Posts

Showing posts from February 15, 2020

Simply speechless

So after a mutually decided break my lady friend and I are re kindling things. I'm reluctant to call her my gf yet and she us reluctant to admit that title yet too. We both talked about that in particular. She says she isn't ready for a relationship yet due to things not yet being stable enough and that goes the same for me. I asked her what did a relationship mean to her and what she thought it was. We're both interested and studied physcology and value each other in being direct. After my question she seemed puzzled and interested. Prior to all of this I treated her to a home cooked meal and dessert. Things got a bit intense but didnt go past foreplay, we decided that It wasn't safe because we didnt have protection and my roommate decided to invite guests over during that time. Lol bit of a buzzkill. This whole experience just has me floored, with everything going on and how it panned out. It was like a scene from a movie. I know all of this sounds like lust and yo...

should i message her or just move on?

I matched with this girl on Tinder a month ago and we hit it off, We talked ever since (on snapchat), she always been the type that takes a long time to reply back on snapchat due to being busy. I asked her out and she said yes, so we go have a dinner and i really enjoyed talking to her. She said she had a fun time as well on the date. I keep talking to her and even give her my number so we can text now, which we do but she still takes forever to reply back. I finally ask her a few days after the first date if she would be down to go out again if she has time and she said yes she’s down when she’s free. I say sounds good! I would snapchat her and then it’ll take her sometimes 12 hours to reply back. Then she just stopped snapchatting me and texting me all together (for the past 2 days). I don’t know if I should ask her to go on another date for an upcoming day, or should I just move on? I’m confused because she’s telling me that she wants to hang out again, but she hasn’t reached out ...

Just got out of an 8 year relationship and am very introverted and have never used dating apps or groups. What do I do.

So I have had 3 long term relationships. All ending in them cheating. Two 2 year relationships and one 8 year. I've been fairly shy and introverted my whole life and I never had much trouble when I was in or just out of school finding a person. But now that I have spent my whole adult life with one person and it has ended. I am unsure of what to do. I don't go out much and I doubt anyone is going to messaging me at any point. I am getting a gym membership soon, but I don't think that's much of a dating scene. I hate bars and clubs and drinking and would be iffy on finding a partner there. I just don't know what do to or what to trust when it comes to finding a partner eventually. Does anyone have any advice? Success stories? Trusted dating apps? I need something. Submitted February 16, 2020 at 12:13AM So I have had 3 long term relationships. All ending in them cheating. Two 2 year relationships and one 8 year. I've been fairly shy and introverted my whol...

This guy

https://ift.tt/2Htr72I Submitted February 15, 2020 at 11:47PM https://ift.tt/2Htr72I

(Not his name btw)Just saw this on snapchat

https://ift.tt/3bGN10b Submitted February 15, 2020 at 11:49PM https://ift.tt/3bGN10b

/u/jobblejosh on I did an disguised asexual painting a while ago, and decided to try an aromantic one. It’s meant to be grass and fog(?) sorry it didn’t come out that well

I have to say I agree. A little more blurring, and adding some 'texture' to the clouds would make a great addition to an already good painting February 16, 2020 at 12:24AM

/u/gatemansgc on Asshole

i actually scroll through looking for aphobic posts like this to comment on February 16, 2020 at 12:18AM

/u/-Unavalible- on I don’t give any fucks, or get any either.

Nope February 16, 2020 at 12:14AM

/u/biscuit_bunnywabbit on Non-sex repulsed aces, what was your first time sex like after you told your SO you're ace?

Ahh, okay, nice. Thanks for your answer February 16, 2020 at 12:09AM

/u/apricotjuicer on I recently got this little totem to represent asexual solidarity, among other things. The ring just wasn't doing it for me aesthetically.

If I was gonna get a ring I'd probably get a thin one. All the ones I've seen are generally thicker though would a thin one still be classed as an ace ring? February 16, 2020 at 12:05AM

/u/crows_king on They are a lot smaller than I expected, but look what came in!!!

It was a wonderful pride parade, an you are a terrible goose. February 16, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/levelupgirl on Ayyyyy look at what ya girl just racked in from the discount aisle at Walgreens. The day after V-Day is great for single people.

Jealous, I fuckin love chocolate but I’m trying to lose weight :((( February 16, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Steropeshu on One of my good friends left for South Korea yesterday; as a going a way present, I repainted this pin with ace colors! They loved it! What do y'all think?

