I’m on a throwaway because lol but my fiancée and I have a hard time with positions. It’s not exactly the positions itself just the penetration. We are each other’s first and everything seems okay but insertion is the only problem. I have a really big butt so doggystyle is hard. When we try to stand up and go at it, his penis only reaches but butt cheeks, not underneath (my vagina) it’s like he penetrates my cheeks. We tried yesterday laying down on side but again couldn’t go underneath and just ended up in the middle of my butt. Riding is the only one that seems somewhat ok but I can’t reach forward to much or it slips out. Cowgirl is okay but same thing. Missionary is a hit or miss and he says my vagina puts his penis in a chokehold lol, it feels great for him but sometimes while he’s on top of me it won’t go in or it slips a little. Help??? What’s a good position or idea for this? His size is around 4-6 inches I’m not sure. Has anybody else had this problem? Submitted February ...

My girlfriend has trouble getting wet enough for sex sometimes so we use a water based lube. However, I’ve noticed that sex becomes much less pleasurable for me. It feels less tight and more slippery, but my girlfriend says the lube makes it feel better for her. I’m wondering why this is. Can too much lube be a bad thing? I used to masturbate with a tight grip to porn for many years, (sometimes with little to no lube/lotion) so I’m wondering if it has something to do with this as well. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:36PM My girlfriend has trouble getting wet enough for sex sometimes so we use a water based lube. However, I’ve noticed that sex becomes much less pleasurable for me. It feels less tight and more slippery, but my girlfriend says the lube makes it feel better for her.I’m wondering why this is. Can too much lube be a bad thing? I used to masturbate with a tight grip to porn for many years, (sometimes with little to no lube/lotion) so I’m wondering if it has somethi...

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So recently my gf wanted to try something new. The golden shower. She had me piss on her while she masturbated and then I fucked her. Then she rode me and pisses. It was awesome anyone else like that? Its oddly erotic in the moment. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:42PM So recently my gf wanted to try something new. The golden shower. She had me piss on her while she masturbated and then I fucked her. Then she rode me and pisses. It was awesome anyone else like that? Its oddly erotic in the moment.

Im wondering if anyone here has had any issues dating someone of a drastically different religion? I am a Christian. She was born in Iran and is with the Islamic Sufism branch of Muslim. I do not know very much about that religion and trying to read into it is pretty confusing to me. We are both looking at dating as courting and really don't want to get deep into dating if it does not have the possibility of marriage and a life long commitment at the end of it. Basically making sure there aren't any deal breakers with either of us right up front. She would not convert her religion and I wouldn't mine. Any advice? Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:51PM Im wondering if anyone here has had any issues dating someone of a drastically different religion? I am a Christian. She was born in Iran and is with the Islamic Sufism branch of Muslim. I do not know very much about that religion and trying to read into it is pretty confusing to me.We are both looking at dating as cou...

Just watched a video of a woman masturbating in a restroom stall just curious about how many people are doing this? It could be a restroom stall or dressing room etc. or if you caught someone doing just that . Male or female please answer reply with a m or f so we know you’re gender Thanks in advance Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:55PM Just watched a video of a woman masturbating in a restroom stall just curious about how many people are doing this? It could be a restroom stall or dressing room etc. or if you caught someone doing just that . Male or female please answer reply with a m or f so we know you’re gender Thanks in advance

So this is a weird post, and I get it if you don't want to read it all (I have a tl;dr at the end) So I (f24) know you all here ain't doctors or anything, I'm not asking you to tell me what is wrong with me or what treatment I should follow, and please don't waste your breath with telling me "what can we do for you? Just go and see a doctor". I've already been to a doctor and he said there's nothing wrong. So what happens. This started 4 years ago. I got in a new relationship with my current bf of 4 years, and we started having sex. As passionate as we were, sex was raw and rough and we did enjoy ourselves a lot. But the thing is, some times (I'd say 1 out of 10 times), an extreme pain starts pushing my body to the limits, after sex is done. First time I got this, I didn't think it was because of sex. I thought there was something wrong with me and I panicked. This pain starts from my asshole (sorry for those weird words😭) like a wooden...

People of reddit, what ya think I should do? So I met an absolute babe out with my friends a few weeks ago at the club, and we got to talking and had some pretty cool conversation. The night went on and we ended up making out multiple times, exchanging numbers, ETC. thing is, I live an hour away from her city. We texted for about 2 days after and it seemed like she wanted a date, so I set one up. Convo died, I’m not one to constantly be in your messages so I waited until a couple days before the date to follow up. She gave what I thought was a genuine excuse, and even said “it’s not a cancel it’s a rain check” so I tell her I’ll hold her to it. I reach out a week+ later and she says she could probably do this Sunday. I’m not a fan of “probably” I like a yes or no. So I just tell myself I’ll follow up tomorrow with a time and place. I think that’s my best plan of action. Also the first day or two we texted, she was kind of flirty. Not crazy, but caught that vibe. Convo died, she sto...

