cant get over a guy

its been FOUR years. i met this guy freshmen year and we were so close at one point but hes such an ahole like after months ive talking nonstop everyday he just cut me off and then he started talking to me we were close again then he cut me off again and you know it just repeated. until junior year i got a boyfriend who was also HIS friend and then when we dated ( he had moved ) well he moved back and he told me "you know you dont want to be with him" and my naive self just thought about it so much and like ended up getting distant from my bf and we broke up and then after he literally ( the guy ived liked ) cursed me out and was like youre terrible the way you did that then we didnt talk for a while because i was upset then like eight months later we got close again and all my feelings were back and he implied he liked me and we had a very deep conversation on whether wed ever be together but ofc i was too coward to say anything. well fast forward three months later i grew courage and i told him my feelings. i poured them all out. and i ended it with "please if you dont feel the same just please never bring this up to me" and he literally only replied "okay" and i said "okay what" and he said "okay i wont bring it up to you" we literally didnt talk for weeks because i was so hurt like what kindve reply. then he began talking to me again like casually and it just makes me so sad because everytime we dont talk for a while i begin to get over him then we do even if its just for five minutes and the feelings back. and its just like dude get out of my mind :((((



Submitted February 11, 2020 at 12:25AM

its been FOUR years. i met this guy freshmen year and we were so close at one point but hes such an ahole like after months ive talking nonstop everyday he just cut me off and then he started talking to me we were close again then he cut me off again and you know it just repeated. until junior year i got a boyfriend who was also HIS friend and then when we dated ( he had moved ) well he moved back and he told me "you know you dont want to be with him" and my naive self just thought about it so much and like ended up getting distant from my bf and we broke up and then after he literally ( the guy ived liked ) cursed me out and was like youre terrible the way you did that then we didnt talk for a while because i was upset then like eight months later we got close again and all my feelings were back and he implied he liked me and we had a very deep conversation on whether wed ever be together but ofc i was too coward to say anything. well fast forward three months later i grew courage and i told him my feelings. i poured them all out. and i ended it with "please if you dont feel the same just please never bring this up to me" and he literally only replied "okay" and i said "okay what" and he said "okay i wont bring it up to you" we literally didnt talk for weeks because i was so hurt like what kindve reply. then he began talking to me again like casually and it just makes me so sad because everytime we dont talk for a while i begin to get over him then we do even if its just for five minutes and the feelings back. and its just like dude get out of my mind :((((
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