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I think spongebob is canonically asexual too. October 28, 2019 at 12:16AM

Haha memes don't compute with my parents. They'll just be confused as to how SpongeBob relates to asexuality. In hindsight, Sponges are asexually reproducing! October 28, 2019 at 12:15AM

My partner and I were fooling around and at first it was just some dry humping with no condom but then I had him put on a condom so that we could have sex. I only recently lost my virginity so he only got like two strokes in before I needed him to take it out. He did not cum while he was inside me (or at all for that matter) but after, we realized that the condom was way expired. It didn’t break but was definitely expired. This happened a couple days after my period ended. Should I purchase a plan B or is it worthless now? What are the chances that I am pregnant? I’m freakin the fuck out. Submitted October 27, 2019 at 11:58PM My partner and I were fooling around and at first it was just some dry humping with no condom but then I had him put on a condom so that we could have sex. I only recently lost my virginity so he only got like two strokes in before I needed him to take it out. He did not cum while he was inside me (or at all for that matter) but after, we realized that the ...

Hey guys. (18M) I have been masturbating for like 6 years or so now, and have always had normal orgasms and ejaculation. My girlfriend and I attended a party last night, and hooked up somewhere in the house. All night I had a huge erection, and never was able to get off. I mean I’m talking constant erection for 4 hours. When I got home in the morning, the first thing I did was masturbate because I was still excited from the night before. As I was masturbating, I felt nothing abnormal, and was just stroking along lmao. As I was barely building up to my climax, I started ejaculating everywhere. It was so weird. I came so early and had no actual feel good orgasm. What the hell is wrong with me? I masturbated earlier and it was back to normal, but the ejaculation with no orgasm has happened twice this week prior to earlier. Any advice or answers help, I’m totally freaked out. Submitted October 27, 2019 at 11:58PM Hey guys. (18M) I have been masturbating for like 6 years or so now, a...

I'm a female and my current male partner is great in bed. Even though I don't orgasm, I still have a great time and come away satisfied. He's happy as well but he's mentioned that he really likes making girls cum. I feel a little bad because even with all his efforts (and mine) with oral sex and toys and what not, we haven't achieved this yet. Again, not a big deal but I feel like I owe it to him to try everything I can because he takes such good care of me. I think my only option is to try to incorporate my heartbeat fetish somehow into our sex routine. I haven't told him that I have this kink yet because I never thought that it would be relevant to him. In case you don't know what a heartbeat fetish is, I get off in seconds when I touch myself to the sound of a pounding heart. I can't find any ideas anywhere so I thought you guys could help me brainstorm. I've thought of using some wireless earbuds and listening in one ear while we have sex. I d...

I've been having sex in the position where it's like missionary but the guy is holding your legs up, and the past 2 times I've done it, it's made me bleed. The first time was about 10 days ago, and I actually then started getting my period (my cycle is very irregular. My last period was in July) Today I did the position again, and it made me bleed a little bit, and I'm wearing a pad, but there basically hasn't been anymore blood since the sex ended. When I am in that position, I don't really feel any bad pain, there is a mild and dull ache in my low belly area, but it also feels pleasureable. I have done this position before in the past, and even with this person, but I haven't bled except for these past 2 times, I think because I am REALLY bending myself these 2 times in order for his penis to go deeper. My only concern is like if I'm damaging my insides or like, perforating some sort of membrane/lining. Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:02AM ...

So I F26 have a FWB that M21. In the beginning it started off pretty good. He talk to me everyday and we would snap each other pictures of us. Before it was just flirting and than we start touching each other. I was a Virgin and he knew. He told me he would take it slow with me. We met up like 3 times before we stopped, but we didn’t have sex yet. Just a lot of making out, touching and grinding. He ended it because he was scare it would jeopardize our friendship. I made it super clear that I wouldn’t have became FWB if I thought it would jeopardize our friendship. 4 months later he hit me up again. That’s when I learned and gave him a blowjob for the first time. We only hit each other up once a month. The other two months he actually tried to penetrate me but it didn’t work. It felt like he was kind of rushing it. The foreplay wasn’t long enough and I wasn’t really wet. Normally when I’m hella turn on, I’m super wet but idk if it was because I was nervous or not relax enough. I feel ...

I often forget how good anal pleasure is. The bending down, spreading those cheeks to reveal her anus. That little hole filled with nerves when stimulated right brings pleasure. It’s that love of that hole meaning we have an alternate to pleasuring a partner. Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:09AM I often forget how good anal pleasure is. The bending down, spreading those cheeks to reveal her anus. That little hole filled with nerves when stimulated right brings pleasure.It’s that love of that hole meaning we have an alternate to pleasuring a partner.

