I’ve been dating my GF for 2 months and just wanted to ask since I’m not sure. Currently she’s on her period and this morning during our facetime call that she wasn’t feeling well. So I wanted to ask you guys would it be better to text/call her in advance or surprise her with takeout + some of her favorite snacks/drinks? Submitted August 17, 2022 at 11:45PM I’ve been dating my GF for 2 months and just wanted to ask since I’m not sure.Currently she’s on her period and this morning during our facetime call that she wasn’t feeling well.So I wanted to ask you guys would it be better to text/call her in advance or surprise her with takeout + some of her favorite snacks/drinks?

So I (m21) am texting this girl (f21) and idk what to think. You see we're pretty good friends irl and I've developed a crush on her. We're talking just fine irl and I think there's even some game going on. But idk with texting. I'm trying to spark some convo but it's hard. We don't have much in common. So I'm trying just those generic questions or just bulshitting around to find a common topic. Not much luck yet. What's the main problem is respond time. On very rare occasions she replies immediately. Usuallly it's a few hours to a day. Someitmes even 2 days or she doesn't repsond at all. She replies sometimes with text and I can't read much from that. But sometimes it's a voice message where she sounds happy to speak to me. Idk how to describe it but it's this sort of happy voice with a giggle here and there. On the other hand we have a group chat with a few friends her included. And as I'm waiting for her repsonse I can...

Is it common to be attracted to a person of the same race. I find women that are white more attractive, and the women that have found me attractive are white too. Do you see the same in most cases? Submitted August 18, 2022 at 12:00AM Is it common to be attracted to a person of the same race. I find women that are white more attractive, and the women that have found me attractive are white too. Do you see the same in most cases?

i've been talking to this guy for almost 3 months and we live about 5 hours away from each other driving. i saw him in person about 2 weeks ago. a while ago he mentioned visiting my city and recently i brought it up again -- specifically to come in the next few months. he said he had a busy travel schedule with family and wouldn't be sure if he could visit in the next 2 months. but he said he would pay for me to travel to his city. i've never been in a relationship for context ( i am over 18) so idk if this is normal for people to do (in terms of offering to pay for travel) -- so i was wondering if this is typical for long distance relationships and relationships in general? Submitted August 18, 2022 at 12:04AM i've been talking to this guy for almost 3 months and we live about 5 hours away from each other driving. i saw him in person about 2 weeks ago. a while ago he mentioned visiting my city and recently i brought it up again -- specifically to come in the nex...

she’s cute as hell, but I no longer hit on women at their workplace; just no longer believe it’s the right thing to do, regardless of my attraction level 🫠. Submitted August 18, 2022 at 12:04AM she’s cute as hell, but I no longer hit on women at their workplace; just no longer believe it’s the right thing to do, regardless of my attraction level 🫠.

How do you tell the difference between a girl treating you as a fling vs a girl dating you? We are both 20M & 20F and work together. We have been going on dates for almost 2 months. First two dates were romantic but after that they have been more sexual. She has been creating the sexual tension and initiating all sex-related acts. She is touchy, sometimes in a romantic way and sometimes in a sexual way, but isn’t afraid of PDA. We do talk a lot on our dates but have not had any serious conversations yet. Outside of dating and work, we occasionally text but they are usually to set up dates. She does not initiate text convos to ask about my day. She likes spending time with me but if I get flirty or share feelings she gets kinda cold. Maybe this isn’t a fling? She did make future plans to see me (We are both going away for school but not far apart) But her actions during dates feel too sexualized (I’m ok with it but I don’t want it to be just sexual) so I am unsure if I am jus...

Same, imo I'm a really loving person but yea could be seen in a way I don't intend August 17, 2022 at 11:32PM

I'd say yes. You may experience sexual attraction, but it's not consistent. When you shake it out, your behavior is the same as a typical sex repulsed asexual. I don't feel like there's a point in forcing you into your own little empty cardboard box when we have a perfectly serviceable hotel with plenty of room for you. August 17, 2022 at 11:32PM