I don't see it but good for the people who do I guess. :| October 08, 2019 at 12:06AM

lol! No, but I did have sex with an old goat named Susan. We were both pretty drunk and high, she had a day job selling furniture. In the back warehouse section, after hours, she helped me try a few pieces of furniture, sort of a "test run". The furniture movers dropped the couch they were moving down a flight of stairs, a little scuffed up, but for $450(employee discount+scratch and dent), it was a pretty good buy. ​ Got a few futons and those big cheese wedge cushions thrown in as part of the deal. Which meant it could be converted to a bed of sorts with a little rearrangement of things. ​ Sadly, she went back to her husband eventually, and I got off speed, so my sex drive dropped to the normal barely existent levels. October 08, 2019 at 12:05AM

not just games, I also enjoy trying out new software or reading/listening to a book/audiobook. :) October 08, 2019 at 12:04AM

That's what I meant. October 08, 2019 at 12:04AM

Thanks!!! October 08, 2019 at 12:03AM

sometimes I wonder if I just have a delayed reaction to that sort of thing. like, welp, too late. :/ October 08, 2019 at 12:02AM

I agree with everything you said here 100% but how can we be sure that this entire drama wasn't confected by certain sections of the alt right or other bigots to stir shit in the first place? After all sowing discord and strife in the LGBT community with a view to breaking up the greater community would be seen as a big win for these hateful fucks... Plus they get to cast feminists in a bad light too so there is an extra win for them.. Personally from what I've seen and heard I don't think we can totally discount that possibility October 08, 2019 at 12:01AM

like, I have a desire to cuddle but likely won't get to try it because of anxiety and such. I did have a childhood crush but I don't think she even knew I existed and I didn't have the desire to make it known. oh well. :/ October 07, 2019 at 11:51PM

Hey guys! So...I'm hanging out with this guy I met at work this summer. We instantly hit it off, since we're both into same music and stuff. While we were working together we started acting like a couple to provoke our colleagues who are together but it was just for fun and I didn't thought it would become anything serious. He would come to me, hug me, touch my back, look me in the eye really long and tense. The affection that he gave me made me feel nice and I know that the same was for him... When we quit our jobs to go back to college we kept seeing each other almost everyday. We have that "bro" relationship where we tell eachother everything. We even make sexual comments about us having sex. This is where I'm getting confused. I don't know if this is just sexual tension betwen us or something more. He knows i look him as a friend and I know he likes another girl but he tells me such beautiful things none of my exes would have ever said to me. And it...

I'm 21, and I still live at home with my parents. I'm kinda embarrased by it, but that's the way it is. I want to move out, and plan to do so, but as of now they kinda need me. My father is retired, and probably couldn't find work if he wanted to. My mother is unable to work to due a variety of medical issuses. (For whatever reason, she keeps getting denied disability checks.) My sister is a single mother raising twin boys, and they live with us also. My paychecks, along with my sister's checks, and my father's checks, support us. As you can imagine, such a situation makes it difficult to start dating, but that's mostly because I'm so embarrased by the whole thing. My friends from high school are all getting good jobs, and going to college, and of course, getting dates. Their has been one or two girls I had chemistry with, but it just wasn't meant to be. I've never really been on a date. I want to, really bad. I'm too nervous to try to ...

Me and my girlfriend like the idea of having a threeway with another girl, but we are afraid of several things, so here i ask you, Couples who did a threesome with each other and with another man/woman, how did it feel? What were the emotions before and after? Who was the third person? Weren't you jealous? Did you do it again? Would you do it again? What was the relationship with the third person afterwards? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:27PM Me and my girlfriend like the idea of having a threeway with another girl, but we are afraid of several things, so here i ask you, Couples who did a threesome with each other and with another man/woman, how did it feel? What were the emotions before and after? Who was the third person? Weren't you jealous? Did you do it again? Would you do it again? What was the relationship with the third person afterwards?

I can’t stop thinking about it all the time, being submissive, inferior, other extremely kinky stuff, I have a boyfriend but he doesn’t know any of this, just had to talk about it somewhere lol anyways I’m very open minded and would love to talk! Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:29PM I can’t stop thinking about it all the time, being submissive, inferior, other extremely kinky stuff, I have a boyfriend but he doesn’t know any of this, just had to talk about it somewhere lol anyways I’m very open minded and would love to talk!

Is penetrating a vagina really as insane as they make it out to be? Does it really feel that good? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:29PM Is penetrating a vagina really as insane as they make it out to be? Does it really feel that good?

I have never posted here, and always been a lurker. After an experience recently, my girlfriend literally blew my mind. In our relationship, blowjobs have been a rarity. This was something I am okay with, but I do ask for them a lot. I have tried recently to stop asking as much, and just let them be a surprise. Recently, my girlfriend surprised the hell out of me. She used a method that she had NEVER used before. She did something where she would twist the base, while moving her head in the same motion. Or so I think. I couldnt see much as my head was exploding. I know this post doesnt mean much. But I just had to talk about it. I cannot get this out of my mind. It was literally mind blowing, and hands down the best blowjob of my life. Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:37PM I have never posted here, and always been a lurker. After an experience recently, my girlfriend literally blew my mind.In our relationship, blowjobs have been a rarity. This was something I am okay with, bu...

