I've been dating this gorgeous girthy girl for a few weeks now and it's going amazingly, she's confirmed that we're getting it on in a few days. I'm incredibly nervous as I've never had any experience before, but she has so at least one of us knows what we're doing. So what's the best advice for pleasuring a big girl? I'm 7'' if that helps, could that open our options in terms of positions? How do I last more than 10 seconds? HELP?! Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:13PM I've been dating this gorgeous girthy girl for a few weeks now and it's going amazingly, she's confirmed that we're getting it on in a few days. I'm incredibly nervous as I've never had any experience before, but she has so at least one of us knows what we're doing.So what's the best advice for pleasuring a big girl? I'm 7'' if that helps, could that open our options in terms of positions? How do I last more than 10 seconds...

I have been trying to do them for a week now (had 2 one-day breaks and I am not overdoing it on 'work days'). So far absolutely no progress but worse is that I have no idea what am doing. ​ ​ I understand that for kegels we should concentrate on two types of pelvic floor muscles. The one you stop your pee with. And reverse kegel which is the one you use to increase stream of pee (anus tightens doing this). And honestly I just don't get it. I can't feel those muscles like at all. All I do is some weak-ass squeezes. Just like this guy [NSFW PornHub link of a guy doing kegels) But these are pulses. How are you supposed to squeeze and hold that for 5-10 seconds? ​ ​ I am not in a great shape but I lost over 60 pounds and about 25lbs left until my Goal Weight. I eat pretty clean and drink plenty of water. I can hike/run/bike long distances with no issues. I have also been going to yoga classes for 8 weeks now and made a very visible progress. We also do a lot of...

Okay so I'm not saying it always goes this deep, but today my friend (a transboy, we'll call him alex) revealed to me that he was sexually abused by his dad at a young age. He's now really into DDLG, wanting to play as a child with a "daddy" to take care of him. My foster brother used me for sex when I was 14. He spent months coercing me into it, until I finally gave in, and he used me for years. Now, I'm in a healthy relationship, but I find myself saying "order me around" "I want to be your little sex slave" and "daddy I want you to use me." This is the shit I tried so hard to escape, but coming from him it's like a turn on. I think my foster brother distorted the idea of sex into something it wasn't meant to be. I feel like I only exist to get him off. At one time I was so attention starved I stripped for older men on omegle. I'm in a sort of better place right now, but does anyone else ever feel like this? Anyone ...

Any tips to start the topic with SO? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:20PM Any tips to start the topic with SO?

I've cheated on my gf and to be honest, I feel like shit. I know that is a bad thing and I don't know what to do. I'm not looking for an excuse or trying to justify why I did it but it sucks that I did it. I know this is terrible, I live with my gf for about 3 years now and she's amazing. She's loving, caring, HOT, we have amazing sex and just the ''regular'' problems any other couples have (we have bad weeks, stress from our jobs, family..), but in general we are happy and we are mutually satisfied. I'm a pretty chill guy, I respect my gf and I love her but the thing just got out of control. I watch a lot of porn and I masturbate a lot and , to be honest, I think this little ''addiction'' might be getting in my way because, I was just horny and needed to blow of some steam when I fucked this other girl. There is this girl on my job who is hot as well and she flirts a lot with me, she tends to be very "tactile" with ...

I figured it was finally time to post a question of my own after being a lurker of this sub on occasion. I am 21 and my girlfriend and I have been together for quite sometime, albeit she is also my first girlfriend and first for everything, this of course includes losing my virginity. Our sex life seems to be all over the table, but if I could sum it up, a good week is one to two times per week max, and a bad week is once every two weeks and sometimes three weeks. Factors impact this includes us both living at home with our parents still, her only wanting to do anything if she had come just fresh out of the shower or shortly before, and us not being home alone with another. However, some weeks she seems to be all over me, and although we may not have full on intercourse each time, we certainly do things a few times out of the week. Sex is like a high, and although she may have been my first and only, I already know that it's something that I absolutely love and believe to be ...

I'm 21 and I'm still as horny as I was when I was a teenager. I masturbate like 3 times a day and I'm always thinking about how I want to fuck a girl or just see girls with no clothes on. I'm shy and have a hard time approaching girls and stuff, so I know I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. I'd therefore really like to stop being horny and wanting to fuck. Some people say working out helps, but I already work out regularly and it isn't helping. I don't know what to do Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:29PM I'm 21 and I'm still as horny as I was when I was a teenager. I masturbate like 3 times a day and I'm always thinking about how I want to fuck a girl or just see girls with no clothes on. I'm shy and have a hard time approaching girls and stuff, so I know I'm not going to get laid anytime soon. I'd therefore really like to stop being horny and wanting to fuck. Some people say working out helps, but I already work out...