I(M) just had sex with a friend(F) and while we were going at it she kept telling how insecure about her body she was even though I kept reassuring her that she was beautiful to me and that she was super hot as well. Is there anything I could do from your guys’ experience, specifically females to make her love her body and make her feel comfortable? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:11AM I(M) just had sex with a friend(F) and while we were going at it she kept telling how insecure about her body she was even though I kept reassuring her that she was beautiful to me and that she was super hot as well. Is there anything I could do from your guys’ experience, specifically females to make her love her body and make her feel comfortable?

My boyfriend and I have been on opposite schedules for the past 6 months and are in desperate need to spice things up, I am beyond sexually frustrated. We finally have some planned time together so we can go away for a few days and reconnect. We’re getting a hotel room and going out to a for a night of fun and dancing. I would love to get a vibrator that I can wear while we’re out, with either a remote or an app that he’ll have control over. Has anyone tried one that has worked well for them? Also, any other fun/sexy suggestions that you may have for us to try, I would love to hear what has helped you and your partner reconnect after a lull in your relationship. Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:13AM My boyfriend and I have been on opposite schedules for the past 6 months and are in desperate need to spice things up, I am beyond sexually frustrated. We finally have some planned time together so we can go away for a few days and reconnect. We’re getting a hotel room and going out...

I've always cried after sex with my longterm boyfriend. (Been together 2 years, I'm 22F he's 23M if it matters.) Recently it's been getting a lot worse, and within minutes of finishing sex I nearly always feel a dip in my mood and will end up crying, feeling melancholy, or feeling at a inexplainable loss?? There's been times when I will literally break out in a random sob, which is quite extreme. My mental state recently has been a bit low outside of sex, and my post sex blues have noticeably gotten worse. While I've tried to explain to my boyfriend that it's not due to something that he's directly done and it feels unexplainable, I'm starting to feel embarrassed and worried if my boyfriend thinks I'm overly emotional/clingy. I've seen some things about "postcoital dysphoria," but there's not much information? Is there anything me and my boyfriend can do to ease the sadness, or prevent it somehow? Submitted October 28, 2019...

Real talk, I'm trying to find somewhere to start but finding a group is so intimidating. October 27, 2019 at 11:58PM

Ok fellow married peeps. A brief story. First off, this is a burner account. Ok, I am a male 45 and wife is 40. Been married for 7 years and together total for 8 years. Ever since the beginning of our relationship our sex life was WONDERFUL! Tons of sex and both of us were very sexually fulfilled. Here comes the over thinking or possible problem. About two years ago I started noticing that my wife would not want me to get her off and the sex went from three times a week to now one day a week which I am fine with but what concerns me the most is she doesn't seem to be interested in sex anymore. She never denies me sex when I initiate but she seems to never want to get off either. I think she has sex with me just to keep me satisfied but I am feeling like she is just not interested anymore and that bothers me. Coincidentally about two years ago we moved into a new house that came with extra work to maintain. Everything that comes along with a bigger house, bigger yard etc. She also ...

This November marks year 6. Year 6 of nothing. I’m not the touchy feely type but crap I’m lonely. The last time it was brought up was our 10yr wedding anniversary trip..I don’t know how much clearer I could’ve been, literally told him to have his way..I got a shrug and a head shake. I’m only 37, I’m too young to feel this dead inside. Submitted October 27, 2019 at 11:55PM This November marks year 6. Year 6 of nothing. I’m not the touchy feely type but crap I’m lonely. The last time it was brought up was our 10yr wedding anniversary trip..I don’t know how much clearer I could’ve been, literally told him to have his way..I got a shrug and a head shake. I’m only 37, I’m too young to feel this dead inside.

Me and my husband have been married for close to 3 months now, and have maybe been intimate 4 times. I just have absolutely no interest in having sex with him. It's very hard because I'm head over heels in love with my husband, I know I want to be Intimate, but as soon as he makes advances I push him away. I have no interest in trying, his attempts to turn me on don't work. I can't really talk to anyone about it, because they will say 'well you love your husband right? Why don't you get aroused around him? Why don't you as a newlywed want to be intimate with your husband?' And honestly, I have no clue. I was abused as a child and my past relationships have been physically and emotionally abusive in some aspects, so maybe that's why? Any tips or tricks I can try? Anyone else experience this? Because I feel broken and like a terrible wife that I can't satisfy my husband and it's the main bone of contention in our new marriage. Submitted Oc...

