenever I can. Ask any of my friends or family and they always say Im a loyal, sweet person. I think my personality is interesting and I'm vulnerable. So I really don't think it's that but I'm willing to change that if it means becoming more compatible. And when it comes to appearance, OOF. I get called sexy/ hot all the time and I loathe it. THAT IS THE WORST COMPLIMENT EVER. Who wants to be seen as a piece of me...

Hello everyone, this is a long story so will do my best to explain it all. I started dating a girl 2.5 months ago where we knew each other from a few common areas in our life / common friends. The first month things were going great, high interest on both ends and she would setup dates as well. We would see each other 1-2 times a week and mostly used the phone for settings dates in-between but a few meaningful conversations. Every date was elaborate / thoughtful / fun while we built deep connections quick (could easily talk together for hours. Only odd thing was we did not have sex because she had some issues down there healing (tried to get details but was still vague), so I did my best to respect that and I keep sexual tension high in other ways. The second month, things started to change. I noticed she was acting different (this was the week her ex reached out to her), in which she said she was going through personal things. I told her I was there for her but ended up giving her ...

Ive (20M) Been talking to this girl (20f) for over a month. Everything seemed great, and went on our first date. Which went fantastic! (Read about it here ). Our date went well, spent over 8 hours together, vibed really well! Confessed feelings for one another and agreed to take things slow and let things play out naturally. She said she never had a boyfriend before and doesnt know how to act/ respond. But since our first date, everything seemed to take a 180. Communication basically shut down. (Also I have a feeling she has some sort of anxiety or relationship anxiety.) She went silent for Tuesday and Wednesday. Ignored my two texts those days. Thursday she said sorry shes been mia because shes been not feeling so well. And friday she said shes been stressed with work, school, socializing and over all had no energy and her social battery is depleted. And once again, she said she was very sorry she fell into a rut and needs to pull herself out of it. I told her that she shouldnt ap...

Her birthday is this week. We're close but not that close. Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:25AM Her birthday is this week. We're close but not that close.

So I've (M) been on a long distance relationship with a girl for 2 years, nevermets. Until yesterday, 5 months after we broke up, when we met irl. We've been staying as friends and I still have feelings for her, but she just doesnt want to get back because thinks we're incompatible. I dont understand it at all but I must respect and suport the decision. When I think in having or falling in love with another girl I just cant figure it out, and if I think about my ex and what we could've been for 10min I get sad. Its been my first relationship and I got the "no it wont happen again ever" (our relationship) a day ago. Any tips on getting past this situation? thanks :) Edit: I forgot to mention that we still talk, send memes and sometimes play videogames together. This was my first relationship, we're both on our 20s Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:26AM So I've (M) been on a long distance relationship with a girl for 2 years, nevermets. Until yes...

So I was talking to this dude and like we like to be sarcastic to each other. And I usually like to joke around and I said “get to steppin” which is like get lost but in a funny joke way. Afterwards, I asked how they were other than annoying me, I got the seen. Usually if I get the seen, I’d just wait for them to respond cos I don’t want to bother them with another txt cos I think they’re either busy or whatnot. I didn’t get a reply until I txtd in the morning saying Gmorning. They responded and then I asked why they didn’t respond. Apparently me saying “get to steppin” made them leave and then he says that “I wanted to see how long you’d stop responding to me and your reaction in them not responding back”. Now I was annoyed, majorly. I was thinking they were busy and had no time to respond or something happened and he was out here there telling me after I told him how I felt about it (which was majorly pissed at this point) that it was just a “jOkE”. Idk, but I didn’t find it fun...

its been FOUR years. i met this guy freshmen year and we were so close at one point but hes such an ahole like after months ive talking nonstop everyday he just cut me off and then he started talking to me we were close again then he cut me off again and you know it just repeated. until junior year i got a boyfriend who was also HIS friend and then when we dated ( he had moved ) well he moved back and he told me "you know you dont want to be with him" and my naive self just thought about it so much and like ended up getting distant from my bf and we broke up and then after he literally ( the guy ived liked ) cursed me out and was like youre terrible the way you did that then we didnt talk for a while because i was upset then like eight months later we got close again and all my feelings were back and he implied he liked me and we had a very deep conversation on whether wed ever be together but ofc i was too coward to say anything. well fast forward three months later i grew ...

