F/17 planning to be the unicorn in a threesome. how can i prevent causing any problems between the couple?

so for a bit of context, i had my first (and only so far) threesome at 16 with a friend and her boyfriend at the time. I am pretty experienced with both men and women so that’s not an issue for me. Age of consent is 16 in my state, so i’m not worried about the legality of this.

i met a sweet couple (F/20 & M/20) on Tinder who were looking for a unicorn for the night. I gave them my Snapchat and they right away made a group chat with the three of us so that we were all equally involved with the planning. They were very kind and i was not at all sketched out. We are planning to get a hotel room, and to meet in public for dinner beforehand.

in the previous threesome, my friend was extremely upset that her boyfriend payed more attention to me than her, which i honestly didn’t even notice was happening(i was very drunk.) it eventually led to their breakup, and it tarnished our friendship. the last thing i want to do is cause any problems between this couple. Is there anything i can do to minimize any possible jealousy between them? is there a point at which i should back off a bit? i’m sure they’ve talked it over, and are aware of any possible outcomes. i just want to be courteous and make sure they have a good time.

Also, as the unicorn is it my role to remain mostly submissive? should i initiate with the girl since she has no girl/girl experience? if so, what should i start with?



Submitted February 20, 2020 at 12:16AM

so for a bit of context, i had my first (and only so far) threesome at 16 with a friend and her boyfriend at the time. I am pretty experienced with both men and women so that’s not an issue for me. Age of consent is 16 in my state, so i’m not worried about the legality of this.i met a sweet couple (F/20 & M/20) on Tinder who were looking for a unicorn for the night. I gave them my Snapchat and they right away made a group chat with the three of us so that we were all equally involved with the planning. They were very kind and i was not at all sketched out. We are planning to get a hotel room, and to meet in public for dinner beforehand.in the previous threesome, my friend was extremely upset that her boyfriend payed more attention to me than her, which i honestly didn’t even notice was happening(i was very drunk.) it eventually led to their breakup, and it tarnished our friendship. the last thing i want to do is cause any problems between this couple. Is there anything i can do to minimize any possible jealousy between them? is there a point at which i should back off a bit? i’m sure they’ve talked it over, and are aware of any possible outcomes. i just want to be courteous and make sure they have a good time.Also, as the unicorn is it my role to remain mostly submissive? should i initiate with the girl since she has no girl/girl experience? if so, what should i start with?
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