This is like a very very basic or innocent question to the people out there. Usually to satisfy your partner practicing and watching porn helps achieve the pleasures. But are there any communities who does teach the practice to unpack the pleasures of a human body ? I feel like watching porn and practicing self pleasures are not worthy because at some point a partner or partnership do help discover the intimacy. -For the love of humanity, I respect all the pleasures and how we named them and identifying the categories of human sex. -What does the people who help others learn called? -Or what do these communities were named like? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:38PM This is like a very very basic or innocent question to the people out there. Usually to satisfy your partner practicing and watching porn helps achieve the pleasures. But are there any communities who does teach the practice to unpack the pleasures of a human body ? I feel like watching porn and practicing self ple...

So I read a post yesterday about someone posting about playing chastity games with their partner. Here's the thing. We dont live together. We are older. Both have kids. So I thought that sounded like a pretty good fun way until we can be together again and make when we are together even more anticipated. Who has done this? I have never heard of it? How do I explain the game and rules? And what are fun things that you recommend that work? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:39PM So I read a post yesterday about someone posting about playing chastity games with their partner. Here's the thing. We dont live together. We are older. Both have kids. So I thought that sounded like a pretty good fun way until we can be together again and make when we are together even more anticipated. Who has done this? I have never heard of it? How do I explain the game and rules? And what are fun things that you recommend that work?

I am fortunate to have a wife that loves to give me oral sex. She does it with enthusiasm and likes to gag. She knows I like it sloppy and she has gotten into this also (after seeing my reaction). We were watching a GIF today of a female pornstar giving two guys oral and the saliva and drool was tremendous. So....my wife told me to ask Reddit if it's fake? I told her I didn't think it was fake but have heard chewing gum with sugar in it helps. Using Biotene we were both amazed definitely helps. But back to the question...is there some fake saliva (as my wife puts it) in these scenes? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:43PM I am fortunate to have a wife that loves to give me oral sex. She does it with enthusiasm and likes to gag. She knows I like it sloppy and she has gotten into this also (after seeing my reaction).We were watching a GIF today of a female pornstar giving two guys oral and the saliva and drool was tremendous. So....my wife told me to ask Reddit if it...

My gf and I are still discovering each other's sexuality's, and I recently brought up how I really wanted oral from her, but did not know how to bring it up or suggest it without being too direct. She expressed that she was not apposed to it, and that I should just let her know that I want it. After discussing it further, she told me that straight up asking for it is a no, as it would make her feel weird, Just "whipping it out" or strongly suggesting it would make her laugh, and that trying to subtly suggest I want it would likely go unnoticed. I'm a fairly straight-forward person, so I asked her how she would want me to approach it and she doesn't know, which is frustrating. If she doesn't know how she wants me to bring it up, then I don't either. The conversation ended with "We'll figure it out", but I'm not feeling too confident about that as I'm not a mind reader, and she's not really one for foreplay. She has no problem ...

20M here. How can I tell if a partner likes what i'm doing during foreplay if they remain relatively quiet? They come back for more and sometimes initiate the foreplay, but I'm just doing what I like and what I think they'll like. When asked what they like, they just say anything. But I want to please them! What are the signs that they enjoy what I'm doin? Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:48PM 20M here. How can I tell if a partner likes what i'm doing during foreplay if they remain relatively quiet? They come back for more and sometimes initiate the foreplay, but I'm just doing what I like and what I think they'll like. When asked what they like, they just say anything. But I want to please them! What are the signs that they enjoy what I'm doin?

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Okay so fair warning this might be kind of long, also on mobile so sorry for formatting issues. So I (20F) lost my virginity about two weeks ago to a sweet guy (I’ll refer to him as T, 20M) who had just gotten out of a relationship. I had the understanding that it was just a hookup deal and it might happen again in the future but we never really had a conversation about what was going on. Didn’t even define it as a friends with benefits thing (we hooked up twice btw). He knew I was a virgin and was nice about it, we would chat sometimes over text but it was mostly a carnal thing which I was totally cool with. Anyways, flash forward to this weekend where I got drunk at a party where T and his roommate, H (21M), were as well. Got basically zero attention from T which kind of annoyed me but whatever. I couldn’t find who I’d come with to get back to my apartment and went home with T and H and another guy, A. I ended up fucking A while H watched and then fucked H too. While this isn’t bad ...

I was having sex with the guy I've been with for awhile and at one point we were switching positions and he told me that I 'fuck like a pornstar' and that I 'fucked the soul out of him' what does this mean I'm a little confused if this is good or bad Submitted October 07, 2019 at 11:58PM I was having sex with the guy I've been with for awhile and at one point we were switching positions and he told me that I 'fuck like a pornstar' and that I 'fucked the soul out of him' what does this mean I'm a little confused if this is good or bad

I was married to a really tall guy, and I didn't know that much about sex (other than my own fantasies of what it would be like), he was super tall which is what attracted me to him. First night of our marriage, I had my period. We took a shower, and his dick was splayed out there, and big, I started to get scared. When on our honeymoon we did it. And he said, "it's coming out". We found a bookstore (this was in 2000), and I bought the book "Idiot's Guide to Having Sex", that didn't help. I was on birth control. I hate that pelvic exam? they give you before they give you the pill, and it hurts like hell. I've been doing research. I haven't had sex since our divorce in 2001 - it's 2019. I bought some sex toys, I'm tired of celibacy. But I have a mental illness, and would have to be on birth control, I'm currently not on birth control. My point is there are dialators that could help. I wish to god we had enough money to see a bette...