Yes ASD,ADHD,Anxiety disorders,OCD and more I’m kind of a mess😅 October 16, 2022 at 12:23AM

Some months ago in a poet reciting place I go, I saw a cute girl who I found attractive but never talked to her because I was shy to do so. Weeks later, by pure coincidence, she enters my working place ( I am a math tutor at college) and asks me a question about a class, and I immediately recognize her. I took this chance and started a small conversation, but I never asked for her number. Weeks later I saw her at the reciting place and I approached her to talk to her. It was a fun and cute interaction because she saw my painted nails and said she wanted to paint them, and when I was cold she offered me her jacket, and when I told her if she wanted a drink, she told me she wanted me to surprise her, which I did. Afterward, we exchange numbers, but she didn't text me much, so we basically talk and see each other on Tuesdays and Thursdays. 2 weeks ago I told her if I could give her a ride back home (she lives near the reciting place which is like 30-40 min drive) and she agreed, but...

Whenever I meet someone new, it starts very friendly however, I struggle to then transition to a point where I feel as though the mood has shifted to a stage where it is appropriate. How do you ask someone out? What are you supposed to say? Submitted October 16, 2022 at 12:03AM Whenever I meet someone new, it starts very friendly however, I struggle to then transition to a point where I feel as though the mood has shifted to a stage where it is appropriate. How do you ask someone out? What are you supposed to say?

I know people say be yourself or treat them as you would a guy, but honestly men and women are different. I don't mean this in a bad way. I mean that guys respond to different hobbies and emotions differently than a women. For example, I love to fight so I watch UFC and box with my guys friends. We also roast each other. Alot of the women I know, don't like this and I come off as insensitive at times. I also come off as a lone wolf at times. I know that can give off an emotional reaction based on the feedback women have given me. Secondly, I have never had a female friend before so I don't really understand how to get closer without coming off like I'm trying to date her. I'm not an emotional person so when a woman has an emotional conversation. I feel compelled to trauma dump because it makes me too emotional due to repress emotions. I usually fight this feeling but I feel awkward having those conversations. But I really want to figure this out because I'm ...

I’m 18 but I, and others, would say I look aged 15-16. Since I turned 18 (UK) I have been going out to nightclubs. Almost every single time I’ve been (5 out of 7 times), an older woman, usually aged around 22-26 has approached me. They always ask me how old I am and compliment my baby face, last week I went home and slept with this woman who was 25 and some of the stuff she was saying to me creeped me out. She seemed to find pleasure in my lack of sexual experience and referred to me as her “toy boy” and “student” (classic crappy porno roleplay type stuff). At first I thought I was just handsome, but now I’m starting to think that my youthful looks are attracting women with some strange pedo fetishes. I feel that by engaging with these women I am doing something wrong, but i find them attractive. Submitted October 16, 2022 at 12:09AM I’m 18 but I, and others, would say I look aged 15-16. Since I turned 18 (UK) I have been going out to nightclubs. Almost every single time I’ve be...

I guess when this happened, it was somewhere between abuse and lovebombing. My abusive ex oscillated between those two at the speed of light. And it was after a fight when I was close to breaking up with him. He had blown up my inbox and said: “no, you misunderstood me! I don’t wanna lose you! We are soul mates” Bla bla bla. When I forgave him and everything was “good again”, he said that he wanted to take me on a nice and romantic trip. It was very fun and passionate. Well, in the next morning when we were in our way home and I was extremely happy about the trip, he just smirked in the car and gave me money. I just couldn’t believe what he did and he kept on smirking and just said: “I wanted to give you what you deserve after this amazing sex holiday”. And he had this blank and serious look on his face. I immediately got out of the car and that was when he hugged me from behind, kissed me on my cheek and said that it was just a bad joke. Just to give you background information:...

From what it sounds like its not about who it is October 15, 2022 at 11:31PM