Even outside of sex with another person it usually takes me a while to cum and I cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. We’ve tried cock rings but they have broken or not stayed on. Vibrators are hit or miss because I’m sensitive and it starts to hurt if it’s too strong but too light and it doesn’t do anything so I can’t win lol. I’m too in my own head now about it too because I know it bothers my partner that he cannot get me off so lately I’m pretty self conscious and feeling down-not that he has done anything to make me feel bad about it and he tries really hard to give me what I want. Advice is appreciated! Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:32PM Even outside of sex with another person it usually takes me a while to cum and I cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. We’ve tried cock rings but they have broken or not stayed on. Vibrators are hit or miss because I’m sensitive and it starts to hurt if it’s too strong but too light and it doesn’t do anything so I can’t w...

By short i mean like UNDER 5'5 or so. Secondary question, do you know of any communities that fetishize short men? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:34PM By short i mean like UNDER 5'5 or so. Secondary question, do you know of any communities that fetishize short men?

Sooo we have a healthy relationship, 10y in. We have good sex, but she is very she. She seldom asks for anything, never dirty talks, etc. Once she mentioned that she likes watching “facefuck” porn, and she’s also mentioned she has a rape fantasy, and she’d like anal ocasionally. But she will NEVER ask for anything, or mention it again. I have to always ask and insist. Which I’m not comfortable doing. And if I ask what she wants while we are at it, she’ll just say “I don’t know, this is good”. I know she enjoys sex, I just wish she could be more open about it. So through these years I’ve become less... adventurous, as I don’t know what she wants and I don’t want to do anything that may be uncomfortable for her. Any ideas on how to open communication? Or make her feel it’s ok to share all that? Games? Or anything? Thanks Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:35PM Sooo we have a healthy relationship, 10y in. We have good sex, but she is very she. She seldom asks for anything, never d...

If so, do guys get disgusted? Do girls get more wet? We (F22) (M24) were suppose to do it today, but I got it... I kind of feel bad, we were already talking about it and what not... I still want to, but I don't think he does. Share experience maybe? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:37PM If so, do guys get disgusted? Do girls get more wet? We (F22) (M24) were suppose to do it today, but I got it... I kind of feel bad, we were already talking about it and what not... I still want to, but I don't think he does.Share experience maybe?

Is it ever strange at first when sharing space with an uncircumcised partner to see them getting 'hands on' for functional stuff, ie pulling the foreskin back to urinate or clean. I know not all uncut guys pull back to pee. I do but have always been a little self-conscious. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:37PM Is it ever strange at first when sharing space with an uncircumcised partner to see them getting 'hands on' for functional stuff, ie pulling the foreskin back to urinate or clean. I know not all uncut guys pull back to pee. I do but have always been a little self-conscious.

So me and my girlfriend used to have sex like 2 or three times a day for a month or a little longer . Recently me and her talked about how we should ease up on sex and I thought it was a good idea so we did now we maybe have it maybe 2 or three times a week and I’ve noticed that she’s been using her dildo a lot more then usual I can tell because of the dry what I’m assuming is we cum on it and idk if I’m doing something wrong or she’s just trying something new out and it’s not like I don’t know what I’m doing at least I’m pretty sure i do know what to do and it’s not like my dicks small I’m 8 inches and she says the sex is good but idk can someone help me please understand what’s going on? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:42PM So me and my girlfriend used to have sex like 2 or three times a day for a month or a little longer . Recently me and her talked about how we should ease up on sex and I thought it was a good idea so we did now we maybe have it maybe 2 or three times a w...

I (21 m) just started dating a girl (20 f). She’s never had any sexual experience before. She wanted me to finger her and after that she decided she was ready to have sex. I tried to put it in her but she was just too tight and she said it hurt too much. I do not want to put her through all that pain, but i know she wants to be fucked as much as i want to fuck her. We went at it for almost an hour but i was only able to put the head in without her feeling like shes being split in half. With going slow, how long should it take before i can go all the way in? Is the pain just something she has to endure the first time? I want to do it without hurting her as much as possible. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:43PM I (21 m) just started dating a girl (20 f). She’s never had any sexual experience before. She wanted me to finger her and after that she decided she was ready to have sex. I tried to put it in her but she was just too tight and she said it hurt too much. I do not want to...

