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So, my gf is a total bratty sub. She knows it, and she loves it, and so do I, cause I’m a dom, and we’re both immensely sexually compatible. Rough nasty sex is the best, and she’s got a kink for being dominated, as well as having a thing for public sex or just doing naughty things out in public. I like talking dirty to her, and she likes the dirty talk. She likes it when I tell her what to do. However, I’ve sort of run out of ideas of what exactly to say. Usually I say things like “who’s your pussy belong to, hows my dick taste/feel, choke on it” So I’m looking for more ideas on what to say, or to ask her, and since she’s got such a kink for doing things in public, I’m curious as to what I could ask her/say to her in public to get her going. Also if any of you have things you like to say or hear from your partner just in general during sex please let me know! The more the merrier. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:35AM So, my gf is a total bratty sub. She knows it, and she love...

I’ve had sex many time and I have tried many different positions but sex just either sometimes hurts or just doesn’t feel like anything. My current bf has made other girls cum during sex yet I just feel like something is wrong with me. All my friends can cum with sex and I just don’t know what to do. I suggested using sex toys but my bf was kind of eh and didn’t seem interested about it when I mentioned it. Is there something wrong with me? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:48AM I’ve had sex many time and I have tried many different positions but sex just either sometimes hurts or just doesn’t feel like anything. My current bf has made other girls cum during sex yet I just feel like something is wrong with me. All my friends can cum with sex and I just don’t know what to do. I suggested using sex toys but my bf was kind of eh and didn’t seem interested about it when I mentioned it. Is there something wrong with me?

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My girlfriend and I have been together nearly a year. In this time we have known that she is bisexual but she had never tried anything with another girl. I've been fine with her doing it but she was waiting for a girl she was comfortable with and recently found that girl. Over the last few weeks her and her friend have been messing around. We all know each other but her friend and I not as well because they go to college together a few hours away. But now we have been getting to know each other better and it has become an idea in my girlfriends and my own head that this could possibly become a throuple. So I need to know how well these actually work out. I really like the idea and my girlfriend seems into it as well. I should probably add that we know her friend would be into it too because she's mentioned that she likes the idea of having both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Any advice or similar stories at all would be wonderful? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:04AM My gir...

Current human im seeing is into it but my past relationships are all vanilla. I liked what I’ve experienced but need tips? It was quite painful. I like a little pain though, just not that much. Help? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:10AM Current human im seeing is into it but my past relationships are all vanilla. I liked what I’ve experienced but need tips? It was quite painful. I like a little pain though, just not that much.Help?

We got a bit drunk this weekend, talked about hooking up and then we actually did it. Now I want it to happen again but I'm super awkward. I have no idea if they liked it (i'm not a confident prrson, I feel like they weren't having as much fun as I did) and want it again or not, I don't know how to ask. How long after we hooked up is it okay to ask for more? I have never done this so I'm scared to come off as needy - we talked about not wanting a relationship, only sex. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:14AM We got a bit drunk this weekend, talked about hooking up and then we actually did it. Now I want it to happen again but I'm super awkward. I have no idea if they liked it (i'm not a confident prrson, I feel like they weren't having as much fun as I did) and want it again or not, I don't know how to ask.How long after we hooked up is it okay to ask for more? I have never done this so I'm scared to come off as needy - we talked about not w...

I just wanted to celebrate the news! I’m in my mid 20’s, and all my life I needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm. This includes masturbation and sex. But today, I played with myself and found the perfect angle with my dildo, and I was able to orgasm without touching my clit! I am so excited to have found this out about my body! Has any other woman experienced vaginal orgasms late in life as well? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:21AM I just wanted to celebrate the news! I’m in my mid 20’s, and all my life I needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm. This includes masturbation and sex. But today, I played with myself and found the perfect angle with my dildo, and I was able to orgasm without touching my clit! I am so excited to have found this out about my body!Has any other woman experienced vaginal orgasms late in life as well?

