I 29/F met a guy on hinge 29/M. Up until the date we texted every day, he would ask questions and seemed into it. I thought the date went great. We met up at a wine bar and stayed until close, then went to another bar and stayed until close (2 am on a Tuesday) I went back to his place and we talked until 4AM and messed around a little bit…clothes stayed on but he fingered me a bit. He was very cuddly and even cuddled with me in the morning. He then kissed me and said he needed to start working (he works remote) so he went to his office and started working. I called an Uber but didn’t like how he didn’t walk me out or wait with me until I called it. When I walked out the door he said “let me know when you’re back from the beach” (I am going on a girls trip this weekend) and then that was it. I felt so unsettled after the date bc he felt cold in the morning that I texted him afterward saying I had fun and he said he did too and it was a quick back and forth and then it’s been radio sil...

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sorry this is a lot to read but I could really use some thoughts on the situation!! Basically, I (21F) was in just over a year long relationship with my now ex bf (26M). We knew each other years ago and he actually got engaged but broke it off many months before we got together. It was my first relationship and basically my first everything but his third or so. It became long distance once I went to college in the fall, but he would often visit me and I would go back home. It was filled with love and happiness and he treated me very well and I was pretty much the happiest I had been ever and we were so in love with each other–-we talked about marriage after I graduate college and our future. Our chemistry was insane for the entirety of the relationship. One day, I basically uncovered a pretty big lie (that he went to a different college and played a professional sport) that he told me, my friends, my family, and everyone he would encounter. I even wrote a bio for him that included t...

Hi, kinda want an advice. I always try to overthink things that won't possibly happen. I have commitment issues or maybe this is abandonment issue, family issue (not sure fr) 2 years ago I met someone online and won't say we clicked instant. We set (kinda) boundaries and he told me that he's not sure that it will turn to serious relationship. So we on a getting to know each other stage. But the thing is I'm vert ubfair to him, he asks about something about me stories to share with him and all about my family etc. I'm not very direct on answering him I actually don't know what to say and shy to tell him. I have a boring life so I'm afraid I might bore him but really i just dont know where to start and what to tell him. He even told me that I'm too 'mysterious' and 'private'. I have traumatic childhood life. As the 'courtship' went by so does my anxiety. I want to date with marriage in mind and not just for the sake of 'datin...

I met this guy on tinder and we’re going on a first date. We’re just going to watch a movie and hang out. He seems like a really nice guy, and i would like to get to know him. However, i’m not downplaying this when i say i never go on dates. This is the first one i’ve been on in 3 years. I also feel like i’m really awkward. I can keep a conversation going, but if the other person is awkward then i don’t know what to do. Another thing is that I have a little bit of trauma when it comes to sex, and i don’t think i want to have sex with him. But i feel like people normally have sex with their tinder dates and he might be expecting it ?? and i also don’t want to be put in a scary situation if i say no since i truly don’t know him as a person. any advice on how you guys handle first dates would be amazing Submitted April 08, 2022 at 12:01AM I met this guy on tinder and we’re going on a first date. We’re just going to watch a movie and hang out. He seems like a really nice guy, and ...

I was walking around my college campus and ended up walking up the stairs next to this girl very awkwardly saying nothing. Is there a way to get know a complete random? Do I compliment something about her, do I ask her what class shes going to or just let her be? I genuinely dont have much experience with social interactions and I want to improve and learn, any help appreciated. Submitted April 08, 2022 at 12:15AM I was walking around my college campus and ended up walking up the stairs next to this girl very awkwardly saying nothing. Is there a way to get know a complete random? Do I compliment something about her, do I ask her what class shes going to or just let her be? I genuinely dont have much experience with social interactions and I want to improve and learn, any help appreciated.

I'm a dating noob, never done it before. I've met a girl that I like and she potentially likes me back but I'm not sure how to act on it. I've been told by different people that know us to ask her out. Any advice for a novice guys? Thanks Submitted April 08, 2022 at 12:15AM I'm a dating noob, never done it before. I've met a girl that I like and she potentially likes me back but I'm not sure how to act on it.I've been told by different people that know us to ask her out.Any advice for a novice guys?Thanks