I don't see how sleeping with different people can teach you how to get better at sex. I remember someone told me she slept with a guy who slept with many women and had no idea what he was doing in the bedroom. That's a difference between people who want to practice and people who chase the number. Some people would be like, "you need to sleep with different peiple." Even if I did sleep with other people, I'll learn nothing because I'd not know how I was doing and everyone has different preferences. Feedback or constructive criticism is only one way for me to get better. I never had any desire to sleep with other people. STD/STI is one of my main concerns. I also need to feel comfortable and safe. I also need trust. Before I lost my virginity, I hoped my first time would be with a FWB or boyfriend. I hoped that we would have sex again and again. My wish came true, and it was with my FWB. He is experienced, and he did suggest that I should sleep with someo...

For quite some time now I (M) (48) have dreamed of masturbating in front of a group of women...2,3, or more. I have always just thought it was part of my kinky side and I always orgasm very hard to this. Today the thought occurred to me that perhaps this might be a sign of narcissism rather than a kink. Is that more about stroking my ego than my member? Up until today I thought I just wanted as many women as possible to see me cum. Opinions? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:15PM For quite some time now I (M) (48) have dreamed of masturbating in front of a group of women...2,3, or more. I have always just thought it was part of my kinky side and I always orgasm very hard to this. Today the thought occurred to me that perhaps this might be a sign of narcissism rather than a kink. Is that more about stroking my ego than my member? Up until today I thought I just wanted as many women as possible to see me cum. Opinions?

I’ve (26F) have been feeling worse and worse about sex for a while now. It’s hard to explain, mainly because when I express my concerns to others I’m hit with “you’re too young, you’re being stupid, etc etc” My first problem is with me. I have pelvic organ prolapse, and no amount of PT has reverse it. I’m constantly aware, and sex exasperates the feeling I already have. It creates pockets in the side of my vagina because of the bladder dropping that make what should normally feel at least somewhat snug like a change purse. It’s constantly like gravity is pulling me down, and because of my own personal anatomy, any position that would otherwise make me feel tighter just pulls air into there. This makes it even more pocket-y, and at that point no one can feel anything. If I suggest other positions, I’m hit with opposition because nothing can be felt like that either. This has created a very awful and consuming mental barrier to sex. I hate my body and don’t see myself as a worthy woma...

As the title states, I've been sexually shamed by a girl a couple of minutes ago. We had previous sexual conversations and they kinda died down a bit. I messaged her and we talked about sex a little bit, then told her that I bought some new toys to play with and was excited for them to come in the mail. She then took a screenshot of our conversation and told me to have some respect and that I shouldn't talk to her that way. Which I thought was very confusing and I got very flustered and I'm ashamed of the conversation to be posted in my community or on her Facebook page or any of her social media. I think she just got out of a relationship but I'm not 100% sure. Is there any way to deal with this stress and anxiety?? I'm really worried about if she posts our conversation and how to handle how people will see me. I'm very self-conscious about this topic and tend to keep these things hidden from people. Am I overthinking this??? Submitted April 16, 2020 a...

So I am currently in a relationship of 2 years. I met my boyfriend in highschool and now he is in the military stationed out west, therefore he only comes back about twice a year. He is the only person I have ever had sex with and I plan to keep it that way, and he does too. He regularly gets blood drawn and gets checked for STDs and we have already had certain "discussions" so I don't worry in the slightest about infidelity. Just a backstory to help you all understand... Now, to my question. Since we don't see each other often, when we finally do have sex, it hurts like the first time we had sex. It's just a pinch when he first puts it in, and I'm good for the entire session, but after I have climaxed, the constant friction of him thrusting for about 5 more minutes until he cums irritates my vagina. The next day I will wake up sore with microtears. Mind you, he came back for 2 weeks during my Christmas break, and i saw him about every two days. Each day we ...

So...I think I have a foot fetish. Basically up until now, I've just touched my gf's feet as we have sex. Something about just touching the bottom of them and the toes get me excited. My gf knows I like touching her feet and she calls it my mini foot fetish, but we haven't really explored anything more with it I'm wondering what else I should do with feet? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:36PM So...I think I have a foot fetish. Basically up until now, I've just touched my gf's feet as we have sex. Something about just touching the bottom of them and the toes get me excited.My gf knows I like touching her feet and she calls it my mini foot fetish, but we haven't really explored anything more with itI'm wondering what else I should do with feet?