My boyfriend has insane stamina. Couple that with the fact that he's having trouble ejaculating (separate situation we are working on) and we can pretty much go for hours multiple times a day. This is the first guy I've (20F) been with that actually takes the time to make sure everything feels great for me and that I have been so attracted to. My libido is off the wall for the first time in my life and I kind of want to take advantage of it. Except after having sex for about an hour my vagina starts to get kind of sore. We stop to relube if anything starts drying out. But still, if we do it multiple times in a day, in the next few days its really not happy to go again. I realise I can't really solve this issue completely, but is there some way i can minimise the pain? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:26AM My boyfriend has insane stamina. Couple that with the fact that he's having trouble ejaculating (separate situation we are working on) and we can pretty much go...

I never achieve orgasm during sex (with masturbation I easily can), no matter who is my partner and what is he trying to do. It feels okay, but I don't feel almost anything. So yeah, if anybody have advice or idea why I would appreciate it Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:26AM I never achieve orgasm during sex (with masturbation I easily can), no matter who is my partner and what is he trying to do. It feels okay, but I don't feel almost anything. So yeah, if anybody have advice or idea why I would appreciate it

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Tldnr; i dont like sex or the idea of casual sex. Can I find love in 2019s hook up culture ? Will I have to start pretending to like sex to find love ? I've always wanted to save myself for marriage. I dont enjoy sex. I don't enjoy the idea of casual sex. So dating has been challenging. I'm always up front about those facts My first gf said we would always be together. We slept together. The sex was bad. She left me. I was devastated I felt foolish and ashamed for giving her my virginity. My next gf I was (again ) very honest about my ideas of sex. She was (also) very patient. Eventually we were talking about moving in together. We had sex. It was great. She left me I feel even worse now. I feel I'm developing trust issues. It seems people cannot comit. They change their minds. Their perspectives. I was recently seeing a girl and she left me because I didn't want to have sex until we were more committed. She pressured me to have sex and I declined . Even th...

tl;dr - my boyfriend and i lost our virginities to each other, and the two times we've had sex, neither of us can feel anything A couple days ago, my LDR boyfriend came to visit me and we had sex for the first time. It was both of our first times. After a bit of foreplay, he penetrated me in missionary position. For me, all I felt was pain and I could not tell he was moving at all inside me. He complained of not having much sensation, either, but he ended up finishing. I am aware that the first time isn't supposed to be great or always lives up to expectations, but I was expecting to at least be able to tell if he was moving or inside me. We talked about it and we were both stumped. The second time we had sex, we started with foreplay again and this time we tried doggy. He was able to penetrate deeper, but still had the same complaints. There was still pain, but I could somewhat feel him moving inside me. He told me that he often lost sensation, but was still able to finish...

To preface, my dick is pretty thick, but this has never happened before. She also wasn't completely closed off like in cases of vaginismus I've read about, as I was able to get a couple fingers inside. It was very consensual, and she seemed very turned on and was really wet. I thought being turned on expanded the vagina, but I'm not an expert. I think I could've gotten it in with enough force, but it would be painful for her, so that's obviously off the table. I really like this girl, so not being able to have sex would put a damper on things. Is there something I can do to help this situation? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:41AM To preface, my dick is pretty thick, but this has never happened before. She also wasn't completely closed off like in cases of vaginismus I've read about, as I was able to get a couple fingers inside. It was very consensual, and she seemed very turned on and was really wet. I thought being turned on expanded the vagina, but ...

I can make my long-term S/O [20F] can squirt, but no matter how close I get her, or what technique, or how hard/soft/slow/fast I go when she is close, she will not cum (including oral/finger-play). She is able to cum with me watching, and says that she’s content when we do have sex but I was hoping that after all this time together I would have made her cum once by now. I was a little concerned about this early on, but I was working under the impression that she was still opening up to me but I don’t think that’s the case anymore more. If it helps, she’s only had 1 partner before me and she did not squirt/cum with him. It’s extremely frustrating... am I just bad at sex or is this a somewhat common thing? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:41AM I can make my long-term S/O [20F] can squirt, but no matter how close I get her, or what technique, or how hard/soft/slow/fast I go when she is close, she will not cum (including oral/finger-play).She is able to cum with me watching, and s...