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Someone continues to watch your stories on social media after ignoring your last message....? Curious to hear both sides of this and how to respond.... or not respond? Lol. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:56PM Someone continues to watch your stories on social media after ignoring your last message....?Curious to hear both sides of this and how to respond.... or not respond? Lol.

Been with my[24M] girlfriend[25F] for three months. One month and a half to present time, no sex. She claims she loves me, is attracted to me, knows sex is closely tied with love for me, we are both relatively healthy and very capable, yet she won’t have sex with me. I don’t know why I’m torturing myself by staying with her, she has excuses every time. It’s causing me to be extremely unhappy. Thoughts/advice? I really love this woman and I’d hate myself for leaving over this, but... Submitted February 20, 2020 at 12:13AM Been with my[24M] girlfriend[25F] for three months. One month and a half to present time, no sex. She claims she loves me, is attracted to me, knows sex is closely tied with love for me, we are both relatively healthy and very capable, yet she won’t have sex with me. I don’t know why I’m torturing myself by staying with her, she has excuses every time. It’s causing me to be extremely unhappy. Thoughts/advice? I really love this woman and I’d hate myself for leav...

I’m a freshman in HS and my gf is also a freshman. We’ve got a good group of friends that are supportive of our relationship. We’ve gone out a couple of time with and without friends. I love to put my arm around her waist/belly area. She loves being held too. Well recently when I’m holding her with friends around she moves my hand to her breasts. It’s not like I dislike it, I just don’t know what to do. Please give me some advice. Submitted February 20, 2020 at 12:02AM I’m a freshman in HS and my gf is also a freshman. We’ve got a good group of friends that are supportive of our relationship. We’ve gone out a couple of time with and without friends. I love to put my arm around her waist/belly area. She loves being held too. Well recently when I’m holding her with friends around she moves my hand to her breasts. It’s not like I dislike it, I just don’t know what to do. Please give me some advice.

Back in high school I (m) had very attractive math teacher who I assume was in her late 30s. We were always very happy go lucky and she would joke that I'm her school husband, etc. She helped me a lot and got me great marks on the final. Fast forward 6 years, I'm 24 now and moved back to my hometown, joined the local gym and bam! There she is. We clicked straight away and over the past 3 weeks we've been meeting at the gym, training and once or twice got a bite to eat together. My question is, how do I approach the obvious fact that I want her. She's single for sure. She often flirts and when she laughs always places a hand on me, etc. Am I reading in to this or do you think I could do something? Thanks Submitted February 20, 2020 at 12:14AM Back in high school I (m) had very attractive math teacher who I assume was in her late 30s. We were always very happy go lucky and she would joke that I'm her school husband, etc. She helped me a lot and got me great m...

So I (27f) went on a date tonight I'm feeling a little disappointed by it. For background, I was at a bar a couple of weeks ago and the guy (33m) who owned it approached me as I was leaving and asked for my number. We arranged a first date over text which lasted nine hours. We talked non-stop and there was amazing chemistry, he even walked me all the way home to my door at 3am and seemed like a real gentleman. I was super excited for the next date, but when he arrived tonight he admitted to being awake till seven working at his bar, drinking, smoking, doing coke (!), etc. and I couldn't help feeling a little put out by it. I feel like it was sort of disrespectful to have an evening of complete excess the night before we arranged to meet. It was going semi-okay but just before it ended he asked if I'd like to go back to his to 'nurse him back to health', which again I thought was presumptuous and not respecting my boundaries almost, especially because the conversat...

so for a bit of context, i had my first (and only so far) threesome at 16 with a friend and her boyfriend at the time. I am pretty experienced with both men and women so that’s not an issue for me. Age of consent is 16 in my state, so i’m not worried about the legality of this. i met a sweet couple (F/20 & M/20) on Tinder who were looking for a unicorn for the night. I gave them my Snapchat and they right away made a group chat with the three of us so that we were all equally involved with the planning. They were very kind and i was not at all sketched out. We are planning to get a hotel room, and to meet in public for dinner beforehand. in the previous threesome, my friend was extremely upset that her boyfriend payed more attention to me than her, which i honestly didn’t even notice was happening(i was very drunk.) it eventually led to their breakup, and it tarnished our friendship. the last thing i want to do is cause any problems between this couple. Is there anything i can d...

So, this is kind of a long story. A little less than a year ago, I (22F) matched with a guy (26M) on hinge. We got along really well and ended up texting quite a bit for close to a month. We had made plans to meet, but he had a work thing come up and I was going on a trip so we kinda just made a mutual agreement to meet when I got back. Well that fell short because of a texting miscommunication in which I thought he was ghosting me and he thought I was uninterested... it was a whole mess. Anyways, fast forward a few months and he “likes” me again on hinge, and says “hi! How was your trip?” To which I totally acted out of anger and was like “are we going to act like you didn’t ghost me?” And then I basically unmatched after a few days. Fast forward again to 3 weeks ago, when I saw his profile on my suggested people to follow list on Instagram and thought to myself, fuck it! Lets see if we can give this another go. We both clearly liked each other and I felt like we didn’t get a fair sh...

