You ever been in a dorm filled with dudes? I'm In the millitary. Dudes got 3 moods Horny,(if gf)love sick,deppressed. April 29, 2022 at 11:07PM

2/M here. Went on my first date of the year yesterday. This woman was very talkative, curious and sprightly. She asked me questions about my Masters degree in music and my practice in experimental music and I inquired about her profession in art auctioneering and her background in art school. She established earlier on Tinder (where we matched) that she had Covid and that she needed to complete her compulsory 7 day isolation before we met IRL(both of us are triple vaxxed btw). However 45 minutes into the date she told me that she was feeling exhausted and made her pretty slow with thinking and conversing. I noticed she was distracting with her phone as we were talking, which led me to inquire whether she gets inundated with work emails (which she admitted so). We pay for our drinks at the bar and go outside and I tell her I like how quirky and conversant she is, to which she is flattered and says she gets a lot of nasty responses from guys. She then asks which direction I am walking a...

Since I've been on dating apps I've always been the one to message first cause I notice if I don't do it I'll never hear from a guy. I don't understand why guys don't message as soon as they get the match notification. I wanted to see if any of my matches would message me first and it's been 3 days and no one has said anything. Why do you guys do this? Like are they not interested in me, or are they too lazy or scared to message? Some guys will literally reply within minutes if I message them first, but if I don't I just never hear from them. It's so frustrating! I don't understand. I'm starting to get to the point where I'm only going to talk to guys who message me first because I feel like the ones that don't are not that into me. Submitted April 30, 2022 at 12:02AM Since I've been on dating apps I've always been the one to message first cause I notice if I don't do it I'll never hear from a guy. I don't u...

So I (M,33) have two small parrots that I love to death (a green cheek conure and a canary winged parakeet both about half way through their expected life cycles of 15-20 years and the CWP is mildly internet famous. I wish I was making that up lol) They have apparently been the reason the last few ladies that I tried to start something SERIOUS AND LONG TERM with weren’t interested or backed out and it almost always followed the “do you have pets question”. The birds seem to be winners with short term partners or anyone that just want to be friends. Maybe most people don’t realize how much time their pets take up, or how annoying dogs and cats can be, or they aren’t giving them the time they actually need, but birds are not that different from dogs as far as the amount of time they require. So, and not that I’d EVER ask a perspective long term partner to give up a pet, I don’t like cats and am indifferent to dogs and I don’t really want either in my life again but I’ve had both and...

Would you be upset at your partner if he/she sent a kissy face emoji “😚” to their best friend who is of the opposite sex? Submitted April 30, 2022 at 12:04AM Would you be upset at your partner if he/she sent a kissy face emoji “😚” to their best friend who is of the opposite sex?

A few months ago I went to a birthday party of a friend and there was a very pretty girl. We only exchanged names and only talked while mutual friends were there since she had a boyfriend and I didn't want to make her feel like I am hitting on her. Few days after the birthday I followed her and she followed me back (phew at least she remembers me lol) But few days ago I overheard she is single again. Here's the problem, when it comes to us getting to talk my friends won't help me at all with her. Another friend told me to just react to her story and try that way, but in my opinion a lot of people are probably trying and I don't want to come out as a weirdo really. I need someone else's opinion on that. Submitted April 30, 2022 at 12:07AM A few months ago I went to a birthday party of a friend and there was a very pretty girl. We only exchanged names and only talked while mutual friends were there since she had a boyfriend and I didn't want to make her fe...

First started as Bi then went to Pan. I'll tell the bi awakening story here. I liked girls alot since the age of 12. A new anime came out in cartoon network I think. Those days are alittle fuzzy. It was Naruto. I was a big fan. And there was this character named Haku. Man oh man. I was friggin in love with Haku. And then that line drop. OH by the way....Im a boy.. My feelings didn't change... I was still into it. But it did make me question myself alot as I was raised as a Christian. I'm agnostic now. April 29, 2022 at 11:07PM