I feel strange saying that, but it seems like it's almost more of a surprise to me when I meet couples who have not cheated. This goes for men and women. I know men who seem to be fine with cheating as long as their significant other doesn't find out, and I know of women who've done the same. One man I recently spoke with went on a trip with friends and hooked up with a girl out there. I asked him about it, and he somehow was rationalizing having done so. He said he wouldn't let his girl get hurt by it. I almost get the sense that by that, he just means he won't tell her. I know of a woman who has cheated on her boyfriend, and I don't know the rationale, but I get the sense he just wants her badly enough that he lets it slip. Another person felt like once he finally got a girlfriend, suddenly other women were interested in him, and that's why he did it. There are so many people who seem to be coming from the prospective that as long as the person you're...

Sup y'all. Apparently I've hit the "milf stage" approaching 30 and it's been rough lol. I had my first baby 12/18 and my man has been gone working to care for us this whole time about 5 almost 6 days a week. Like gone hours away in shit towns so I know he's just as lonely and prob just as horny/sexually frustrated and bored. Alone. Like me except I have my toddler running around lol. So we all know unsolicited dick pics are a no no for most women but I feel like that has to be a dating thing cause getting a dick pic or even better a video of my man would be LEGIT. He's getting older too and is putting this grown man Sexy on me and I can't take it! Like he's limping when comes home but he's in work clothes and covered in concrete and shit and I'm like hot. Farmer tan? IDGAF. Cute. Lol so I'm like wanting to kick this up but I just CAN'T SPIT IT OUT. Honestly I'm going to remain faithful of course! But mommys hurting y'all ...

Through some experiences I've discovered that I am terrible at saying no or telling someone to stop (don't worry nothing bad has happened yet because of this). In general I am kind of a people pleaser, so in a moment where my boundaries are being crossed I kind of freeze, unable to do or say anything, or the automatic pilot starts up and I keep doing what I was doing. TLDR at the bottom So to explain a little further; there was this one time where I was cleaning the bar and coffee machine after a long days work, one of the volunteers offered to help which I refused, but then out of nowhere he started massaging my beck and shoulders. I knew he had his eye on me, but due to the sudennes of his actions I tensed and just kept cleaning. Luckily he stopped quickly, but at that moment it was hard for me/didn't come to mind to ask him to stop. In another instance, three friends (m, f, m) and me had gone out into town. I know that one of the guys would really like to sleep with ...

Hey guys, i’m [24M] from Morocco, and over here it’s against the law to have sex before marriage. It’s not just against religion, but you can literally go to jail if the police finds you alone with a person of opposite gender in the same house, how? for example, If your neighbours call on you or if your landlord does. Also you cannot get a room in a hotel/motel alone with a person of opposite gender if you do not show that it is actually your wife or a family member (ID). Now i am not very religious, and i am a virgin. And i want to have sex. Not to mention how the standard for this society is the get married first then only have sex after for the only purpose of making children. So getting your girl to accept to have sex is already an accomplishment (and if she does, it’s anal), and getting a safe place to do that is nearly impossible to achieve as i see it rn. What do you guys think? Submitted February 10, 2020 at 11:53PM Hey guys, i’m [24M] from Morocco, and over here it’s ag...

And does such a person even exist? Honestly, I'm just naturally a very quiet and subdued person, it's not that I'm not passionate or that my voice is soft in fact my voice is surprisingly deep for a woman my size, I don't dislike (it's great for jazz standards!) but I don't sound like a porn star and honestly, the fake porny lady screams turn me off a little bit, hypocritically I do like when male porn stars moan even if I am aware their fake. I suffer from the common ill 'been masturbating at home silently for the past almost decade' and when I finally did have sex with someone, it didn't spontaneously make me loud. I didn't have a problem with expressing some discomfort ('please move, I don't like that' 'that's not the right hole') or when I needed lube, but I never felt like saying anything, the idea of me dirty talking causes me cringe, I just don't think I sound sexy even tho I wish I did sometimes. It didn...