A little background. I'm 33, single, male, straight, and I'm trying to meet women/friends outside of the few remaining in my social circles. So I was going to go to a happy hour Meetup event down the street from where I work tonight. Never been to one, didn't know anyone, and going alone. Didn't see anyone that looked under 40 RSVP'd yes, so that's my excuse, and I chickened out and didn't go, of course. So omw home I thought "I have to do SOMETHING other than sitting at home alone." So I stopped at a bar I know of and grabbed a drink and sat at a table alone. That's where I am right now, I'm writing this from the table. There's an attractive woman, seemingly around my age, sitting at a table alone, on her laptop, looking just as awkward as I probably do. There's also a group of men my age at the adjacent table discussing IT and their "current sprint" (agile dev) I do IT on a scrum team too. And I can't bring mys...

People of reddit, what ya think I should do? So I met an absolute babe out with my friends a few weeks ago at the club, and we got to talking and had some pretty cool conversation. The night went on and we ended up making out multiple times, exchanging numbers, ETC. thing is, I live an hour away from her city. We texted for about 2 days after and it seemed like she wanted a date, so I set one up. Convo died, I’m not one to constantly be in your messages so I waited until a couple days before the date to follow up. She gave what I thought was a genuine excuse, and even said “it’s not a cancel it’s a rain check” so I tell her I’ll hold her to it. I reach out a week+ later and she says she could probably do this Sunday. I’m not a fan of “probably” I like a yes or no. So I just tell myself I’ll follow up tomorrow with a time and place. I think that’s my best plan of action. Also the first day or two we texted, she was kind of flirty. Not crazy, but caught that vibe. Convo died, she sto...

We literally spoke on text for 3 hours constantly it all went well and we’re planning on meeting up at the end of the month. She ended the conversation by saying she’s tired and is going to bed she said have a good day tomorrow, so I done the usual u too whatever. She also said she misses my mum and sister. Do I leave it for tomorrow and see if she texts me? Thanks. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:50PM We literally spoke on text for 3 hours constantly it all went well and we’re planning on meeting up at the end of the month. She ended the conversation by saying she’s tired and is going to bed she said have a good day tomorrow, so I done the usual u too whatever. She also said she misses my mum and sister. Do I leave it for tomorrow and see if she texts me? Thanks.

Do you ever swipe right, then get a text and think did I really swipe right? Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:53PM Do you ever swipe right, then get a text and think did I really swipe right?

27 recently single dude. I have had a few dates and one even called me her best date ever. However, she is ghosting me now. And, some other girls never even made it to the dating stage of things with me. We hit it off over text add each other on insta and then It’s me chasing them. Always a damn excuse not to go out on a date. I had some cancel the day off. I feel if I was a really “hot dude” like the ones who get tinder matches all the time I would not have these issues. This makes me miss my ex even more. And, she aint ever coming back. Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:55PM 27 recently single dude. I have had a few dates and one even called me her best date ever. However, she is ghosting me now. And, some other girls never even made it to the dating stage of things with me. We hit it off over text add each other on insta and then It’s me chasing them. Always a damn excuse not to go out on a date. I had some cancel the day off.I feel if I was a really “hot dude” like the one...

So I’m freaking out a bit. M(26) I have a potential for a relationship and my anxiety is creeping in. I haven’t been in a committed relationship since high school. I had a ton of insecurities in college and just didn’t date. Over the last three years I’ve completely transformed. So that’s why this is new and why the long span of no dating existed. Well I met this girl on Hinge and I’m really attracted to her. We’re about to go on our 4th date and have the 5th planned already. We get along great and she brings an extroverted personality right out of me with ease (I always thought I was introverted but around her I feel like I can talk to anyone, even her, about anything). We have similar interest around health and fitness, which is a nonnegotiable quietly for me. We’re also both a tad awkward sometimes which is cute when we recognize it. I have this burning desire to learn more about her, but she is much more reserved than I am. My analytical brain wants to know everything about her ...

I am relatively young but had both of my boobs removed due to medical issues I now don’t have any nor am I looking to reconstruct or get implants I am basically flat. Should I be saying anything to men before dates? Is a flat chest a deal breaker? What is an appropriate thing to say on dates if they ask? (As its kind of personal so I don’t want to go into the whole saga of why everything is gone). Not sure if how I should be approaching this in the world of dating. Submitted February 20, 2020 at 12:02AM I am relatively young but had both of my boobs removed due to medical issues I now don’t have any nor am I looking to reconstruct or get implants I am basically flat. Should I be saying anything to men before dates? Is a flat chest a deal breaker? What is an appropriate thing to say on dates if they ask? (As its kind of personal so I don’t want to go into the whole saga of why everything is gone). Not sure if how I should be approaching this in the world of dating.