So a little background as to what I [20F] like to see. I feel like it might be fairly deviant but I love to see strangers fucking. I’m not talking about paid actresses pretending they have no clue what’s going on, I’m talking real strangers fucking raw. I like the raunchiness but I would like enough quality to see what’s going on. It doesn’t have to be stellar. I just like my porn to feel more real. I really do like when the woman seems reluctant ( key word is “seems”) and the man pushes through anyway. I don’t care for subscriptions because I don’t watch porn often enough to warrant it. Are their any subreddits for this type of thing? Point me in the right direction please. I would love to be able to get off to a video Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:58AM So a little background as to what I [20F] like to see. I feel like it might be fairly deviant but I love to see strangers fucking. I’m not talking about paid actresses pretending they have no clue what’s going on, I’m talking r...

I keep trying to find someone I know personally who I believe will answer me with the answer I want to hear and I am pretty sure thats not actually how advice is supposed to work, thus - I come to Reddit... ​ Wondering if I (31F) should sleep with my ex (25M). The opportunity has recently come up and it is something I am seriously considering doing. We broke up in the beginning of February, so just a few months ago. I took it very, very hard. He on the other hand, did not. I have not slept with anyone else and I have only been on one date that ended up going very poorly. He immediately got into a relationship after we broke up and it has not gone well at all. He is planning on breaking up with her the next time he sees her in person. Something to note is that although they've been dating for a couple of months, they have not yet slept together for a few reasons (she has a traumatic sexual history, he isn't quick to go "all the way" - he's only had two previous ...

I masturbate frequently, and i’ve been doing it for a long time (since i was around 9/10, i didn’t know what masturbation even was and only did it in rare occasions). There are times were i masturbate daily and some days more than once. However i’m just worried that it will affect me in any way, I know there’s nothing wrong with doing it but I thought because i’ve done it so frequently and for a long time I could be more likely to have something ? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 07:01AM I masturbate frequently, and i’ve been doing it for a long time (since i was around 9/10, i didn’t know what masturbation even was and only did it in rare occasions). There are times were i masturbate daily and some days more than once. However i’m just worried that it will affect me in any way, I know there’s nothing wrong with doing it but I thought because i’ve done it so frequently and for a long time I could be more likely to have something ?

My GF orgasms when we have sex, or when I finger or give oral. she tells me she orgasms and I can literally feel her body shake and pulsate. She tells me she orgasms, and every time she does, it blows my mind because I used to be this shy/awkward person, and to make a woman orgasm, it’s a huge fucking pat on the back. This humbly boosts my self esteem and made me realize that I’m so much more confident during sex, and I’m just happy that my GF can get off :) Anyone else here get those “Woah? I did that” moments? Submitted April 29, 2019 at 07:04AM My GF orgasms when we have sex, or when I finger or give oral. she tells me she orgasms and I can literally feel her body shake and pulsate.She tells me she orgasms, and every time she does, it blows my mind because I used to be this shy/awkward person, and to make a woman orgasm, it’s a huge fucking pat on the back.This humbly boosts my self esteem and made me realize that I’m so much more confident during sex, and I’m just happy t...

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I’m a little freaked out rn. I tried anal sex a couple hours ago, and now I can’t poop, and my anus hurts. I sat on the toilet for like 15 minutes and pushing felt painful. And when I went to look it didn’t look 100% right. I can’t tell if it’s just a little swollen, or it it’s something more serious. I haven’t noticed any bleeding. How concerned should I be? And has this happened to anyone else? Also I’m not looking for advise on how to do anal, or for anyone to tell me I did it wrong. We were careful and used lube, but obviously it didn’t go super smoothly. I’m just looking for suggestions on what could be happening, and possible what to do about it. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 07:18AM I’m a little freaked out rn. I tried anal sex a couple hours ago, and now I can’t poop, and my anus hurts. I sat on the toilet for like 15 minutes and pushing felt painful. And when I went to look it didn’t look 100% right. I can’t tell if it’s just a little swollen, or it it’s something more ...

