I was supposed to meet a guy for a first date/coffee date today but because of logistics, we both decided to go for a walk instead socially distanced with a mask. it was quite nice I thought! he knew that I had a friend's housewarming to get to after so I met near the area and after about 45 min of walk/talk, I headed to my friend's. the ending was sort of awkward bc neither of us said definitively LETS DEF HANG AGAIN! I mean the convo was fun, at times funny and I thought it was nice but I havent heard anything from him so I think he isn't interested. Should I wait for him or just text the first text (and say it was great meeting him etc, something nice and neutral) ? It's been about 3 hours since the date. Submitted May 30, 2022 at 01:16AM I was supposed to meet a guy for a first date/coffee date today but because of logistics, we both decided to go for a walk instead socially distanced with a mask. it was quite nice I thought!he knew that I had a friend...

Ohmygosh i love it May 30, 2022 at 12:04AM

Dang, that sucks. A decent person woulda been upfront and been like 'this isn't going to work...'. I'd be somewhat bitter and at least unfriend them on xbox, that way its not a reminder every time they come online. Don't give up the hunt though. You deserve happiness just like everyone else. You did good, this person was just being inconsiderate, but I'm confident you deserve someone who doesn't go AWOL when you're just putting your cards on the table. May 30, 2022 at 12:02AM

For Context: 1st Person (Attracted To But Not Feeling Seen/Clicking): We’ve known each other and talked everyday for a year. We have fun moments of course but our relationship is basically online and we only see each other thru FaceTime or hanging out in person once a month. Very attracted to this person, and I can see a future with them. We’ve had a bunch of ups and downs and we can’t let each other go. I figure that if we were able to spend more time together in real life or just be in each other’s lives long enough, then that feeling of being seen/clicking would come naturally. 2nd Person (Feeling Seen/Clicking But Not Being Attracted): We’ve known each other for six years and we hang out in person often. We have great talks whether we’re in a group or just the two of us. However, I’m not attracted to them even though it feels like I should because our connection just fits. Like based on this could either of these relationships be sustained? Should I wait for a person who I’m at...

I'll keep it short and straight to the point. I met this 1 girl online about 5 months ago. I've met her IRL 2 times now, both times stayed at her house, met her mom, sister etc. (didn't sleep with her), and i really like her, and I'm 98% sure she likes me too. Also her mom love's me and i like her family too The only problem is that she has a guy best friend which I'm insecure about, because she goes to his place often, they hang out a lot and she even stops talking with me when we're hanging out so she can text him, and i know he has feelings for her, but she turned him down, and he has a different girlfriend now, but i can see that she somewhat seems him in more than just a platonic way, even though she says he's just a friend. So what should I do? Is it worth worrying about the guy best friend and should i just ditch her or should I trust that he's just a "guy best friend, with a different girlfriend, who she texts a lot" and start dati...

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