Heads up on this couples mutual fetish quiz

Weshouldtryit.com is a website for couples to take a quiz where you answer questions about your sexual preferences, fantasies, kinks fetishes, you name it. At the end of the quiz, it displays both of your responses. However, my understanding of the quiz was that it only displays the mutual responses, in order to avoid embarrassment and what not. I was so wrong.

My boyfriend [m] is only a dominant and I’m [f] submissive to him but I really enjoy being a switch. I can compromise because I really love being his sub but I do still have my fantasies towards him. Although I knew he is only into dominating me, I had hope that while answering the questionnaire, maybe he’d have some mutual fantasies to receive from me. After all, the quiz would only show mutual responses (I THOUGHT) so I thought, “what’s there to lose?” And I truthfully answered yes to all the questions I wanted...

Basically, my partner now knows I secretly want to try anal play with him, rimming him, dominating him a bit, threesomes with another male involved, double penetration etc etc.....

I have no clue what to do. I haven’t expressed these desires to him ever, especially knowing what he likes the most. I assumed that since I had some things I wanted to try secretly that maybe he would too, at least regarding the same as mine, despite how he likes to be dominant.

Ugh, I genuinely don’t know what to do. He hasn’t responded to my texts basically saying “dude that survey Did NOT show only mutual results”.

Would this type of thing kill a relationships sex life ?? Like even if I tell him those desires are only if he were to consent he still KNOWS what I want from him now. 😭😭😭 what the hell am I supposed to do?

Submitted September 05, 2019 at 12:07AM

Weshouldtryit.com is a website for couples to take a quiz where you answer questions about your sexual preferences, fantasies, kinks fetishes, you name it. At the end of the quiz, it displays both of your responses. However, my understanding of the quiz was that it only displays the mutual responses, in order to avoid embarrassment and what not. I was so wrong.My boyfriend [m] is only a dominant and I’m [f] submissive to him but I really enjoy being a switch. I can compromise because I really love being his sub but I do still have my fantasies towards him. Although I knew he is only into dominating me, I had hope that while answering the questionnaire, maybe he’d have some mutual fantasies to receive from me. After all, the quiz would only show mutual responses (I THOUGHT) so I thought, “what’s there to lose?” And I truthfully answered yes to all the questions I wanted...Basically, my partner now knows I secretly want to try anal play with him, rimming him, dominating him a bit, threesomes with another male involved, double penetration etc etc.....I have no clue what to do. I haven’t expressed these desires to him ever, especially knowing what he likes the most. I assumed that since I had some things I wanted to try secretly that maybe he would too, at least regarding the same as mine, despite how he likes to be dominant.Ugh, I genuinely don’t know what to do. He hasn’t responded to my texts basically saying “dude that survey Did NOT show only mutual results”.Would this type of thing kill a relationships sex life ?? Like even if I tell him those desires are only if he were to consent he still KNOWS what I want from him now. 😭😭😭 what the hell am I supposed to do?