I couldn’t make my guy friend cum, and I’m just wondering if he’s even attracted to me Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:41PM I couldn’t make my guy friend cum, and I’m just wondering if he’s even attracted to me

Hey, today I (17M) tried putting a finger in my gfs (18F) butt for the first time. It was just a „brief encounter“ so too say but we both thought we should try more of anal stimulation later. So here i am asking for some tipps for anal fingering and anal sex :D i know about the male prostata massages but i have no idea if a girl has any comparable buttons in their bum and where they are located xD TLDR: Pls give me some tipps on anal stimulation in general :) Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:46PM Hey, today I (17M) tried putting a finger in my gfs (18F) butt for the first time. It was just a „brief encounter“ so too say but we both thought we should try more of anal stimulation later. So here i am asking for some tipps for anal fingering and anal sex :D i know about the male prostata massages but i have no idea if a girl has any comparable buttons in their bum and where they are located xDTLDR: Pls give me some tipps on anal stimulation in general :)

[F] I am so tired of seeing shit about pussy hair. Wear it in whatever style makes you feel sexy and confident. If you want or like a full bush, that's cool. But if someone likes it hair free, that doesn't make them a damn pedophile. I also hate seeing people call pussies with hair, "grown woman pussy" or "real woman pussy". If it's a woman's pussy, it's a "grown/real" woman's pussy. Hair or no hair. Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:46PM [F] I am so tired of seeing shit about pussy hair. Wear it in whatever style makes you feel sexy and confident. If you want or like a full bush, that's cool. But if someone likes it hair free, that doesn't make them a damn pedophile. I also hate seeing people call pussies with hair, "grown woman pussy" or "real woman pussy". If it's a woman's pussy, it's a "grown/real" woman's pussy. Hair or no hair.

background: he's the only person i've ever kissed and he's had several relationships before me. he's only comfortable with doing closed mouth pecks on my lips, like how you kiss a cat's forehead. i've talked with him about it and we've kissed with less closed-mouthed, but he says it grosses him out, like the wetness. he says it's not me, he just doesn't like kissing. i really liked it though and feel bad he doesn't want to do more than chicken pecks. anyway how do people even build up to sex without kissing? my idea was that it sort of starts with kissing and becomes more than that somehow, idk. i've read a lot of tips and advice for having sex but i'm completely clueless for the build up to it, like the physical mechanics, especially with someone who doesn't want to be kissed. Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:48PM background: he's the only person i've ever kissed and he's had several relationships before me. he'...

Is the orgasm still the same. Any differences. What was the whole experience like. Also is it reversible Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:50PM Is the orgasm still the same. Any differences. What was the whole experience like. Also is it reversible

So I've always been "difficult" to get off. My boyfriend and I have been using the vibrator on me while we have sex for me to get off. Don't even get me started on vaginal/penetrative orgasms... never had one and don't know how to. I'm more concerned about clitoral orgasms. I can get myself off with my hand but usually I need porn and it takes 15 minutes. And it's really hard to get me to orgasm with oral alone. The times it's happened it's taken at least 30-45 minutes and sometimes doesn't even happen after that amount of time. I'd like to be able to get off with my boyfriend during sex without a vibrator or at least get myself to cum quicker with oral. I'm not sure how. Any suggestions? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:53PM So I've always been "difficult" to get off. My boyfriend and I have been using the vibrator on me while we have sex for me to get off. Don't even get me started on vaginal/penetrative orgasms...

Has anyone any experience with this. Giving or receiving. I have so many questions. Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:54PM Has anyone any experience with this. Giving or receiving. I have so many questions.

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So I'm a 24F seeing a 24M and we usually tend to cuddle a lot before we ever head to the bedroom. But during that cuddle time, I always get so wet and sometimes it can start to go through my pants. I feel super embarrassed about it and was wondering if anyone has ever had the same issue. Any suggestions on dealing with it? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 12:02AM So I'm a 24F seeing a 24M and we usually tend to cuddle a lot before we ever head to the bedroom. But during that cuddle time, I always get so wet and sometimes it can start to go through my pants. I feel super embarrassed about it and was wondering if anyone has ever had the same issue. Any suggestions on dealing with it?

