This is my first time asking advice on here so I hope it comes out coherently enough! I (f, 30) have been seeing my “boyfriend” (m, 31) for about 2 and a half years now. At first, I was crazy about him and he was excited too, but reluctant to get into a real relationship. Which broke my heart at the time! As we continued to hook up and spend time together, he eventually got up the courage to ask for an open relationship (his previous relationship ended bc of him bringing it up). This absolutely crushed me back then. As time has gone on, we have found that we get along great, have so much fun together, but are too different to consider serious next steps. We have vastly different lifestyles, ideas about the future, communication styles and we do not disagree in a healthy way. Therefore, over the last year and after many talks with my boyfriend, I have started to go on dates to look for someone with more compatibility with me. I don’t want to be open ideally, I want to get married and...

I (27M) have a second date on Friday with a girl (27F) that I met on Hinge. The first date went really well, and we've done a lot of talking in the interim. I feel pretty good about this all, but I'm worried about moving forward without going too fast or too slow. My last long-term relationship started in high school. Without getting too far into it, that relationship ended horribly in my senior year of college and messed me up emotionally for a while. My main worries are the right time to invite her to my apartment, go to her place, and when to express my feelings. Submitted September 09, 2021 at 01:06AM I (27M) have a second date on Friday with a girl (27F) that I met on Hinge. The first date went really well, and we've done a lot of talking in the interim. I feel pretty good about this all, but I'm worried about moving forward without going too fast or too slow. My last long-term relationship started in high school. Without getting too far into it, that relati...

I'm (38M) met this girl in her 20s during my workout classes. We had normal conversations since date one but lately she is being getting closer to me. She choose to start at the same spot with me and even asked me which date and time I usually go for her to come as well. This Saturday there is an event at the same location and she asked me to come. But I already have plan. She is attractive but I haven't shown any interest and I think is too soon to know is there is any attraction or she is just being friendly. But I never dated someone with this age gap. What hold me is that i already have kids and don't want anymore. Plus we are in different life stage. What's your opinion? Have you being in this type of relationship? Any advise? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 01:07AM I'm (38M) met this girl in her 20s during my workout classes. We had normal conversations since date one but lately she is being getting closer to me. She choose to start at the same spot w...

He did informed me that if he doesn’t respond he is at work so I can’t be upset. But I text me at 2:40, I forgot to replied and be never answer. We were suppose to go on our date this late time like 7 but it’s almost 10 😬 That’s where every store is close and I dunno might be dangerous to even go to the beach that’s literal empty .... I still wanna go though 😌 Submitted September 09, 2021 at 01:10AM He did informed me that if he doesn’t respond he is at work so I can’t be upset. But I text me at 2:40, I forgot to replied and be never answer.We were suppose to go on our date this late time like 7 but it’s almost 10 😬 That’s where every store is close and I dunno might be dangerous to even go to the beach that’s literal empty .... I still wanna go though 😌

I think I definitely suffer from a bad case of resting B face, https://i.imgur.com/c4Oai9k.jpeg But I'm not sure if in all my life I've never really attracted women because I'm just not that attractive, or is it because they think I'm taken or look intimidating? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 01:13AM I think I definitely suffer from a bad case of resting B face, https://ift.tt/3l41lp7 I'm not sure if in all my life I've never really attracted women because I'm just not that attractive, or is it because they think I'm taken or look intimidating?

I don't blame you one bit. I'm comfortable with where I've put myself now, but several times I crammed myself into one's that didn't fit (felt I NEEDED to have one) and caused a bit of a crises each time something challenged it. If you can, don't sweat it too much. You'll settle in somewhere organically, with time. I've breathed much easier since I started looking at my sexuality as a path that doesn't end, only gets more familiar as i go along. September 09, 2021 at 12:48AM

Biromantic Ace 😎 September 09, 2021 at 12:47AM

Same! I still remember reading about autochrissexuality on tumblr and feeling like I finally found where I belonged. September 09, 2021 at 12:47AM

Trying to solve your issues through dating is the worst advice ever. The fact if you are romantic or aro doesn't matter, if you enter a relationship as "therapy" you can leave emotional scars on your partner September 09, 2021 at 12:44AM

Don't knock it til you try it September 09, 2021 at 12:44AM

My gf likes when I fuck back from below when we’re doing cowgirl. Problem is imy stamina isn’t the best are there any workouts I can do to get my hips to last longer? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:30AM My gf likes when I fuck back from below when we’re doing cowgirl. Problem is imy stamina isn’t the best are there any workouts I can do to get my hips to last longer?