Yeah I was pretty unsettled when it happened but not secure enough in my ace identity at the time to rant about it on the internet. It always stuck with me though. April 29, 2019 at 07:14AM

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Yeah it almost feels like he's trying to ignore that part of my identity. Thats part of the reason I havent came out to anyone else really. because mabye its nit such a big deal as being gay or something. I mean I am basically straight so what does it matter, but i am asexual so thats not straight thats different. So im kinda confused about that as asexuality was a big thing for me to discover and to have your closet friend ignore that, or even I feel like they're ignoring that, its not helping my confidence about the whole thing. April 29, 2019 at 07:07AM

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I love you so fucking much. And I really just want you to be mine, I thought when you broke up with her and maybe if I gave it time I could make something work but now you’re more distant than ever and its killing me, it kills me when you say you’re hooking up with some girl, it kills me when you’re not around because you’re with them, it kills me when I barely get enough of your time and it kills me even more when I realize i’m only distancing myself from you too, you are so fucking beautiful to me I love all your faults and I love everything good about you I love how we talk so fluently and how you know how to do everything right for me. I love how we share our interest and how we stare at each other’s eyes and how you always compare me to something stupid, like a muffin or a doggy. I love how everyone think’s your mean but to me you’re just a puppy, you’re so delicate and I love the little things about you that few know. I love the way your eye twitches and the way your voice so...

I’m at the door. On the way out. Still one foot inside. I fought for our lives, I always wanted to start a new life with you, having a house, same interests or hobbies, having kids ... and sometimes to feel love and being intimate. But we talked our love down, so many discussions, too many bad mouthing to each other. No more kisses. Last night ... when we slept, it was the first time that only our feets touched each other. When I sniffles at your neck, there is just you. All the butterflies, all the sparkles are gone. The only possible way for us both, is moving on ... but I can’t - do it - without you. Submitted April 28, 2019 at 08:13PM I’m at the door. On the way out. Still one foot inside. I fought for our lives, I always wanted to start a new life with you, having a house, same interests or hobbies, having kids ... and sometimes to feel love and being intimate. But we talked our love down, so many discussions, too many bad mouthing to each other. No more kisses. Last night ...

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My dad and step mom met on Reddit. Recently they got married. Despite living in different continents. Remember that love can happen to anyone and you shouldn’t give up. Submitted April 28, 2019 at 11:37PM My dad and step mom met on Reddit. Recently they got married. Despite living in different continents. Remember that love can happen to anyone and you shouldn’t give up.

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Hi! I’m very new to this subreddit, but I was watching this video about the idea of the whole “manic pixie dream girl” and how this one movie portrays someone loving the idea of someone because they fit into what they do badly want. It got me thinking about my past relationships and my relationship now and now I’m wondering how to tell the difference if y’all have had experience with this. Thank you! Submitted April 29, 2019 at 04:41AM Hi! I’m very new to this subreddit, but I was watching this video about the idea of the whole “manic pixie dream girl” and how this one movie portrays someone loving the idea of someone because they fit into what they do badly want. It got me thinking about my past relationships and my relationship now and now I’m wondering how to tell the difference if y’all have had experience with this. Thank you!

Yesterday, the person I like rejected me. Thats it, nothing interesting at all, just feeling sad and depressed. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 04:46AM Yesterday, the person I like rejected me. Thats it, nothing interesting at all, just feeling sad and depressed.

I'll never understand why you did what you did. Why you professed your love for me and then unfollowed me and deleted the playlist. Either I completely missed all the in-my-face signs or you freaked out. So far, our story has been one gigantic romantic comedy. Beginning with my beautiful love letter, a testament of my feelings for you, and the fake ending of you giving me your heart and dropping off the map. I don't know what to think or how to feel. You confuse me beyond belief. I don't know if I'm crazy for feeling this way or if you still feel it too. Some days I wonder if I'm a prisoner in your mind like you are in mine. I've tried talking to you so many times and you push me out. Then, you make this list of beautiful love songs and I'm not sure if you were expecting me to talk to you or not. I'm not sure what you were doing. I used to be frustrated or angry--disappointed even--but now I'm just melancholic. If I'm being honest, I miss you ...

