I've dated a couple of women prior to Covid with no luck despite the connection and attraction. Now during Covid ive met some nice women online and we always click and seem to have a great communication and be attracted towards each other (they have said so). The problem is I always end up second. Once I confess how attracted I am (and to the ones that have shared the same) theres always someone that in a shorter perior of time of knowing then has gotten their attention first. This happens often, I'm starting to think im not good enough. How come I'm always 2nd despite having the connection, attraction and the time put in? Submitted May 27, 2020 at 11:55PM I've dated a couple of women prior to Covid with no luck despite the connection and attraction. Now during Covid ive met some nice women online and we always click and seem to have a great communication and be attracted towards each other (they have said so). The problem is I always end up second. Once I conf...

I’ve been texting this guy for 2 weeks now. I really want to meet him, but we haven’t yet because of the coronavirus. I’m in New Jersey so a lot of places are still closed. I don’t know what to do. I’m afraid our texting will get boring. Submitted May 27, 2020 at 11:57PM I’ve been texting this guy for 2 weeks now. I really want to meet him, but we haven’t yet because of the coronavirus. I’m in New Jersey so a lot of places are still closed. I don’t know what to do. I’m afraid our texting will get boring.

I’m not american but i live here. In my culture the idea of ‘friends with benefits’ i mean sex with friend, isn’t as popular. Can someone’s explainr me the more about it ? What kind of people are doing this, how to start it if you want but afraid of rejection, shock feom other party or even falling in love? Share your experience please Submitted May 27, 2020 at 11:59PM I’m not american but i live here. In my culture the idea of ‘friends with benefits’ i mean sex with friend, isn’t as popular. Can someone’s explainr me the more about it ? What kind of people are doing this, how to start it if you want but afraid of rejection, shock feom other party or even falling in love? Share your experience please

Or should I (F) withdraw myself and stop being kind to her since she already rejected me? To be fair, she has been a good friend but I cannot be a friend and I cannot see her with someone else. I am struggling with those emotions that I cannot get over it. I tried to distance myself but we live in the same place. Part of me, wants to be kind to her. Listen to her. Maybe one day she feels me. And the other part hates her so much for not appreciating my feelings and not reciprocate my emotions. On the other hand, we had done few intimate things that maybe I have a chance. She held my hand on sunset. She invited me for dinner. We had deep intimate conversations. She cried on my shoulder few times. She slept next to me and asked me to “spoon” her. She asks me to walk with her to her work and back. I help her alot with her language skills. But she said she doesnt love me the way I love her. Although she acts jealous and she checks my phone and she makes plans to hang out with me on her o...

[I originally wrote this for men, but it applies to women as well] I have been a dating coach for about 4 years, and I have noticed that guys that fail with women share several very common traits. Here they are. If you share these traits, cut it out. They have unrealistic expectations of women A lot guys without a lot of experience with women often hold unrealistic views about women. They basically are not interested in any woman unless she is a beautiful virgin who looks perfect and has never done anything wrong. Oh, and she isn’t supposed to care at all about height, money, looks, or confidence. Sorry, but that just doesn’t exist. Every woman has faults, weaknesses, and has done or said something unattractive at some point. If you are waiting until you find the perfect woman, you will be waiting forever. A lot of guys have unrealistic expectations of women because they believe society’s misogynistic lies about women. I can’t tell you how many guys I have seen that hate “whores” ...

How would she know she's not into girls of she's never had sex with a girl? Same logic she's using. May 27, 2020 at 11:58PM

BCAUSE I'M NOT FUCKING ATTRACTED TO JERKS. NOW GO FUCK YOURSELF, 'CAUSE SURE AS HELL I'M NOT GONNA FUCK YOU. ... soory I'm. an assholephobic and seeing assholes triggers me badly. May 27, 2020 at 11:58PM