Sex is pretty much on my mind constantly. Married, we have 4 kids and my husband are still super sexually active so things are great, almost perfect, in life. However, I have a neurological disorder that has my health deteriorating rapidly, a Chiari malformation and fluid leaking into my spine. I can’t do much serious physical activity so we have to be careful in bed. I’m into bdsm and a huge submissive brat type so I would like to be rough and dominated constantly, multiple times a day if possible. Only issue is the disability part. Is there a site for great sex tips for disabled people so that they can have sex safely, maybe suggest best positions when you have severe vertigo, joint pain, severe head aches and your body goes numb constantly? Any other disabled people have tips or suggestions that help with issues like this? I just can’t help my sexual appetite even if I’m severely disabled. It just won’t go away but I would like tips to not make my health situation worse by being se...

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I recently bought an assortment of sex toys to try with my long term gf. She has seen them and seemed interested but hasn’t even brought them up since the day that they arrived. How can I talk to her and come up with a plan to use them when we’re about to have a little fun? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 12:06AM I recently bought an assortment of sex toys to try with my long term gf. She has seen them and seemed interested but hasn’t even brought them up since the day that they arrived. How can I talk to her and come up with a plan to use them when we’re about to have a little fun?

I’ll make it quick, whenever me and my gf attempt 69ing we have no problem with the positioning or anything, the only thing is from the way she is sucking me off it almost like overstimulates my penis to a point it’s not pleasurable. Has anyone else experienced this and know a fix or substitute Submitted April 17, 2020 at 12:07AM I’ll make it quick, whenever me and my gf attempt 69ing we have no problem with the positioning or anything, the only thing is from the way she is sucking me off it almost like overstimulates my penis to a point it’s not pleasurable. Has anyone else experienced this and know a fix or substitute

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Me (19M) and my girlfriend (18F) have been together about 6 months now. She’s a really sweet and bubbly person and things are going really well. We haven’t really talked about sex or done anything that would constitute sex by anyone’s definition, but I think I’m ready to move forward a little. I don’t want to pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable, and if she wants to wait then I’m happy to, I just don’t really know how to ask those questions or how to test the boundaries. What should I do? Submitted April 16, 2020 at 11:52PM Me (19M) and my girlfriend (18F) have been together about 6 months now. She’s a really sweet and bubbly person and things are going really well. We haven’t really talked about sex or done anything that would constitute sex by anyone’s definition, but I think I’m ready to move forward a little. I don’t want to pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable, and if she wants to wait then I’m happy to, I just don’t really know how to ask those questions or h...

So I know this is kind of shallow and I guess I just need to be told the truth. I’ve been seeing this girl who’s personality I’m definitely attracted to and can see a future with, but her looks i’m just not ‘woahed’ by if you know what I mean. I really like her and don’t feel like I should even thinking about this. Help please?? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 12:12AM So I know this is kind of shallow and I guess I just need to be told the truth. I’ve been seeing this girl who’s personality I’m definitely attracted to and can see a future with, but her looks i’m just not ‘woahed’ by if you know what I mean. I really like her and don’t feel like I should even thinking about this.Help please??

Ive been using dating apps for years(6+) and its always the same thing. No responses. Short convos. "Lol". Then the eventual depression leading to deleting the batch of em. Ive always sorta used apps as a crutch since ive always been sorta anxious and awkward due to depression in HS making me avoid people. Now that I'm 23 and moved to a new city I wanna try the real shabang. The whole approach a girl and say words to them and eventually get her number sorta deal. I just don't really know how to do that or WHERE the hell to look. Tldr Basically im tired of using apps because they literally drain me and fuxk my mood severely and i would rather spend my search time talking to real grills. I know some of my types foruntaley. I just don't know how or where to go to meet girls. Also do you guys ever take breaks due to the stress of rejection or do you just follow the crave, powering through until you have a crisis? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 12:15AM Ive bee...