Me and my gf have been dating for almost 2 months now and I was on vacation and didn’t get to see her for 9 days. We usually see each other every 7 days. The whole time we just cuddled, kissed, walked, it was great. I feel like I’m going to be dead until next week when I get to see her again. She makes me so damn happy❤️❤️ I love you babe😍❤️😘🥰💕💖💝💞🧡 Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:13AM Me and my gf have been dating for almost 2 months now and I was on vacation and didn’t get to see her for 9 days. We usually see each other every 7 days. The whole time we just cuddled, kissed, walked, it was great. I feel like I’m going to be dead until next week when I get to see her again. She makes me so damn happy❤️❤️ I love you babe😍❤️😘🥰💕💖💝💞🧡

I love every minute we spend together. I love every kiss, every word, everything about you. I love looking forward to seeing you again. But the time we have to spend apart, every week, breaks my heart. I always want to see you. Waiting a week every time hurts. I can’t wait until we can spend every single day together, where I can kiss you every day, talk to you every day, and see you. Every day. I miss you. And I love you. Forever and always. Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:17AM I love every minute we spend together. I love every kiss, every word, everything about you. I love looking forward to seeing you again. But the time we have to spend apart, every week, breaks my heart. I always want to see you. Waiting a week every time hurts. I can’t wait until we can spend every single day together, where I can kiss you every day, talk to you every day, and see you. Every day. I miss you. And I love you. Forever and always.

Tell me what you like about them, their interests, what they look like, anything! Submitted April 29, 2019 at 05:28AM Tell me what you like about them, their interests, what they look like, anything!

GIVE ME SOME ADVISE Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:06AM GIVE ME SOME ADVISE

Gently Yet you don't know how to and I no longer no How to let you/anyone. I'm so use to giving love, yet that was another life time. I'm trying to de wall myself so I can possibly receive it as well...the one thing that makes life beutifull Submitted April 29, 2019 at 06:50AM Gently Yet you don't know how to and I no longer no How to let you/anyone. I'm so use to giving love, yet that was another life time. I'm trying to de wall myself so I can possibly receive it as well...the one thing that makes life beutifull

Yeah mabye he is trying to be supportive but they way he's doing it feels really wierd sort off trying to get off the topic of asexuality as quick as possible. April 29, 2019 at 06:56AM

I don't think it's a human picking these. I think it's some sort of program that attempts to "analyze" what people on the sub are talking about by scanning and counting keywords related to certain subjects. Like in the case of this Match ad, it was probably triggered by all the posts where people talk about their relationship issues. And the ED treatment might be triggered by the program horribly misreading all the the posts about sex repulsion. I've also seen ads for Game of Thrones, which I've also seen people sometimes discuss here, like complaining about the gratuitous sex scenes or that they messed up a character people were previously interpreting as asexual. April 29, 2019 at 06:55AM

I dunno doesn't seem much like him. He would usually let you fend for yourself. Perhaps sexuality is a sore spot for him im not sure. April 29, 2019 at 06:55AM

In intercourse, you are usually laying down so if you are already laying down in the sexy pose it makes you seem more ready because you don't need to get laid down. I think. April 29, 2019 at 06:54AM

Perhaps though ever since I knew he was bi he knew I was "straight". So i think that he would have already knew that im not into guys. Though mabye me defining myself as asexual sort of made him fully realise I wouldn't be interested in him in that way. April 29, 2019 at 06:53AM

Because I still get aroused by porn, I just feel no need to do sexual stuff with irl people. April 29, 2019 at 06:51AM

Generally they’re just ‘do not disturb’ but that definitely includes sleep and sex. April 29, 2019 at 06:51AM

Huh, I've been getting those, too. Maybe some dumbass in their marketing department targeted this subreddit. April 29, 2019 at 06:50AM

You may be interested in our wiki page Experiences: Sexual attraction which has quotes from people explaining the sexual attraction they feel. April 29, 2019 at 06:50AM

For me, I identify sexual attraction as wanting to have sex with someone/having something going on "down there" while looking at someone, which is something that I have never experienced, hence my asexuality. It can be different for everyone though, and some asexual people like to have sex, while others don't. Personally, it's just not something that I care for. I think the question you need to ask yourself is this : do you feel something other than romantic attraction when you're with someone? If you do, that might be some kind of sexual attraction (which could still have you somewhere on the ace spectrum) if not, you probably don't have it. I hope that helped ^ ^ April 29, 2019 at 06:40AM