It's super cute! Where did you get the pin? I love skele-kitties :D Very vaguely reminds me of Honekoneko from, ironically, Panty and Stocking February 16, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Significant-Exit on Non-sex repulsed aces, what was your first time sex like after you told your SO you're ace?

Technically yes, she hints at it but she like being dominated so I take the hint and act like im initiating it. Edit:mistyped February 15, 2020 at 11:59PM

/u/TinkerLink on Anyone discover they were on the ace spectrum after a while?

Oh god you literally said what I was just thinking 30 minutes ago. I saw some art I adore, thought “I want to be apart of that debauchery” but then “urgh no”. February 15, 2020 at 11:59PM

/u/RebelIed on This was just one hate comment among hundreds on this video (the video itself is pretty good)

Getting offended by something you see on the internet then bitching about it isn't a struggle. Especially not when you're the one looking to get offended in the first place. February 15, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/EmeraldLight on So this one guy...

"Fuck off" would absolutely be in my vocabulary, followed by ending the friendship and blocking them. But I'm a tad... volitile (volatile?) February 15, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/ThePlaqueDoctor049 on I don’t give any fucks, or get any either.

The cure. February 15, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/mentalbaconstrips on My gf got me this ring and I'm just, aaaaaaaa.

Lol no problem! February 15, 2020 at 11:55PM

Need help with asking out crush

I am -18 years old, college freshman, in second semester(started around 3-4 weeks ago). So in one of my class I grew a liking for this girl, not because I knew her but through attraction(I do want to get to know her). Only this week did I finally grab my balls(not literally) and just talk to her, I asked her her name and told her mine, I then showed her somethings I am interested in and my hobbies. Sadly couldn't continue our convo because the class started and I sit far away from her and the class has limited seats. I have noticed though that we do look at each other once in a while which is why I decided to just talk to her. I do want to ask her out next time we have class. Should I ask her out for lunch whenever she is free? for coffee? Whats is your opinion on the best way I can get through this situation. Submitted February 15, 2020 at 11:27PM I am -18 years old, college freshman, in second semester(started around 3-4 weeks ago).So in one of my class I grew a liking fo...

Interested in someone younger don't know what to do

So I'm interested in this guy who's 3 years younger than me. We go to the same university. I'm 21F he's 18M. It all started last week we met in a student lounge we were playing pool and listening to music. He stayed getting a bit touchy like hugging me, putting his arms around me...etc. From then on whenever we meet he'd hug me, when we sit he'd lie down and rest his head on my shoulders or thighs. Being the lovely idiot me this peaked my interest and now I might like him. Idk how to act, what to do? Maybe I should try to hang out just yet two of us so he knows I like him? Please help what should I do? Submitted February 15, 2020 at 11:45PM So I'm interested in this guy who's 3 years younger than me. We go to the same university. I'm 21F he's 18M. It all started last week we met in a student lounge we were playing pool and listening to music. He stayed getting a bit touchy like hugging me, putting his arms around me...etc. From then on whe...

Guy is confusing me and I don’t know how to handle it?

Guy acts like we are in a relationship but says he doesn’t see this getting any more serious? Guy doesn’t see this going any further?? Hi so I met this guy he is 26 and I am 24, after three dates (that went great btw) I had asked him if he wanted to do something soon, he said “yes but I want to let you know I don’t see this going any further, if you want to hang out that’s fine I just wanted to be upfront. “ which I was confused because he barely knows me at this point. So of course me being an idiot I continued on and kept hanging out with him. He then said he changed his mind about this not going any further. (But then a week after that he was saying it again) We hang out 2 to 3 times a week, go on dates go to hockey and football games, hiking , hook up etc. stuff that you wouldn’t do if you didn’t like someone? Yesterday (Valentine’s day) he got me chocolate and wine and said happy Valentine’s Day but then said don’t take this the wrong way!!!! Everything was going great he tells...

Never felt more confident

Been lacking a bit of confidence in dating for the past year or so. Last night I was visiting my friend's college to go to a party (haven't partied in like 5 months). After we left, one of his friends texted him letting him know that he thought I was cute!. He's a handsome, well dressed gay guy and I'm a straight guy, but that definitely gave me a lift today. Someone thought I looked cute!!! Submitted February 15, 2020 at 11:57PM Been lacking a bit of confidence in dating for the past year or so. Last night I was visiting my friend's college to go to a party (haven't partied in like 5 months). After we left, one of his friends texted him letting him know that he thought I was cute!. He's a handsome, well dressed gay guy and I'm a straight guy, but that definitely gave me a lift today. Someone thought I looked cute!!!