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together a few months ago. Sex is phenomenal but he’s never gone down on me…well once for like 2 seconds the first month we were together but I think he got nervous. We are both extremely attracted to each other so we made each other nervous and it took us awhile to be more open in bed. But he still hasn’t gone down on me. Last night I was so horny and he hadn’t fucked me since the weekend so I think he was tired and he didn’t shower last night. But I really wanted to get off and I just wanted him to fingerfuck me. I was too scared to ask. He’s told me he will do anything I want and will go down on me but he’s never offered in the moment. I had to get myself off quietly while he watched anime in bed. I REALLY wanted his hands though and I also REALLY want him to go down on me. I get anxious just thinking about asking though. I know he will do it but how do I get past the anxiety? Submitted September 09, 2021 at...

How is it called, when you have sex with a skirt fully clothed, and doing it dangerous situation Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:49AM How is it called, when you have sex with a skirt fully clothed, and doing it dangerous situation

I’m a guy that recently developed an interest in anal play. I was fingering myself and I’m not sure if I found it. I heard sometimes you feel like you need to pee when u put pressure on it, and I did feel like I needed to pee when I touched a certain area, but didn’t feel anything with my finger other than my muscles. I also kept on that spot for 10 min and nothing happened. So I was looking to see if I found it? And if I did, how long does a prostate orgasm normally take to achive? Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:51AM I’m a guy that recently developed an interest in anal play. I was fingering myself and I’m not sure if I found it. I heard sometimes you feel like you need to pee when u put pressure on it, and I did feel like I needed to pee when I touched a certain area, but didn’t feel anything with my finger other than my muscles. I also kept on that spot for 10 min and nothing happened. So I was looking to see if I found it? And if I did, how long does a prostate orgasm no...

Title pretty much says it haha. Just want it to be more queer/trans affirming. Transphobes, keep it movin Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:52AM Title pretty much says it haha. Just want it to be more queer/trans affirming.Transphobes, keep it movin

Long story short, I met this guy on tinder and we got along really well, let’s call him Dave. Unfortunately we didn’t have the opportunity to meet up in person because shortly after he had to move to a different country for work. He was supposed to stay over there for at least a year. We still kept in touch, I don’t think either of us was actually expecting something out of it at that point but I guess we genuinely liked talking to each other. Eventually the conversation started dying which was expected and I was the one who sent the last message to which he never replied. Anyway, one random day I get a text from him saying that he came back sooner than expected and he started to be flirty towards me, basically how our conversations used to be. I was really surprised because I honestly wasn’t expecting a text from him at all. At that point I was talking to a guy I used to see way before I met Dave. This other guy and I had agreed to give it another chance so I told Dave that I was se...

Or am I being a creep for having these thoughts. Submitted September 08, 2021 at 11:53PM Or am I being a creep for having these thoughts.

I want to date again but I think it might be a bad thing. I like the start of a relationship when there chasing you but then once I’m in one I’m bored, I feel like I’m not wanted because my ex’s did try after they just got lazy so I just started rejecting people straight away and then not giving them a chance. My friends explained how dumb I was being so I gave the next guy a chance and I actually kinda like him but I don’t want to repeat my past. What should I do ? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 11:59PM I want to date again but I think it might be a bad thing. I like the start of a relationship when there chasing you but then once I’m in one I’m bored, I feel like I’m not wanted because my ex’s did try after they just got lazy so I just started rejecting people straight away and then not giving them a chance. My friends explained how dumb I was being so I gave the next guy a chance and I actually kinda like him but I don’t want to repeat my past. What should I do ?

I really like my coworker and i want to ask her out but i don't know how Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:08AM I really like my coworker and i want to ask her out but i don't know how

I’m mainly just venting because I don’t know what else to do. I’m a bald, virgin 22m and I don’t know if I’ll ever find someone that finds me as attractive as I find them. I finally mustered up the confidence to ask a girl for her number. We texted back and forth for a couple days and set up a date for this Saturday. She just cancelled on me today and I don’t know what I did wrong. I was trying to keep it casual in the texts so we would actually have something to talk about on the date. I just don’t know anymore. I’ve tried tinder and bumble. I’m gonna sound like an asshole but only fat girls like me. Anytime I match with someone I find attractive they either don’t respond or unmatch after a few messages. Maybe my standards are too high, I don’t know. I’m just so lost right now. Submitted September 09, 2021 at 12:11AM I’m mainly just venting because I don’t know what else to do. I’m a bald, virgin 22m and I don’t know if I’ll ever find someone that finds me as attractive as I fi...