So I recently had a conversation with a someone is one of the most genuine people I have ever met and who is a very close friend that she will be pursuing a religious life. She brought it up because she didn't want me waiting for her if I was looking to date her. Now, before you start saying that she is just being pretentious, we did try the whole dating thing, but it was around when covid first hit, and it just wasn't the right time for either of us. She is also very religious and is very passionate about it. I am so glad to have met someone so honest about themselves that they would rather take the hard road and tell you straight up than drag you along on a string. It feels great to have someone tell me why they do not want to date or mislead instead of confuse the hell out of me. I'd just like to make a suggestion all of those in a relationship or currently talking that you be upfront about yourself and what you expect, because, even if it might hurt in the moment, it ...

td;lr found myself in a mutually beneficial relationship, when we both know it can't work out in the long run. Is it ridiculous that we keep it going until the inevitable expiration date? I 32F met him 30M at the beginning of September. He lives two provinces over, but we're from the same place and have found ourselves back there under similar circumstances. My father passed away, so I'm here giving support to my albeit toxic family, while also pursing an amazing employment opportunity. He's here looking after his mom whose sick, but seems like she'll pull through. I don't think either one of us have been ourselves, both of us have been fairly emotionally distant but we've been able to give each other a lot of support and have been there for each other. I've always known he'd go back and that I wouldn't be giving up my career for him. This kind of came to a head last night and we broke up, mutually and respectfully. But I kind of broached the ...

Is it okay for a girl you're interested in to tell you that you should keep on talking to other girls since she is also talking to other boys? When she told me this, at first, i told her that I won't talk to any other girls since she is the one for me. However that statement kept on bothering so after a days a made a resolution and i told her that she was right and she just laugh about it. As a result, i started talking to other girls but it's too early to judge if i made a right decision. Have you guys be in this situation? What happened? Submitted October 12, 2021 at 01:15AM Is it okay for a girl you're interested in to tell you that you should keep on talking to other girls since she is also talking to other boys?When she told me this, at first, i told her that I won't talk to any other girls since she is the one for me. However that statement kept on bothering so after a days a made a resolution and i told her that she was right and she just laugh about...

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Fondant is so disgusting. I can't have it anywhere near my food. It straight up ruins the cake as soon as it touches it, sucking any joy - and moisture! - out of the sponge! Oh. Huh. Kinda have a new understanding of our sex-repulsed siblings. Also r/FondantHate October 12, 2021 at 12:18AM

I think that would make you more at home in certain furry sub-communities. October 12, 2021 at 12:17AM

That is so wholesome ☺️ Wishing you and your fur babies all the best 🖤 October 12, 2021 at 12:10AM

As the title says, my girlfriend doesn’t know where her clitoris is, and I’m not experienced enough to really know how to show her without it being super awkward, and I want to be able to make her feel good. Any suggestions would help. Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:42AM As the title says, my girlfriend doesn’t know where her clitoris is, and I’m not experienced enough to really know how to show her without it being super awkward, and I want to be able to make her feel good. Any suggestions would help.

I'm 29 male. I just discovered that I love it when a man penetrates me and stimulates my prostate. how do I have a massive orgasm without touching myself? also if I jerk off after being penetrated and I have almost double the cum spewing out is that considered a prostate orgasm? Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:43AM I'm 29 male.I just discovered that I love it when a man penetrates me and stimulates my prostate.how do I have a massive orgasm without touching myself? also if I jerk off after being penetrated and I have almost double the cum spewing out is that considered a prostate orgasm?

Hi, I hope everyone is doing well. I have a question, yet I don’t know how to ask shape it. So, prior to sex, my female friend told me she liked to be dominated. She stated this over and over and over. I asked her to explain it. What I understood was to simply treat her like a sex object. Almost rape like sex. I tried to meet her expectations, but failed. She said the sex wasn’t good at all. I asked if I should have gone as deep and hard as possible and she said yes to the point of hurting her without stopping and she said yes. I think the inhibiting factor was my lack of fitness contributing to a bad experience for her. Has anyone been in her shoes or my shoes. What are your thoughts, and how can I make it so I am a memorable experience that she comes back just for the sex because it was so good. Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:44AM Hi, I hope everyone is doing well. I have a question, yet I don’t know how to ask shape it. So, prior to sex, my female friend told me she lik...

I have been single for a while. I've been considering just casual hookup. The problem is I develop feelings for the person after hooking up. How do I just enjoy the moment and not develop feelings??? Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:49AM I have been single for a while. I've been considering just casual hookup. The problem is I develop feelings for the person after hooking up. How do I just enjoy the moment and not develop feelings???

I’m guessing I’m younger than the average age of the people in the sub so this may seem like a obvious answer question, but for those of you who masturbate (and/or watch porn )- do you do it much less while in a Relationship? Before I’d at least do it 1-2 times a day, now it’s not uncommon for me to not do it if my girlfriends around, mostly because at that point we’ll just get it going. But even on days when I don’t see her, I don’t necessarily “feel” to do it like I did before . Of course I’m still horny , it’s kind of hard to explain, but nowadays I more often get “I can’t wait to release all this energy with my girl” instead of “I’m horny let me go get one off” . I’m just wondering if that’s the same for anyone else or are there people who had opposite experiences? Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:50AM I’m guessing I’m younger than the average age of the people in the sub so this may seem like a obvious answer question, but for those of you who masturbate (and/or watch porn ...

