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/u/Evidmid on Just got this from one of those table fireworks :) Family confused why I'm so happy

Pretty sure they are :) December 31, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/Guagua12 on Hi everyone I watercolored a frog he says you’re valid

Thanks Frog :') December 31, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/EmilaiG on Is heterosexual/homoromantic possible?

You're welcome December 31, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/AcePainromantic on I’m not planning on coming out any time soon. Is that bad?

I know my parents will not get it so I'm kind of planning on a sort of "half" coming out. I'm a panro ace and I'm gonna tell them I'm bisexual because I don't want to have to explain labels they don't know only for them to say it's dumb. Plus, I'm not bothered whether they think I'm having sex or not. (I probably won't be tho :))) ) December 31, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/optimisticpessimist2 on Is heterosexual/homoromantic possible?

Cool thanks December 31, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/allo100 on Is heterosexual/homoromantic possible?

It is possible. Someone earlier identified at that. December 31, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/Gluetop on Digital art — Ace of Spades ♠️

Thank you so much!!🥰 December 31, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/AllMyBeets on I've decided that I'm no longer asexual, so as a goodbye, i made garlic bread to all of you guys

Good luck! 💜 December 31, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/sternendrache2 on ouch

I do not understand how it could offend someone if other people get representation December 31, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/PM_ME_UR_PC_SPECS on he moment cishet people (mostly them) will stop seeing every LGBT interaction as inherently sexual, it will be the beginning of a new time

We do. Because aromanticism is inherently queer. You wouldn't question a heteroromantic bisexual's queerness, because bisexuality is inherently queer. Same thing applies. December 31, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/CrepesOfWrath95 on Trying some online dating, my friend is being nice and supportive

Your friend seems like a golden retriever, not 100% sure what’s going on but super excited for it anyway :) December 31, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/AcePainromantic on How long did it take for you to accept yourself for being asexual?

Almost immediately after finding out what it was, every description I read fit me more and more. I was just held back by not knowing what it was. December 31, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/arcticboom327 on I found this on tumblr by littleartsmart and feel like it fits here

Setting aside all of the metaphors and conversation about what represents asexuality the best, I am, above all, touched that the Trevor Project has a page dedicated to us asexual people. It's just a huge relief to me! December 31, 2020 at 11:44PM

/u/murdermooshroom on ouch

idk they’re just so rude 😔 December 31, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/allo100 on Just got this from one of those table fireworks :) Family confused why I'm so happy

Well ace of spades is the highest card in the deck in many games. They should be happy for you. Lol. 🤷‍♂️ December 31, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/murdermooshroom on ouch

ikr December 31, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/allo100 on How did you talk to your partner about being ace in your relationship?

There are articles in the wiki and about tabs here. You can read there. In addition, as an allo married to an asexual) this is what I would suggest. Let your partner know what asexual is. You may find they attractive aesthetically or sensually, but you don't have feel sexually attracted to anybody Let them know your feeling towards having sex (sex positive, sex neutral, sex repugnant). How may times a week or month you feel comfortable having sex. For my spouse and I, this was the biggest issue. If you are romantic and you love your partner let them know that. Many allosexuals equate sex with love. They can be different. If you are strong physical touch (kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc) uss those to show your love. Also learn your partner's preferred love language to help show your love (words of affirmation, gifts, quality time, acts of service, physical touch). These will not replace sex though. So hopefully your sexual frequency is compatible for both of you.

/u/Weebus-Maximus on I've decided that I'm no longer asexual, so as a goodbye, i made garlic bread to all of you guys

on a similar path myself, currently doing parkous between grey ace and bi... CAN I JUST FKN DECIDE December 31, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/EmilaiG on Is heterosexual/homoromantic possible?

SAM* sorry I mistyped Split attraction model, a person's romantic and sexual orientation, so for me in romantically attracted to any gender, but sexually attracted to noone. Making me biromantic December 31, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/optimisticpessimist2 on Is heterosexual/homoromantic possible?

What is the SAT? December 31, 2020 at 11:32PM

/u/-Finity- on Just a mild vent

Yeah, I'll give it some time. Really wait till I identify as ace for longer cause even though I'm rather certain I'm ace, I only figured it out 2 weeks ago. So yeah, time would be nice. Though...I rather like PowerPoint presentations XD Hmm, interesting isn't it? Like, I got 2 other aces, 2 bi, 1 pan and 1 gay in my immediate group of friends. You're right, wonder how we all met up like that. I didn't even know they are part of the LGBT community until a year after I hung out with them? The collective force of the LGBT XD Thank you, most people ignore my puns XD December 31, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/theyarnbat on ouch

Ugh December 31, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/sternendrache2 on ouch

What is wrong with some people? December 31, 2020 at 11:25PM