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Ok. Please no bullshit I'm serious. I am engaged to be married. My wife is a very beautiful small Asian woman. I am a large mixed Male. Intercourse is an issue. I have resulted to not asking for it anymore because I feel so guilty. She is the only one that will ask for it but I clearly know it is painful. This is really bothering me. I don't think I am oversized but I think maybe she is a bit small? Sometimes afterward she will bleed. This is upsetting to me as I would never want to hurt her. I am very conservative so I don't have much experience other than my ex-wife. That was the only other person I have been with and we had the same problem. I don't want to lose my current girl like I did my ex and I'm not sure what to do. I have asked two physicians and they both just laugh it off. It is not funny and for us this is serious. We want children we are both nearing our 40s and we want to have that intimacy. I bought her toys because I thought maybe if we had someth...

So I have this friend group mainly consisting of guys (All my older sisters friends but I became close with them too) So like 5 years ago the younger sibling of a friend in the friend group (Lets call him Joe) and I ended hooking up only happened once because he wasn't the best in bed (Not his fault I took his virginity) About a year later I end up getting close to another friend (Lets call him Sam) in the group and we started going out and were together for 3 years. So about a week before me and Sam got together I had had this weird moment after an all nighter with Joe's older brother. It was early morning and we were sharing his bed as platonic friends do but ended up snuggling. Snuggling ended up with him getting a boner, one thing led to another and we were rubbing up on eachother, things probably would have escalated if it weren't for the rest of our friends also sleeping in that room. We never really spoke about it again after aside from saying it was a mistake an...

Question for women and men, do you like having your nipples played with and licked and sucked? What does it feel like to you and does it turn you on? Or maybe the complete opposite? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:33PM Question for women and men, do you like having your nipples played with and licked and sucked? What does it feel like to you and does it turn you on? Or maybe the complete opposite?

So my(27M) GF(27F) have been having sex for nearly 8 years together now. Yet i feel that she wants me to go really slow and hard which like 0.5 thrusts per second slow. Then she cums after about about 4 of these thrusts and I have to hold in position and doesnt want to cum again. Our foreplay consists of me rubbing her with wet fingers and quite a bit of oral from me to her then I get up on top. She sometimes goes on top but she says it can hurt and it is primarily grinding. When I confront her about it she says I make her come too fast if I go thrust quickly yet I dont know how she can cum any quicker than she already is. Am i doing something wrong here? Is there anything that can help her last longer? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:36PM So my(27M) GF(27F) have been having sex for nearly 8 years together now. Yet i feel that she wants me to go really slow and hard which like 0.5 thrusts per second slow. Then she cums after about about 4 of these thrusts and I have to hold in po...

Hey r/sex , I've mostly been a lurker on this thread since I joined but I've always been curious if any of you might have experience with an issue I have with my sex life that makes me feel very awkward, especially when I am with a new partner. Basically, I [M22] cannot orgasm without causing it myself. It requires me to sort of shake my body to an excessive amount, and so it isn't feasible for me to do so in any upright position. It causes me a lot of anxiety especially when I am with a new partner to whom I have not told this. Being able to go as long as my partner wants is a nice benefit, but I have found that running without a clock, as it were, is just not fun nor fulfilling. Has anyone had experience with something like this or known someone who has who has maybe shed some light as to how they may have surmounted it? Any advice would be appreciated. Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:45PM Hey r/sex, I've mostly been a lurker on this thread since I joined but I...

Any redditors here who have spina bifida and is a male, what is your experience with having sex, being able to get erect and with cumming? I have this condition and although I am not at a stage where I could raise a baby, I would like to know if there is a chance I could be a father Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:45PM Any redditors here who have spina bifida and is a male, what is your experience with having sex, being able to get erect and with cumming? I have this condition and although I am not at a stage where I could raise a baby, I would like to know if there is a chance I could be a father

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I (F27) have a partial longitudinal vaginal septum that has never been a huge problem before, moreso an inconvenience. I have been able to use tampons with minimal leakage, but sex hasn't always been the most comfortable thing. When the doctors first discovered it they said that it was hardly noticable and that it would stretch out during sex so they didn't push for removal. I have gone years without having sex because birth control made me think I was asexual, and now that I'm thinking about getting back into things I'm a bit concerned that it may have tightened up too much. I'm also planning on getting a copper IUD soon and am curious if the septum could cause issues with that. Has anyone had a vaginal septum removed and did it make a big difference in how sex felt? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:49PM I (F27) have a partial longitudinal vaginal septum that has never been a huge problem before, moreso an inconvenience. I have been able to use tampons with min...

And why? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:50PM And why?

So me and my GF have been sexually active for a while and we're both explorering sexually for the first time ever pretty much (except she had a headstart before we met). She loves giving me oral and I would love to give her it in return but the taste and even the smell makes me want to vomit (nearly did the first time). She says guys have eaten her out before so I think it could be a me thing since this is a first but at the same time I really don't think its supposed to smell that way. It doesn't upset her that I can't but I really want to pleasure her in all the ways she does me. She has a hormone imbalance and she started her period super late for a woman and I think this could be the cause somehow. Basically does anyone have any ideas or solutions to this problem? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:51PM So me and my GF have been sexually active for a while and we're both explorering sexually for the first time ever pretty much (except she had a headstart befor...