She’s on meds, obviously not currently having an outbreak but I know nothing about this or how it goes from person to person. I thought it was only contagious during an outbreak, but I’m seeing mixed information. Can someone please clear this up for me or point me towards some resources? Basically I want to know if I keep sleeping with this person will I absolutely get herpes even if she’s on meds and doesn’t have an outbreak? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:45PM She’s on meds, obviously not currently having an outbreak but I know nothing about this or how it goes from person to person. I thought it was only contagious during an outbreak, but I’m seeing mixed information. Can someone please clear this up for me or point me towards some resources?Basically I want to know if I keep sleeping with this person will I absolutely get herpes even if she’s on meds and doesn’t have an outbreak?

Why is this? Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:53PM Why is this?

Is that possible to know a sex partner in this community? I m just come to US three months ago due to work and travel program. I will back to my origin country soon an would like to get a sex here. Any suggestion or advice here as I m not much familiar about the rules here. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:57PM Is that possible to know a sex partner in this community? I m just come to US three months ago due to work and travel program. I will back to my origin country soon an would like to get a sex here. Any suggestion or advice here as I m not much familiar about the rules here.

I’m on vyvanse 40mg, seratraline 150mg and tri-cyclen lo. I don’t get horny, porn isn’t interesting anymore. I’ve been on the meds for a few months now and I’m guessing it’s due to that not sure. Does anyone know if I’ll be able to get it back? It was a huge stress reliever for me and just something personal and intimate thing I liked to share with myself. I feel kinda upset that I don’t have that drive in me anymore. Submitted September 05, 2019 at 12:00AM I’m on vyvanse 40mg, seratraline 150mg and tri-cyclen lo. I don’t get horny, porn isn’t interesting anymore. I’ve been on the meds for a few months now and I’m guessing it’s due to that not sure. Does anyone know if I’ll be able to get it back? It was a huge stress reliever for me and just something personal and intimate thing I liked to share with myself. I feel kinda upset that I don’t have that drive in me anymore.

Trying to see if there's a real term or not. Submitted September 05, 2019 at 12:01AM Trying to see if there's a real term or not.

Weshouldtryit.com is a website for couples to take a quiz where you answer questions about your sexual preferences, fantasies, kinks fetishes, you name it. At the end of the quiz, it displays both of your responses. However, my understanding of the quiz was that it only displays the mutual responses, in order to avoid embarrassment and what not. I was so wrong. My boyfriend [m] is only a dominant and I’m [f] submissive to him but I really enjoy being a switch. I can compromise because I really love being his sub but I do still have my fantasies towards him. Although I knew he is only into dominating me, I had hope that while answering the questionnaire, maybe he’d have some mutual fantasies to receive from me. After all, the quiz would only show mutual responses (I THOUGHT) so I thought, “what’s there to lose?” And I truthfully answered yes to all the questions I wanted... Basically, my partner now knows I secretly want to try anal play with him, rimming him, dominating him a bit, t...

I need a new tinder bio. My current one is “5’11. If you like water, you already like 72 percent of me. Also owner of the cutest dog you’ll ever meet” I can’t think of anything witty so here I am Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:35PM I need a new tinder bio. My current one is “5’11. If you like water, you already like 72 percent of me. Also owner of the cutest dog you’ll ever meet” I can’t think of anything witty so here I am

Anyone else feel that long term, in this day and age of instant hook ups through the net, overexposure through social media and all the rest, that a long term faithful partner is just a fanciful idea? Honestly, I'll never get married. No way. But now, even being with a chick is almost pointless beyond the physical release, because nobody seems to be able to be faithful for any length of time. Why invest at all? No wonder people treat others like disposable shit. Because when it happens to you, you feel as if that's the way things are. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:44PM Anyone else feel that long term, in this day and age of instant hook ups through the net, overexposure through social media and all the rest, that a long term faithful partner is just a fanciful idea?Honestly, I'll never get married. No way. But now, even being with a chick is almost pointless beyond the physical release, because nobody seems to be able to be faithful for any length of time. Why...

Sadness can make one feel so lonely and helpless, bcz it is not understood, which results in more sadness explosion. Over time you are afraid of trusting him bcz you know clearly that your sadness means nothing to him, and you just don’t want to let yourself get hurt again and again, although you do really hope he would try to understand your feelings. But unfortunately not. Well, the more important thing is, why the sadness. We should think about that. What’s behind it. How can it be solved. There is a „need“ hidden behind the sadness, need of being understood, need of being cared and loved by the certain person, etc.. Those needs should be noticed and appropriately satisfied. That is the real way to solve it. However, one must first literally have the willingness to think about it. Unfortunately, this rarely happens. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:32PM Sadness can make one feel so lonely and helpless, bcz it is not understood, which results in more sadness explosion. Over...