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Never really dated before, kinda lost with my emotions

Ok long story. About 2 months ago i went on a trip and i (16m) spent the 2 best weeks of my life with this girl (16f) i met there. We have so much in common she’s rlly hot too and honestly one of the best ppl i know. We hooked up and basically dated for those 2 weeks but unfortunately i had to go back to where i live and she to where she lives. I’m not gonna give specific details but we live in separate continentes, with an ocean between us. For the past months since i got back we have called pretty much everyday and it’s honestly the best part of my day but i don’t think i could have a real relationship with this much distance. I’ve told her this and she agrees that if we’re both still into it we’ll meet up again after highschool and for now keep talking to eachother online. This seemed great to me at first but then i realized i was starting to get jealous of some things even though we aren’t dating. She hasn’t gotten with anybody else so far according to her and neither have i but w...

/u/MysticoftheWild on Can two AroAces get married ?

Why not? People get married for fame, money, politics, and other reasons. Two people getting married because they are best friends is much better. Of course it’s up to the individuals involved. September 22, 2022 at 12:34AM

Need help. Should I tell her how I feel?

Ok, so I’ve posted in here recently, and hopefully this is my last post (you can check out my other posts too… in those, people said I’m moving to fast and will drive her away, but I don’t think I made it clear that we had talked for close to 9 months. If you still think I’m moving too fast, that’s fair, and please let me know). I’ve been talking to this girl (I’m 22, she’s 21) since December over dm almost every day, and have met a handful of time (because we live in different states, so I can only see her when I’m back home for break). We have a lot in common, and we are essentially the same person. She’s a beautiful looking girl (that’s quite popular), and I’m an average looking guy (and am not the greatest with girls), so I’m obviously unsure about how she feels about me. Nothing physical has really happened between us, but we have plans of her visiting and spending the weekend with me in a few weeks. I want to tell her how I feel about her before that actually happens, but an uns...

29 male that constantly gets rejected

I'm 29 and I've been single for nearly 10 years. Throughout this time I've been on a handful of dates that never went on to a second date. Most of the time I get flat out rejected. I'm a bit of an awkward guy and many times I can be a bit socially awkward when talking to women. My confidence has bottomed out but I've been working on myself since the start of this year. I recently tried talking to my best friends wife's friend who is drop dead gorgeous and I thought there was something there given that every time we see each other it's always a great time and there's good chemistry. But I've gotten her number and after a few days of texting i asked her if she'd like to grab dinner after work this Friday and she went radio silent any memes i sent to her on social are left on read. I take that as pretty much her saying no. I'm not sure where I keep going wrong. Any advice? Submitted September 22, 2022 at 12:03AM I'm 29 and I've be...

How should I introduce myself to my date’s parents?

I (21M) have been dating a girl (19F) for 3 months. We have been doing long distance 4hrs away for a month already. We are not officially boyfriend/girlfriend yet though. Her parents are driving her 4hrs to my place to stay over for the weekend. She will be spending two nights over at my place. Since her parents will be dropping her off at my front door, I think that it should be appropriate if I greet them outside and introduce myself. How should I greet them and introduce myself? Should I let the girl introduce me or should I do it myself? I don’t think its ok to introduce myself as her boyfriend even though we act like a couple when together. How should I introduce myself to her parents? Submitted September 22, 2022 at 12:04AM I (21M) have been dating a girl (19F) for 3 months. We have been doing long distance 4hrs away for a month already. We are not officially boyfriend/girlfriend yet though.Her parents are driving her 4hrs to my place to stay over for the weekend. She...

Long-distance situationship is really tough right now, and she sometimes gives some mixed signals. Not sure what to do, scared of losing her and it looks like it's gonna end.. Can i save it?

Sorry, it's a bit long. I (M29) started seeing her (F25) almost six months ago. We got really close before summer break, but we didn't become official because we would be living in different countries until christmas. During summer-break, she came a long way to visit me, and we had a wonderful time. Really felt like we connected a lot. She met many of my friends, and also my brother and his wife. Her having travelled to see me, and meeting those people felt like really serious intentions to me. We then started this thing that i have now discovered is called a "situationship". Where we are kinda together, but not really official. It's been very up and down. We text pretty much every single day, and it's often flirty and romantic etc. Still, it's a bit weird sometimes, and i find myself getting quite jealous and worried when she's going out with friends and people that i don't know about, considering we're not official. Yet, she hasn't reall...

How do I get to know this girl?

I (20M) have a friend (21F) who I’m relative close with. We’ll call her Amy. We talk from time to time and hang out every few weeks. Sometimes, I meet her friends, she meets mine and we all go out clubbing etc. Amy has a friend named Jane who I think is very pretty. I have not met Jane but I’ve seen her on Amy’s Instagram stories. I casually replied to one of Amy’s stories that I think Jane is pretty. Amy jokingly suggested that she can be my ‘wingman’. How should I go about trying to get to know Jane? What approach do I take and does anyone have any tips? How do I get to know Jane without seeming creepy but also not friendzone myself? Sidenote: Amy and I do not have feelings for each other. Submitted September 22, 2022 at 12:14AM I (20M) have a friend (21F) who I’m relative close with. We’ll call her Amy. We talk from time to time and hang out every few weeks. Sometimes, I meet her friends, she meets mine and we all go out clubbing etc.Amy has a friend named Jane who I thin...