So this has been an issue for me for a while, I am happily uncircumcised but recently in my relationship we have gone back to condoms after years of my partner being on the pill and I'm running into the following issue: ​ I have very loose foreskin, often while having sex it comes up over the head and gets stuck there because of the condom. Before without the condom it would always retract. Now I'm having trouble finishing. Anyone have a similar experience? Can you recommend a brand of condom that maybe it a little tighter around the base and looser on top? Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:53PM So this has been an issue for me for a while, I am happily uncircumcised but recently in my relationship we have gone back to condoms after years of my partner being on the pill and I'm running into the following issue:​I have very loose foreskin, often while having sex it comes up over the head and gets stuck there because of the condom. Before without the condom it would alwa...

Hey friends. What would be a good place to find good bondage rope that's comfortable, strong, and affordable? I'd love to start doing more bondage! :) Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:56PM Hey friends. What would be a good place to find good bondage rope that's comfortable, strong, and affordable? I'd love to start doing more bondage! :)

Always wondered where other guys finished on themselves in the shower wherever Submitted June 01, 2019 at 11:56PM Always wondered where other guys finished on themselves in the shower wherever

This is not a troll post, real situation ​ I'm a 25 year old guy and I've never had a girlfriend or had sex. so I'm sexually frustrated, and due to being young and in good shape I have a very high sex drive. I've been told I'm good looking and I workout so I guess that is not what is stopping me from getting a girlfriend. I was raised in a conservative household and my parents don't believe in the girlfriend/boyfriend thing. I'm currently in nursing school and surrounded by girls, and I do like one of them. we are friends since we were placed in the same clinicals. anyways I've been on a site called fetlife and I messaged this lady (35 years old) she messaged me back and we chatted. she invited me to a swingers party which is today but I declined. we met at Starbucks and chatted for a bit. She has a great body and clearly knows what she wants. I told her that we should have a date at her house next week and she agreed. now part of me wants to do this ...

I haven’t seen my boyfriend for about 6 weeks and I’ve never craved him so much. I’ll see him in under 24 hours and I was wondering if there is anything I can do last minute that will spice things up in the bedroom? We are pretty adventurous (just bc I know a lot of suggestions may be something we have tried) but all suggestions very much appreciated!!! Thank u so muchhhh x Submitted June 02, 2019 at 12:07AM I haven’t seen my boyfriend for about 6 weeks and I’ve never craved him so much. I’ll see him in under 24 hours and I was wondering if there is anything I can do last minute that will spice things up in the bedroom? We are pretty adventurous (just bc I know a lot of suggestions may be something we have tried) but all suggestions very much appreciated!!! Thank u so muchhhh x

I’m newly dating someone with far less sexual experience than me (which is a first for me) - and I could use some advice on how to navigate that. With other partners, I’ve been pretty good at asking questions that reveal kinks, interests, and so forth. But in this instance it’s challenging. (Questions that might lead to kink/fantasy conversations with others instead lead to “How does it even work to have sex standing up?”) I can’t tell how much of what’s going on is that they’re way more vanilla than me and how much is it just a lack of experience. Thoughts on how to explore this productively? Submitted June 02, 2019 at 12:10AM I’m newly dating someone with far less sexual experience than me (which is a first for me) - and I could use some advice on how to navigate that.With other partners, I’ve been pretty good at asking questions that reveal kinks, interests, and so forth. But in this instance it’s challenging. (Questions that might lead to kink/fantasy conversations with o...

Sorry I don't know if this question is too stupid to post here, but its something that I've wondered about for a while. I don't have much sexual experience but out of all the times I've had sex I didn't feel any sensation inside me (I'm a girl). Even when I masturbate I never bother to finger myself as I can't feel it...my hands just get slimy...no point. -- If sex isn't painful then it feels totally numb down there while simultaneously feeling like I'm getting punched in the stomach. Is there something wrong with me? I was with a guy once who had really bad sex anxiety where he couldn't stay hard. It was totally alright with me and we found other ways to satisfy each other (it was really fun/enjoyable). Anyway, I'm not with that person anymore and I highly doubt that I'll find another person like that so I'm feeling a little nervous about my inability to enjoy penetration. What do you guys think? Submitted June 02, 2019 at...

hi! im writing here because the issue is really kind of heartbreaking to me so i was hoping for some advice. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, first six months we didnt have sex as i was a virgin with huge body issues and the idea of sex made me want to cry, he felt too uncomfortable to touch the subject so we just didnt had sex that long, then theres been half a year of quite a lot if sex, after starting to feel comfortable it turned out i loved sex and even had a bigger sex drive then him, it wasnt perfect but the sex was great and we laughed at my high libido, then came his half a year erasmus where he studied in portugal, now we have been living together for 3 months and i have an issue at first when we moved in his tooth started aching, a wisdom tooth, i understood the lack of sex drive even though it was sad. then came a hard time for his college work so i understood. he often came home and didnt want anything even though i asked and told him abiut my feelings...

You look a lot like a friend of mine, legit though it was her June 02, 2019 at 12:09AM

You look super cute! I'm in MI too but there aren't any Pride events around here :[ June 02, 2019 at 12:08AM

YOU’RE ADORABLE AND I LOVE THE COLOURS June 02, 2019 at 12:06AM

Definitely didn't know this was a thing but I can verify that I do love garlic bread 👍 June 02, 2019 at 12:00AM