As long as you don't experience sexual attraction in a "conventional" way you are asexual/on the ace spectrum. Your sexual preferences, sexual behaviour and/or libido have nothing to do with your sexuality. That said, if you feel like asexuality is a label that fits you then you are welcome on the spectrum, only you can truly know yourself. People among all sexualities have roughly preferences ranging from: only want to be done but not do -> want to do do and be done equally -> only want to do but not be done. I believe this is what is in the lesbian community called being paper or stone, or something similar, paper = only want to be done and stone = only want to do (not sure if these terms are exclusive for the lesbian community and shouldn't be used by others though). I personally have realized that my preference is, as far as I am willing to go in a sexual context, to "be done" or have stuff done to me. The idea of me doing stuff to other people ...

There’s no other words that you can use in place that aren’t gonna sound dirty either! April 29, 2019 at 06:29AM

I am not familiar with this meme. Well I probably am but struggling to visualise it. Yes it’s weird people joke about that sort of thing all the time in my workplace. April 29, 2019 at 06:28AM

It’s making fun of people who talk about their experiences with sex like they deserve a trophy for it April 29, 2019 at 06:23AM

I can remember two "wet" dreams in my life. One in which I kissed a girl (that time I often wondered if I could be unconscious lesbian so this could trigger this dream), in second dream big beast raped me - when I was in high school and we were analyzing ancient Greek myths in literature classes. April 29, 2019 at 06:20AM

I find a lot of the uber specific terminology is often not all that useful in everyday life, but within the asexual/aromantic communities it's a helpful way to clearly communicate our experiences. Like how academics may use tons of jargon in their papers, but may stick to more general, less precise words when discussing with lay people, for the sake of clarity etc. "Hey I'm a panromantic graypanasexual" just doesn't work out irl conversation April 29, 2019 at 06:16AM

You know that dominos-subway meme? That happened to me in real life, and this was before I had ever seen it. Didn't think that people talked about BDSM culture so often! April 29, 2019 at 06:14AM

Wow, I knew about the annulment of marriage and the study, but that French court case is just something else... Thank you, I'll be saving this comment! April 29, 2019 at 06:13AM

My roommates and I fight just as much as my siblings and I did, and I love them just as much if not more than most of my siblings April 29, 2019 at 06:09AM

Well I just got one for erectile dysfunction treatment, and I definitely hadn't been googling that or anything related to it, so it's not tracking following me around. Another reason I don't think it's an individually-targeted/tracking-based ad is that it shows up even with Privacy Badger running, and that's usually very good at blocking trackers. So I'm thinking it's another case of whatever analyzer that picks "sponsored post" ads for subreddits, horribly misreading this one. April 29, 2019 at 06:07AM

Have any other people here gotten ads like this? April 29, 2019 at 06:04AM

I think "sponsored posts" on reddit are actually supposed to be based on subreddit content, not individual tracking. My guess is some sort of heuristic analyzer picked up a lot of dating-related keywords from all the posts on this sub about people's relationship troubles, and mistakenly thought this ad made sense here. I also just saw one for Erectile Dysfunction treatment XP April 29, 2019 at 05:58AM

Lol. But seriously, I think "sponsored posts" on reddit are actually some of the few advertisements not based on individual tracking. I think they're actually chosen by analyzing the subreddit content, but in a stupid heuristic way that can make really silly mistakes sometimes. April 29, 2019 at 05:56AM

Seriously I've had a better experience with absolute strangers than my actual blood relatives. In this community and in the cosplay community. I also find it very interesting the connections we can make with animals. My therapist recently told me he's seen several people whose grief was like someone losing a child or a long loved relative. Anyway I'm super tired and rambling. Family is what you make it. April 29, 2019 at 05:49AM

Wait...these imply you're having sex? I thought they were only something you put out before going to sleep and removed when you woke up and left the room, so you didn't get bothered in the morning before you woke up. Please tell me sex is just a secondary use for these. April 29, 2019 at 05:43AM