I want to do more in bed for my SO and really just elevate our sex lives. I want to do more work and show him how much I want it. Do y’all have any suggestions that will allow me (19f) to do more work? Other than riding, reverse cowgirl, throwing it back during doggy, and grinding my hips. Or even just incredible sex positions in general would be awesome too. All comments are super appreciated! :) Submitted February 10, 2020 at 11:58PM I want to do more in bed for my SO and really just elevate our sex lives. I want to do more work and show him how much I want it. Do y’all have any suggestions that will allow me (19f) to do more work? Other than riding, reverse cowgirl, throwing it back during doggy, and grinding my hips. Or even just incredible sex positions in general would be awesome too. All comments are super appreciated! :)

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I(22f) was chatting to my partner (24m) as I've realised my ideal amount of time for the penetrive sex in intimate situations is quite different to the amount of time actually spent physically having intercouse. With my ideal being a fair but longer than what actually happens I'd love to have penetrive sex for 10 - 20 minutes but it's usually less than five, my partner thinks it would be far to long and believes any time spent on sex could be better spent on foreplay How long do you think it should last? And how long does it? Trying to get an idea of what's right Submitted February 10, 2020 at 11:59PM I(22f) was chatting to my partner (24m) as I've realised my ideal amount of time for the penetrive sex in intimate situations is quite different to the amount of time actually spent physically having intercouse. With my ideal being a fair but longer than what actually happens I'd love to have penetrive sex for 10 - 20 minutes but it's usually less than ...

OK...here’s the situation. My wife and I have been married for 20 years. Sex has always been a major issue in our marriage. I am more of a high libido partner, and my wife is generally the low libido person. A while ago,I severely injured my lower back. This required a fusion surgery to correct. The problem is, the surgery has inhibited my my ability to thrust properly for myself to achieve orgasm. My wife and I have adjusted to a different way of doing things. The usual scenario is as follows: We throw an adult DVD on TV...I use an egg vibrator to get her aroused while we are viewing the video. After a period of time, I turn off the TV and the vibrator and we engage in intimate behavior(kissing, touching, etc). I slowly work my way down to her mommy parts and engage in oral sex....most often to climax(estimated? 90+% of the time)...I know, because by the time she’s ready to pop, my chin is semi-buried into her vagina and I can feel the contractions when she cums. After a fair am...

Every single time I [24F] have sex I end up bleeding. It is very heavy spotting that requires a pad or liner be worn for the next few days. Sometimes it even turns into a short period. This has happened with my past couple partners, and was really bad with my last partner. It doesn't matter how gentle it is, or how much foreplay we do. I even bought vaginal dilators when I was dating my ex to try and help "warm up" before the act. I do not need artificial lubricants (but have bought them just in case). It is physically uncomfortable for me at the start, even when using dilators, and hurts a little bit. Also stings/burns afterwards. I have been tested and do not have a UTI, bacterial vaginosis or any type of STI (I was last checked via a blood test in January for my annual check-up). I've been diagnosed with a retroverted uterus but was told it's a normal genetic variation in women and shouldn't have an affect on me. I've also had ovarian cysts in the pa...

First time poster to this sub. I don't know where else I can get this off my chest. It feels like this dirty secret that I just want to shout from the rooftops! I HAD ANAL AND I LOVED IT!!! My husband (30M) and I (24F) have attempted anal before and it was uncomfortable; too tight, painful, and I was afraid of making a mess but there was some brief moments were it felt good, so I knew there was potential for us to enjoy it in the future. However I wanted to get a stretching kit or a butt plug to help stretch me out more and hopefully make it easier. Well, we partook in 420 and I mentioned to him that I wanted to try again this Valentine's Day and he suggested we try earlier. So after lots of lube and taking it slow, I was able to relax physically and mentally enough to take him and. It. Was. Amazing!!! He loved it. I loved it. It's been 2 days and I can't stop thinking about it and how much I want him to fuck me again ❤️ Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:03AM F...