Hello people wherever you are , I hope all doing great I , 28M , just got to know a 22F on Instagram , we are talking everyday , we seem to get closer each time , she's sharing me so many things from her world , she tells me almost everything ,talks about her family , her day, her plans , she even shares what she's doing and she seems to deeply care about me as much as I care for her , i'm not gonna lie , I'm infatuated with this girl , her messages do make me happy , listening to her voice is a bless , everything about her is beautiful , she is beautiful , and I want to advance with her, discussing marriage , meeting her parents and her family , and talk to mine about her , that kind of stuff you do when you're into someone ... I'm thinking to ask her out , or meet her and discuss things , communicate face to face , so we can deepen our bond , but when it comes to me I don't know how I feel , I have never thought of anyone that way , seeing how recently w...

Me 23F and him 25M been seeing each other for about a month, has have sex twice, and had the exclusivity talk. He still texts me enthusiastically and wants to meet up to hang out and do things other than sex, but there’s this gut feeling that is similar to how I have felt about guys who later have either slow fade or ghosted me in the past. It’s like he’s flirty and caring to an extent but not enough to make me feel secure. I have been with men in the past that don’t make me question whether he truly likes me as well as men who clearly just wanted me for sex, and he falls somewhat in the middle. For example, we text daily and he responds pretty quickly but it’s always me who initiates the conversation. I ask a lot about him and his life and he follows sometimes but not that much. I feel I don’t know much about him aside from where he goes for work (which is a whole struggle in itself bc he hides it and it took a while for him to “trust” me enough to reveal it to me) and some of his h...

So I've (26F) been dating this guy (26M) for 2 months now, and did for 1.5 months last year but I ended it over timing (sudden death in the family, work stress, insomnia issues). We text every day, super long messages talking about anything and everything, weekly calls, but there's over a 2 hour drive between us. I work Monday to Friday in an office, 45 hour weeks, and he's part time working random hours including some weekends. He was sick for a week so they scheduled him a few weekends in a row, so we were on a date once 2 weeks back and once last year. We're both in the same friend group so I knew him already, and by our conversations, this was soon leading to a relationship. We click insanely well, amazing chemistry, loads in common, super attracted to each other, all that lovely stuff. We were supposed to go on a day trip to a city, stay overnight, next week. He's been super busy outside of work, like help organising his friend's wedding, joining his bro...

Unrelated to this post, but I'm really looking forward to the Barbie movie! April 09, 2023 at 11:55PM

Mosquitos are pollinators for a bunch of flowers and plants and not all of them even need blood from another animal as part of their reproduction (eg. Elephant mosquitoes, they eat other mosquito larvae during their larvae phase ) and they're a source of food for a lot of other insects and animals Even cockroaches are shown capable of pollinating about 11 species of plants, and that they feed spiders, birds, blue-tongue lizards, etc. and as much as I hate those little bastards and kill them on sight with zero hesitation I'm not gonna pretend that they don't belong on this planet for a reason I'd rather press the blue button because I don't have a favourite porn star and therefore does nothing horrible to the ecosystem April 09, 2023 at 11:55PM

I (33F) have been seeing this guy for about 6-7 weeks. I’m in my mid thirties, generally a serial LTR person. Having been around the block now, while I do still get excited about people, I’m generally pretty good at compartmentalizing and keeping an even keel on the early honeymoon flood of endorphins. I met this guy and we had an epic first date — one for the books. Shut the place down, made out in the car. We had a fun second date too, but during the second date, it became pretty clear that we had little in common in terms of interests. The sex was so so, but I find the first time it usually is as you’re getting to know each other, so there’s a learning curve, plus I’m pretty awkward about that with a new partner. Actually, as we parted after the second date, I thought we were probably aligned that while it was fun, we’d probably not be a match. I was surprised when he hit me up like 5 days after that. It was out of mind for me, but because I had fun anyways, I agreed to go out ag...