Thoughts?

People of reddit, what ya think I should do?

So I met an absolute babe out with my friends a few weeks ago at the club, and we got to talking and had some pretty cool conversation. The night went on and we ended up making out multiple times, exchanging numbers, ETC. thing is, I live an hour away from her city. We texted for about 2 days after and it seemed like she wanted a date, so I set one up. Convo died, I’m not one to constantly be in your messages so I waited until a couple days before the date to follow up. She gave what I thought was a genuine excuse, and even said “it’s not a cancel it’s a rain check” so I tell her I’ll hold her to it.

I reach out a week+ later and she says she could probably do this Sunday. I’m not a fan of “probably” I like a yes or no. So I just tell myself I’ll follow up tomorrow with a time and place. I think that’s my best plan of action.

Also the first day or two we texted, she was kind of flirty. Not crazy, but caught that vibe. Convo died, she stopped answering. No big deal to me. I’d rather get to know someone in person anyway. And on Snapchat, I’ll send her something and she won’t reply for hours, whatever that’s worth.

What would your plan of action be? My thought is just follow up and hope for a yes, and if not just give up because I don’t have time to get caught up w that. Only made this post though because of girls I’ve been with lately, this girl really caught my attention both with looks and personality. Thanks for any answers!

Submitted February 19, 2020 at 11:47PM

People of reddit, what ya think I should do?So I met an absolute babe out with my friends a few weeks ago at the club, and we got to talking and had some pretty cool conversation. The night went on and we ended up making out multiple times, exchanging numbers, ETC. thing is, I live an hour away from her city. We texted for about 2 days after and it seemed like she wanted a date, so I set one up. Convo died, I’m not one to constantly be in your messages so I waited until a couple days before the date to follow up. She gave what I thought was a genuine excuse, and even said “it’s not a cancel it’s a rain check” so I tell her I’ll hold her to it.I reach out a week+ later and she says she could probably do this Sunday. I’m not a fan of “probably” I like a yes or no. So I just tell myself I’ll follow up tomorrow with a time and place. I think that’s my best plan of action.Also the first day or two we texted, she was kind of flirty. Not crazy, but caught that vibe. Convo died, she stopped answering. No big deal to me. I’d rather get to know someone in person anyway. And on Snapchat, I’ll send her something and she won’t reply for hours, whatever that’s worth.What would your plan of action be? My thought is just follow up and hope for a yes, and if not just give up because I don’t have time to get caught up w that. Only made this post though because of girls I’ve been with lately, this girl really caught my attention both with looks and personality. Thanks for any answers!