Could use some advice

Hi so I am an 18 year old male and I have something I need to figure out. . . . WTF is my sexuality!!!!! I find myself attracted to girls but girls do not seem to be interested in me, I am lucky to even be able to talk to a girl regardless is I actually find her attractive or not and In my case most of the girls I do talk to (which is precisely 6) it’s not like conversations really it’s more of like sending streaks on Snapchat kinda thing (if that really even counts as talking to girls) so anyways as you could imagine Im a virgin, I’ve never fucked a girl, had my dick sucked, kissed anyone, the closest I have ever come to doing it was getting nudes from a girl and then it just sort of became awkward between us and we stopped talking. Anyways due to the fact that I don’t really talk with girls and realize that I probably won’t ever get a chance with a girl who will actually like me or find me attractive I became addicted to internet porn at a somewhat young age and I sort of stopped myself cold turkey from watching porn or pleasuring myself to it and now that I have stopped, things don’t really get me going anymore and I think I’ve sort of just been desensitized by porn and tbh woman now and I’m not quite sure what to do about it. Also if anyone has tips on how to actually talk to girls or get them to notice you then please gimme any advice cus I’m the type of person where you will see me and then forget about me immediately however I am also the type of person that you might not like immediately but once you actually get to know me then I’ve very sweet and kind. Also final question should I delete tinder ?? I’ve been paying g for tinder gold for 10 months now and nothing has come of it I have gotten 21 matches in all and I have never once met any of them in person and most of those matches we matched and then didn’t even talk like I sent a first message but they never sent anything back so should I stop paying for tinder nor nah? Also I know this was a lot to read and please don’t be assholes about this cus yea I’m kinda of a pussy or whatever but I’m trying and nothing I’m doing works so give me actual advice please



Submitted May 03, 2020 at 12:15AM

Hi so I am an 18 year old male and I have something I need to figure out. . . . WTF is my sexuality!!!!! I find myself attracted to girls but girls do not seem to be interested in me, I am lucky to even be able to talk to a girl regardless is I actually find her attractive or not and In my case most of the girls I do talk to (which is precisely 6) it’s not like conversations really it’s more of like sending streaks on Snapchat kinda thing (if that really even counts as talking to girls) so anyways as you could imagine Im a virgin, I’ve never fucked a girl, had my dick sucked, kissed anyone, the closest I have ever come to doing it was getting nudes from a girl and then it just sort of became awkward between us and we stopped talking. Anyways due to the fact that I don’t really talk with girls and realize that I probably won’t ever get a chance with a girl who will actually like me or find me attractive I became addicted to internet porn at a somewhat young age and I sort of stopped myself cold turkey from watching porn or pleasuring myself to it and now that I have stopped, things don’t really get me going anymore and I think I’ve sort of just been desensitized by porn and tbh woman now and I’m not quite sure what to do about it. Also if anyone has tips on how to actually talk to girls or get them to notice you then please gimme any advice cus I’m the type of person where you will see me and then forget about me immediately however I am also the type of person that you might not like immediately but once you actually get to know me then I’ve very sweet and kind. Also final question should I delete tinder ?? I’ve been paying g for tinder gold for 10 months now and nothing has come of it I have gotten 21 matches in all and I have never once met any of them in person and most of those matches we matched and then didn’t even talk like I sent a first message but they never sent anything back so should I stop paying for tinder nor nah? Also I know this was a lot to read and please don’t be assholes about this cus yea I’m kinda of a pussy or whatever but I’m trying and nothing I’m doing works so give me actual advice please
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