Those “😂😂” just changed the feeling of the conversation May 27, 2020 at 11:57PM

I've definatly struggled with similar things as a fellow aroace. As an almost 20 year old myself my dad likes to tell me I'll find the right person some day. I tell him I'm not interested in anything to do with romance or romantic relationships but he tells me he wants to see me be with someone and be happy. My family is open about sex and stuff and he says sex is really great and I just have to meet the right person :/ the statement we've all heard. I'm not out to him because I know he won't accept it. I also work closely with my boss and he likes to say "when you're married," or "when you have kids," and tries to set me up with young dudes that come by the business. Super annoying. Hopefully it helps to know you're not alone in your experiences. May 27, 2020 at 11:57PM

... the fuck is wrong with people, really like, if X wants sex, COOL! if Y doesn't, COOL! now, why would any of them need to change?... as I always say, if someone can't accept you for who you are, they're not worth your time. but yeah, entitled jerks who would rather rape her than leave.... whish they had to live though the other side, it would be only fair. May 27, 2020 at 11:56PM

Thank you for your kind words. Those options are not really available to me at the moment but I really appreciate the advice. May 27, 2020 at 11:54PM

I love how people around me can understand every abstract concept i tell them but the second i tell them i don't find anything aestethically pleasing they call me a liar, i tried i really tried to feel aestethic atraction but i just i can't i guess. I looked for pic for supossed pretty girls and i didn't feel anything just indiference, then i look at photos of supossed handsome men like brad pitt and i don't feel anything either just indiference. I honestly think i'm not human. May 27, 2020 at 11:53PM

Actually, she isn’t lgbt at all. I knew it was kinda weird for her to give me advice considering she’s not even part of the community.. May 27, 2020 at 11:52PM

I'm ace but not aro. I feel kind of similar because although I'm not aro, I don't think I can provide a fulfilling relationship. I don't want to put anyone in the situation where they want sex but feel awkward or bad about a breakup. So yeah I can relate to an extent and agree that it sucks. May 27, 2020 at 11:51PM

I don' have aestethic atraction for anything, i don't find anything aestetically pleasing and i never understood the words "beautful" "pretty" "handsome" when i was younger that's when i noticed i couldn't sense aestehic atraction. I should be obsessing over pretty girls at my age like evryone else and i don't even understand what that means. May 27, 2020 at 11:48PM

I don't feel aesetic atraction, i don't really sense "beauty" never did, i've tried to look at pics of pretty women and handsome men and i don't feel anything, i should be: "SHEEES SO PRETTY" "HEEES SO HANDSOME!" and i'm like: they're just faces....what's exactly so good about them...yeah i just don't feel it i guess, and i can't see beauty in the world either...i like sunshines because they're cool not because they're pretty or whatever. May 27, 2020 at 11:45PM

It sounds like you feel aesthetic attraction, but not sexual attraction, right? That makes you asexual. Being in the "mood" is a question of libido, not attraction. Some asexuals are in the mood often, some rarely. You can call yourself asexual even if your feelings are due to medications. I understand the desire to know what's me and what's the meds. It's hard to say, but your current feelings are real, and you should focus on what makes you happy now. Dating is hard for me, too. May 27, 2020 at 11:42PM

dibs on the bottom middle one May 27, 2020 at 11:40PM

What do you mean, you don't want to chug this extra hot sauce? But you had some hot sauce before, didn't you? Drink some more of it, you'll learn to love it May 27, 2020 at 11:36PM

Ask your friend of she figured out her sexuality by having sex. Ask a gay man if he knew he was gay by having sex. I don't know anyone who only figured out their sexuality by having sex, so why should it be different with us? May 27, 2020 at 11:30PM

Has she tried having sex with a woman to know that she doesn’t like it? Same applies to her, that’s not true at all. You are 100% valid ♠️💜 May 27, 2020 at 11:29PM

Black gold? WTF? Gold is expensive and so soft it will scratch very easily. If you don't want something that looks like gold, there's no point in using it. Tungsten carbide, OTOH, is cheap and virtually indestructible. They make drill bits out of it for drilling into things that would destroy a steel bit. I have a tungsten carbide ring with a brushed metal finish that should theoretically be very easy to damage, but I've been wearing it every day for months and it looks brand new. None of the other rings I've tried have held up nearly as well. I keep seeing these advertised on Facebook. If only they offered them with the stones in more appropriate colors it would be the most badass ace ring ever. Maybe we should contact them and point that out? May 27, 2020 at 11:12PM

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