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Ex girlfriend threesome with new boyfriend

Long story short, my ex girlfriend wants me to have a threesome with her and her new boyfriend. We are totally broken up, no feelings on either side. But they think it would be fun / dirty to include me. I’m not opposed to it, and think it would be interesting... not really sure what to do? What do you all think? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:34PM Long story short, my ex girlfriend wants me to have a threesome with her and her new boyfriend. We are totally broken up, no feelings on either side. But they think it would be fun / dirty to include me. I’m not opposed to it, and think it would be interesting... not really sure what to do? What do you all think?

Anal training toys (I hope if I add this extra bit in my title this sub will allow me to post because of its ridiculous rules on not having a descriptive enough title so I hope all this extra bullshit will appease the dumbass rules here in this otherwise great sub)

Anyone have any suggestions on what anal toys to use to get myself ready for anal? I’m a bi male bottom and want to get used to anal so I can finally have sex but I want to know if there’s any toys that are as realistic as possible that help train for a good butt-fucking Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:35PM Anyone have any suggestions on what anal toys to use to get myself ready for anal? I’m a bi male bottom and want to get used to anal so I can finally have sex but I want to know if there’s any toys that are as realistic as possible that help train for a good butt-fucking

Weird question but what does it feel like having a dick in there?

Like, what does it feel like? Is there any feeling in the vagina after? How can I make it enjoyable for myself? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:46PM Like, what does it feel like?Is there any feeling in the vagina after?How can I make it enjoyable for myself?

Do numbing sprays really work? 🤔

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I never think of sexy things when I am cumming

I've always just thought of flowers. I like them. They are pretty. In the happy moment I don't think of sex or sexy things or sexy people, just of how nice I am feeling and I picture flowers. Does anyone else do anything like this? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:51PM I've always just thought of flowers. I like them. They are pretty. In the happy moment I don't think of sex or sexy things or sexy people, just of how nice I am feeling and I picture flowers. Does anyone else do anything like this?

The Day We Got Naked Together For The First Time (and fucked)

When my girlfriend, Ellie, got home from work one day, I asked her for sex. She said....yes! So then I said we should get each other naked and we did....with our mouths! Then she sucked my dick and I ate her butt. then I put my dick in her butthole, then tits, then vagina. we had so much fun when we fucked. Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:53PM When my girlfriend, Ellie, got home from work one day, I asked her for sex. She said....yes! So then I said we should get each other naked and we did....with our mouths! Then she sucked my dick and I ate her butt. then I put my dick in her butthole, then tits, then vagina. we had so much fun when we fucked.

How do I make a girl feel good?

Im a bisexual girl who finally wants to get sexually active with a girl I'm into. But i've inly had sex with males and shes had a lot of experience with girls. in the past when I fingered myself I could never get myself to the point I needed and would either give up or take my sex toy out and use it. I'm scared I wont be able to pleasure her the way shell pleasure me and...... I don't want to be the person. Any tips or advice for me, I currently feel hopeless and frustrated. Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:54PM Im a bisexual girl who finally wants to get sexually active with a girl I'm into. But i've inly had sex with males and shes had a lot of experience with girls. in the past when I fingered myself I could never get myself to the point I needed and would either give up or take my sex toy out and use it. I'm scared I wont be able to pleasure her the way shell pleasure me and...... I don't want to be the person. Any tips or advice for me, I current...

21yr old sex drive

I'm 21yrs old and I've been questioning my sex drive lately. The thought of sex hardly crosses my mind and I don't go out of my way to try pursue getting sex as I just don't ever feel horny. And in turn I don't really get erections either when I'm in a sexual situation. It annoys me because I want to have the want for sex and do dumb 21yr old sex things but I just don't have it (if that makes sense?). Currently abstained from self pleasuring for almost 2 weeks in hopes to regain something of a sex drive. Any input would be good because I'm just lost hahah. Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:54PM I'm 21yrs old and I've been questioning my sex drive lately. The thought of sex hardly crosses my mind and I don't go out of my way to try pursue getting sex as I just don't ever feel horny. And in turn I don't really get erections either when I'm in a sexual situation.It annoys me because I want to have the want for sex and do dumb 21y...

Is two straight guys having sex, gay sex

Having a debate with some friends and need honest answers only. Is two straight guys having sex, gay sex? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:03AM Having a debate with some friends and need honest answers only. Is two straight guys having sex, gay sex?