I am a woman in my 20s, recently, with a group of my closest friends we decided to have casual group sex just to have fun and see how it goes. We, myself included, had a lot of fun and laughs while it happened and there was no awkwardness whatsoever after we were done. It was really amazing how it changed nothing about our relationship and how we were able to approach it in a mature way and treat it as a learning experience. That being said, my regret appeared and started overwhelming me as soon as more people found out about this. It turned out that both me and all the other participants told at least a few people (mostly drunk, in a party setting) about what happened. One of them even told this story as an anecdote to our completely new friend group which made me spiral into anxiety since it made me feel like I no longer have a clean slate with them and that it will completely mess up my image from the get go. I just started experiencing guilt and regret regarding that experience I ...

Man it’s like I’m playing dating on hard mode. Everyone lives so far apart from each other. If I go to bars and shit to talk to people I can’t even drink much so I don’t get the advantage from drunk confidence. I guess I need to go to meetup groups to get to know people but man it’s hard to date in suburbs for me Submitted October 11, 2021 at 11:58PM Man it’s like I’m playing dating on hard mode. Everyone lives so far apart from each other. If I go to bars and shit to talk to people I can’t even drink much so I don’t get the advantage from drunk confidence. I guess I need to go to meetup groups to get to know people but man it’s hard to date in suburbs for me

We have been exclusively dating for almost 2 months and made it clear we’re not going to see anyone else. It was only 10pm and he tells me he usually sleeps around that time, i gave him the benefit of the doubt bc he’s in college. Its when he turns off his active status, i start to overthink alot. Do i have the right to ask him why? Should I just let him be? What can i do to feel secure? (M and F in our 20’s) Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:04AM We have been exclusively dating for almost 2 months and made it clear we’re not going to see anyone else. It was only 10pm and he tells me he usually sleeps around that time, i gave him the benefit of the doubt bc he’s in college. Its when he turns off his active status, i start to overthink alot.Do i have the right to ask him why? Should I just let him be? What can i do to feel secure?(M and F in our 20’s)

We're both in our late 20's and I would say that she's an introverted type girl/nerdy and we met online for over two months and things were going great! Our first 1-hour date went quite well and she even initiated the second date shortly after our first date. (Which surprised me) On our second date, everything seemed to be going ok, but towards the 2nd-3rd hour, she said she's tired and wanted to go home. She seemed kinda annoyed but always had a smile towards me. I thought to myself, yeah, maybe we spent together a bit too long and tried to brush it off. (I noticed her texting started to taking much longer to respond) Prior to our third date, she sent a text saying we can grab drinks after our date of mini golf since she'll be up all night and she cares for me with a kissy emoji. After we finished our game, I asked if she wanted to go grab some drinks and she hits me with the same "I think I'm going to head home, I'm tired"... I asked her if ...

So I’ve been talking to this guy for a while and he just texts me something like “how was your weekend and a funny nickname” or a joke or like sometimes even him roasting me 😂 Then I reply and he just vanishes mid convo. And im on delivered for like one or two days and then he replies or texts me something about what I said the last time we talked. I’m not even the one who texts him bc him doing this makes me feel like he doesn’t want to talk to me so I just reply and do nothing. Why is he texting me then ?!? I really don’t understand Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:08AM So I’ve been talking to this guy for a while and he just texts me something like “how was your weekend and a funny nickname” or a joke or like sometimes even him roasting me 😂 Then I reply and he just vanishes mid convo. And im on delivered for like one or two days and then he replies or texts me something about what I said the last time we talked. I’m not even the one who texts him bc him doing this makes me...

Is it normal to not text all day long with your boyfriend? I mean like “good morning”, and then nothing else till 10:00 at night? He’s just not much of a texter but we’re in love with each other. Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:11AM Is it normal to not text all day long with your boyfriend? I mean like “good morning”, and then nothing else till 10:00 at night? He’s just not much of a texter but we’re in love with each other.

This story started about three weeks ago when a girl in one of my classes messaged me on Instagram. Initially I had no interest in her but after a few days I started to like talking to her. Since then we've exchanged conversations back and forth almost every day on snapchat and I occasionally catch her staring at me in class. Just a few days ago she asked if I wanted to hangout on halloween I was caught off guard but agreed. About a day ago she said that she would not be able to since she was meeting with friends. What should I do? Submitted October 12, 2021 at 12:15AM This story started about three weeks ago when a girl in one of my classes messaged me on Instagram. Initially I had no interest in her but after a few days I started to like talking to her. Since then we've exchanged conversations back and forth almost every day on snapchat and I occasionally catch her staring at me in class. Just a few days ago she asked if I wanted to hangout on halloween I was caught of...