Hi everyone. So I’ve been dating this guy since January. In the beginning, we went out on dates every month. But it’s stopped. Financially he gets social security every month from his father’s retirement & now he works at a seasonal job. He told me before that he doesn’t want to go on dates & be broke after. It kinda made me feel like I was the cause of that. Granted, when he needed groceries I bought them for him, so I never watched him struggle. However, we want to see each other this weekend & I don’t want to stay in the house. He says it all depends on if he gets his check this weekend. I’ve been to his house more than we’ve been out. I expressed that I don’t want to just stay in the house the entire time. Am I wrong if I don’t want to spend the entire time in house instead of me wanting to out? Would I be wrong if I postponed our visit until then. Oh & he’s made it clear he doesn’t want me paying for dates. Submitted May 17, 2022 at 01:14AM Hi everyone. So...

My partner (25m) that I have been dating for 6 months smokes like one joint a night or hits his dab pen at night. I don’t notice any bad effects to his mood or anything. I’m thinking long term with him and I wouldn’t want it around our kids or him smoking in the house (he doesn’t even do that now). I can’t stop thinking about it!! I don’t want to have a conversation with him because its too early in the relationship. Should I just let it go? Submitted May 17, 2022 at 01:14AM My partner (25m) that I have been dating for 6 months smokes like one joint a night or hits his dab pen at night. I don’t notice any bad effects to his mood or anything. I’m thinking long term with him and I wouldn’t want it around our kids or him smoking in the house (he doesn’t even do that now). I can’t stop thinking about it!! I don’t want to have a conversation with him because its too early in the relationship. Should I just let it go?

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I'm a single lady who just turned 30. I've spent the past 6 or so years living in Los Angeles, and have found myself having a hard time with the LA dating scene. I had one boyfriend here for about 2 years, but otherwise haven't had much luck finding a life partner I really have a connection with. I'm wondering if maybe I'm in the wrong city, and I'd have better luck finding a kind, grounded, intelligent partner somewhere like SF or Seattle? I know having a partner isn't everything, but after being single for the last 1.5 years, I'm wondering if I would have better luck in a different city as a woman my age? tldr: would i have better luck dating in a new city? Submitted May 16, 2022 at 01:17AM I'm a single lady who just turned 30. I've spent the past 6 or so years living in Los Angeles, and have found myself having a hard time with the LA dating scene. I had one boyfriend here for about 2 years, but otherwise haven't had much luck find...

That's kind of what I figured would be the best route. Consent and communication are already a big deal for us for various reasons. I'm glad that I'm on the right track. :) I know my autistic ass can be quite oblivious to social cues, so I always like to double check. Thank you for the reassurance! It helps. May 16, 2022 at 11:09PM