Unprotected sex after ovulation

So my girlfriend and I drank a bit and had unprotected sex on April 23. I ejaculated inside her. Poor judgement due to the alcohol. She had ovulated on April 14. (That was her prime day. She started ovulation on the 10th to the 16.) We used her period tracking app. Although as immature as this is we use the rhythm method (were we have sex unprotected and I pull out but use condoms during when it comes close to her ovulation.) recommended by friends of hers who do it and have not gotten pregnant for years. her period was suppose to come may 1st. She’s a day late. I know it’s only a day but yeah. what are the odds of her getting pregnant? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:08AM So my girlfriend and I drank a bit and had unprotected sex on April 23. I ejaculated inside her. Poor judgement due to the alcohol. She had ovulated on April 14. (That was her prime day. She started ovulation on the 10th to the 16.) We used her period tracking app. Although as immature as this is we use the rhyth...

How do I deal with "sex is taboo" in a healthy sex life?

So, me (21m) and my partner (19f) met in university, started dating at the end of her first (my third) year. I was her first for pretty much everything. First kiss, first sexual experience, pretty much anything relationship oriented I was she first. Its not that she was naive or had no clue what was going on, she just wanted to wait for someone special to do it with. She blossomed throughout the relationship into a sexually mindful and healthy person, open to trying new things and knowing where her boundaries were. We had sex the first time around 6 months in, it's been great since then (1 year and 2 months total relationship). I found out today that she has felt, almost every time to some degree when we've had sex or engaged in any sexual activity, that us engaging in sex is morally wrong, that her wanting sex is taboo in some way. Keep in mind, we have a toy that we use and I ordered some rather kinky sex items online that she was 110% into, she has some wild kinks that mes...

Could use some advice

Hi so I am an 18 year old male and I have something I need to figure out. . . . WTF is my sexuality!!!!! I find myself attracted to girls but girls do not seem to be interested in me, I am lucky to even be able to talk to a girl regardless is I actually find her attractive or not and In my case most of the girls I do talk to (which is precisely 6) it’s not like conversations really it’s more of like sending streaks on Snapchat kinda thing (if that really even counts as talking to girls) so anyways as you could imagine Im a virgin, I’ve never fucked a girl, had my dick sucked, kissed anyone, the closest I have ever come to doing it was getting nudes from a girl and then it just sort of became awkward between us and we stopped talking. Anyways due to the fact that I don’t really talk with girls and realize that I probably won’t ever get a chance with a girl who will actually like me or find me attractive I became addicted to internet porn at a somewhat young age and I sort of stopped my...

Here's a thought -- it strangely empowering to think about surprising your boyfriend / husband with a blowjob

I find it strangely empowering that I can walk up to him, suggest that I wanna go down on him, continue with my task, finish him off, and then walk away leaving no evidence, no indication, nothing whatsoever except a well-satisfied guy. Before everything stopped happening, I loved to do it before dinner with friends, only the two of us knowing the little secret, or in quick getaways when parents visited. Something strangely empowering about being completely in control of your partner's orgasm from start to finish and keeping it all a secret. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:15AM I find it strangely empowering that I can walk up to him, suggest that I wanna go down on him, continue with my task, finish him off, and then walk away leaving no evidence, no indication, nothing whatsoever except a well-satisfied guy. Before everything stopped happening, I loved to do it before dinner with friends, only the two of us knowing the little secret, or in quick getaways when parents visited...

I have never made myself orgasm, any tips?

My partner of 10 years is very loving and supportive and LOVES giving me oral, he keeps telling me that it’s his favourite thing to do to me. I love pleasing him, when it comes to pleasing me... I’m not so into it. I have never in my 25 years of life, made myself orgasm with my own hands, vibrator yes, hands never. I orgasmed for the first time at 18 with a vibrator, that my partner bought me. Just last year was the first time I actually let him try fingering and giving me oral (for more than 5 seconds before I get embarrassed and push him off me) and I did orgasm. My issue is now even though I know I like orgasming and I know I like oral and fingering, I’m so shy and scared. I love pleasing him and am very confident in that regard, the moment it’s my turn I feel scared, uncomfortable, and worried. I usually have to smoke a full joint just to relax enough to let myself enjoy it. What are ways you helped get more comfortable with yourself. I have tried the mirror trick and it DOES ...

On principle the idea of having balls sucked is really enticing, but in practice it hurts so much it’s basically not worth it

I mean keep doing it, please, by all means. But why tf it gotta feel like getting kicked in the dick. And no one is really gonna lick that shit like you want it to because no one wants hair on their tongue. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:21AM I mean keep doing it, please, by all means. But why tf it gotta feel like getting kicked in the dick. And no one is really gonna lick that shit like you want it to because no one wants hair on their tongue.

I’m ashamed of my kink.

