Sadness can change a person

Sadness can make one feel so lonely and helpless, bcz it is not understood, which results in more sadness explosion. Over time you are afraid of trusting him bcz you know clearly that your sadness means nothing to him, and you just don’t want to let yourself get hurt again and again, although you do really hope he would try to understand your feelings. But unfortunately not.

Well, the more important thing is, why the sadness. We should think about that. What’s behind it. How can it be solved. There is a „need“ hidden behind the sadness, need of being understood, need of being cared and loved by the certain person, etc.. Those needs should be noticed and appropriately satisfied. That is the real way to solve it. However, one must first literally have the willingness to think about it. Unfortunately, this rarely happens.

Submitted September 04, 2019 at 11:32PM

Sadness can make one feel so lonely and helpless, bcz it is not understood, which results in more sadness explosion. Over time you are afraid of trusting him bcz you know clearly that your sadness means nothing to him, and you just don’t want to let yourself get hurt again and again, although you do really hope he would try to understand your feelings. But unfortunately not.Well, the more important thing is, why the sadness. We should think about that. What’s behind it. How can it be solved. There is a „need“ hidden behind the sadness, need of being understood, need of being cared and loved by the certain person, etc.. Those needs should be noticed and appropriately satisfied. That is the real way to solve it. However, one must first literally have the willingness to think about it. Unfortunately, this rarely happens.