I was brought up super red pilled and catholic so I wanted to remain a virgin till marriage. It was like my badge of honour literally. At 24 I fell head over heels for a loser who was my first boyfriend and ended up having sex with him drunk. After this I slept with one other person. Now I’ve met my lovely sweet and kind boyfriend who is now my fiancé and I feel terrible that I’ll never be completely his and his only because these other two jerks have had me. I can’t help thinking if only I had hung on in there 1 year and a half later I’d meet the love of my life and be his and his only. His ex gave him her virginity and I can never give him mine it sucks. I just want him to be my only one. Submitted October 28, 2019 at 12:04AM I was brought up super red pilled and catholic so I wanted to remain a virgin till marriage. It was like my badge of honour literally. At 24 I fell head over heels for a loser who was my first boyfriend and ended up having sex with him drunk. After this ...

I was in a pretty serious relationship that ended a little over a year and a half ago, haven't really dated since then. Recently I've been going on more dates and actually making an effort and one thing I realized (maybe to save my own fragile ego) is that it's supposed to be fun and I feel people forget that! Most of my dates end in ghosting or not being compatible or what not, but last night I had an absolute blast with this girl and I came to the realization that these things are supposed to be fun in and of themselves. So guys don't forget to also have fun and enjoy the date itself, not just the search for a SO :) Submitted October 27, 2019 at 10:58PM I was in a pretty serious relationship that ended a little over a year and a half ago, haven't really dated since then.Recently I've been going on more dates and actually making an effort and one thing I realized (maybe to save my own fragile ego) is that it's supposed to be fun and I feel people f...

So I was dating this girl that tbh I got far far too attatched to for how serious it got but then I had liked her since April and it took me to the start of September to ask her out. Anyway she broke it off and tbh she'd made the right decision in hindsight but the fact that I got too attatched led me to send her a few rants. I don't know what I was trying to achieve with them but they happened nonetheless. So the other week I sent her a message on snap asking if she wanted to remain friends which she never opened for 2 days, so I double messaged which led me to realise that she'd blocked me. I'm assuming she was assuming that it was another rant and she just blocked me because she never wanted to read another rant (and tbh I don't blame her they were probably fairly cringey to be on the recieving end of). The fact she's made this assumption and blocked me over it has genuinely fucked me off though and snap is the only social media I'm blocked on. I have ...

We met in July and went on 5 dates in total. I have bad anxiety so I was a bit paranoic and questioned his interest a bit but we sorta cleared it up after some misunderstandings. He seems to be into me (physical attracted + interested in getting to know me) and said he likes me a lot. The point is on my side idk, even since the first 2 or 3 dates I thought I was VERY attracted to him physically and felt a strong pull towards him (lots of flirting, touching, fantasizing about sex etc) to the point I considered being friends with benefits even there wasn't the option of actual dating / romantic relationship. I didn't feel the strong infatuation / romantic idealization (it happened to me but I wasn't being in love or anything) though and doubted if I liked him or not. Again I overthink a lot so it's a mess sometimes. I really enjoy conversation with him and has lots of positive qualities, we are different on some things but like 2 months ago I thought I didn't wan...

I'm dating a guy who is divorced (18 mos ago) and I'm dying to know what ended their marriage but I don't want to make him uncomfortable by asking too soon. We talk quite a bit through text and on the phone. He has kids with her so it has come up several times in regards to co-parenting, and he told me that he didn't want the marriage to end. I guess that's why I'm concerned with it, in case it's a deal breaker, I don't want to develop feelings for him before I know. Submitted October 27, 2019 at 11:35PM I'm dating a guy who is divorced (18 mos ago) and I'm dying to know what ended their marriage but I don't want to make him uncomfortable by asking too soon. We talk quite a bit through text and on the phone. He has kids with her so it has come up several times in regards to co-parenting, and he told me that he didn't want the marriage to end. I guess that's why I'm concerned with it, in case it's a deal breaker, I don...

I called a girl this a little while ago, with the intention of eloquently letting her know that I was interested in her. Was that a good word to use, or is it too passive? Submitted October 27, 2019 at 11:48PM I called a girl this a little while ago, with the intention of eloquently letting her know that I was interested in her. Was that a good word to use, or is it too passive?

Also my friends think she changed her mind and she does like me but I would like more opinions. Im a junior (16) and she is a freshman (14)) I met this girl almost 2-3 months ago, I asked her out the 3rd week I knew her because someone told her and I freaked out and didn’t know what to do so I decided to tell her and ask her out. I got rejected, it was soft though. (I’m not taking that seriously because we barley knew anything about each other so I’m not giving up and I think that was the right choice) ever since I got rejected it’s been different between us. We talk all the time know In the halls (like between 3 classes and on the way to lunch. On the way to band competitions we sit next to each other and we play video games together. We played those Bitmoji games together and she kept making fun of me because I was bad at tennis. We also played Minecraft. On the way to the last band competition (last week) her band section leader (also her friend) kept saying stuff about us dating a...