For context I’m 18, Male, straight and a submissive. I have a kink where a guy forces himself into me. I believe this is my submissive side coming out. I have no attraction to penises or guys so I have no idea why I have this kink. If anyone could help me please do. Thankyou. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:22AM For context I’m 18, Male, straight and a submissive. I have a kink where a guy forces himself into me. I believe this is my submissive side coming out. I have no attraction to penises or guys so I have no idea why I have this kink. If anyone could help me please do. Thankyou.

Unsure if he (34/M) is for real... please help!

32/F here. I live in Europe, and just got a contract extension so it looks like I’ll be staying this side of the pond longer. Over Christmas when visiting fam in the US, I reconnected with my friend, Calvin (34/M). Since then, we’ve talked on the phone everyday and although we don’t have the title “relationship,” we are essentially dating Calvin is 34 and has never lived independently outside of college (he lives with his mom now). He’s an essential worker, so hasn’t been badly affected ($) by the pandemic, he smokes weed everyday, and he has a lot of student debt. Calvin hasn’t had a partner in 10 years. He justifies still living with mom to pay off his outrageous student debt. He justified not having had a partner bc he lives with his mom and she’s very Catholic. (None of the above bothered me...) Calvin has wanted to move to LA to become an actor. I support him in his dreams, even if they don’t involve me. For the past 5 years (prior to us hanging out), this has been his stated g...

Would you continue a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant if you had a history of narcissistic abuse from others and are Anxiously attached?

4 months in with 1 break up by me only to get back together (I mistakenly initiated it because I felt guilty and all I remembered were his good traits) and now it’s worse of course. We never fought, good break up, but I felt responsible. Now I feel even more stuck because I wanted to get back together but it’s awful! He’s 63. I’ve never been happy with him but we care for each other. He’s a good person. Red flags were waving tho and I suspected I was with a Narcissist. But he’s not evil like the others so it was confusing. I’m beating myself up trying to figure out why I feel so sad and rejected and obsessing over him. He recently sent me an article about “Dismissive Avoidant” attachment style and asked if this was what I was trying to tell him because he couldn’t understand why I was hurting so much. I’ve had PTSD from prior narcissistic abuse. When I read the Dismissive Avoidant attachment (can be different than a Narcissist) I was literally crying, yes it’s exactly how I felt carin...

Should I text him first?

So I (F16) met this guy online. We started talking and it was going great. We talked for more than a month. He would send me good morning texts and we would flirt all the time. He repeatedly told me that he found me very attractive and hot and he liked talking to me. But there was one thing,,, I was the one to start the conversation, always. I was the one to say hi first and keep the conversation going, despite him saying that he liked talking to me. It’s been 2 weeks since we last talked because I haven’t been texting him first. I wanted to see if he would put in any effort whatsoever to talk to me and he didn’t. So I want to know, should I text him and say Hey or should I let it be and forget about him?:(( (Also we are all in quarantine so he is probably on his phone the whole day, so there really isn’t any excuse) :( Edit: I forgot to mention that he also talked about visiting me after this whole covid-19 situation,,,, so I thought that he was genuinely interested :(( Submitt...

Would a woman have better luck on a dating app if she messages the guy first?

I get messages from guys but it typically fizzles out. When I message the guy first, I don’t get a different outcome. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:12AM I get messages from guys but it typically fizzles out. When I message the guy first, I don’t get a different outcome.

Could I ask a girl if she'd like to play Minecraft with me (since we can't go anywhere) ?

I know it sounds silly but since we can't go anywhere I though maybe I could ask her if she'd want to play Minecraft together. But here's the thing, we're both 18 and even though I never really "stopped" playing Minecraft, I don't know if its something 18 year old girls do xd Should I try ? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:17AM I know it sounds silly but since we can't go anywhere I though maybe I could ask her if she'd want to play Minecraft together. But here's the thing, we're both 18 and even though I never really "stopped" playing Minecraft, I don't know if its something 18 year old girls do xdShould I try ?

If we didn't get a divorce, we'd be together for 16 years....

Everyone always told us we would be together forever. We told everyone we would be together forever. and surprisingly, life rapes you. And you are no longer together. and in hell we live Submitted May 02, 2020 at 11:52PM Everyone always told us we would be together forever. We told everyone we would be together forever.and surprisingly, life rapes you. And you are no longer together.and in hell we live

I miss you

I wish I can turn back time and redo everything all over again the right way. 😔💗 I wish I can help him heal or clear his mind. I wish. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:06AM I wish I can turn back time and redo everything all over again the right way. 😔💗 I wish I can help him heal or clear his mind. I wish.