I’m glad for this quiz because usually the categories include like 15-25 which ends up being the vast majority, so I have been curious for the actual breakdown of that age group. Interesting that it’s mostly 18-22 and then 13-17 with a close third of 23-27. Did not realize how young we skewed. I’m only 23, but I did not think I was in the minority here. September 12, 2021 at 12:39AM

May I ask how you found the event to go to in the first place? If love to find one near me. September 12, 2021 at 12:38AM

My favourite thing about them is that they're safe to wear when you're not on your period. So you can pop one in when your period is due some time in the next couple of days , and you're protected and you don't need to worry about a thing That and the environment, of course. I heard we only get one of those. September 12, 2021 at 12:38AM

People that invalidate us asexuals for literally being ourselves are people that base their worth, value, and humanness on something so ridiculous like sex. It’s both downright funny and immature as hell to place sex on a pedestal like that because it’s not like moral maturity or human decency matter, I guess (that was sarcasm lol) September 12, 2021 at 12:36AM

hello all, so I(20f)have never really enjoyed receiving head with anyone I’ve slept with. It’s not that they don’t do a good job, I’m just into it only if he’s reeaaallyyy into it. I feel bad because a lot of the time I’ll feel like i have to act like I’m getting off just to get it over with quickly. This sucks for a couple of reasons 1. there aren’t too many options for foreplay (that i know of) and 2. It feels a little embarrassing at times. I’m wondering if anyone else has or had a similar dilemma and what are some things i should try to get over it essentially. p.s giving is the opposite story- i really enjoy it and it usually gets me ‘ready’ fairly quickly along with a bit of nipple/clit stimulation. TL;DR Having trouble enjoying receiving oral sex and i don’t know why- it’s extremely frustrating. up for tips and advice. Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:47AM hello all, so I(20f)have never really enjoyed receiving head with anyone I’ve slept with. It’s not that they do...

With certain exercises (eg. climbing a pole) I get coregasms very easily and regularly (2-3x a week). Orgasms with PIV is a fairly new occurrence for me but only happens in a cowgirl position that is unfortunately usually too rough and painful for my partner. My interest and experience with masturbation is very limited - manual clitoral stimulation has never really done much for me - but masturbation is something I am interested in learning more about. My questions: For women who get coregasms, is there a particular sex toy that works really well for you / mimics a coregasm? Has anyone had any experience with trying to train their pelvic floor muscles to create a coregasm during PIV or any recommended positions? I am open to any suggestions! Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:47AM With certain exercises (eg. climbing a pole) I get coregasms very easily and regularly (2-3x a week). Orgasms with PIV is a fairly new occurrence for me but only happens in a cowgirl position tha...

When I’m using a condom and having sex with a girl do I have to pull out when I’m going to cum? Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:50AM When I’m using a condom and having sex with a girl do I have to pull out when I’m going to cum?

Hi all. My partner is demisexual, and is quite careful about when we progress physically. I'm 100% supportive of that, and I told them to tell me when they're ready for each physical progression so that I don't try and do something for the first time when they're ready. Lately though I've found myself thinking more and more about sex with them. I meant it when i told them I'll wait as long as i have to, because we've got the rest of our lives to be intimate with each other, but i still feel guilty that I'm thinking about having sex with them as much as I do Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:54AM Hi all. My partner is demisexual, and is quite careful about when we progress physically. I'm 100% supportive of that, and I told them to tell me when they're ready for each physical progression so that I don't try and do something for the first time when they're ready. Lately though I've found myself thinking more and more about sex w...

girth problems i got a new toy, the evolved 8 inch luminous glow dual density one(6.5 inch insertable or something) and it’s 1.5 inch width/4.7 inch girth. is the toy above average? and it’s pretty heavy because if the harder silicone core so it tends to point down, i just started using it a couple days ago and it def takes a minute to get it all the way in but it kinda feels like it’s pulling down, while i get off and enjoy the toy that’s one thing i don’t like. is there a way i can get it to curve up or a different position? this is the toy for reference Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:56AM girth problemsi got a new toy, the evolved 8 inch luminous glow dual density one(6.5 inch insertable or something) and it’s 1.5 inch width/4.7 inch girth. is the toy above average? and it’s pretty heavy because if the harder silicone core so it tends to point down, i just started using it a couple days ago and it def takes a minute to get it all the way in but it kinda feels like it’s ...

exactly the title - can anyone relate to that little heartbreak with every online date that doesn't pan out? how do you start up again after several starts and ends? i've taken breaks and deleted apps whenever i've felt burnt out, but i've just been especially disappointed by one recent match and i feel like i genuinely don't know how people would handle a breakup with someone who they've been with for longer. Submitted September 11, 2021 at 11:39PM exactly the title - can anyone relate to that little heartbreak with every online date that doesn't pan out? how do you start up again after several starts and ends?i've taken breaks and deleted apps whenever i've felt burnt out, but i've just been especially disappointed by one recent match and i feel like i genuinely don't know how people would handle a breakup with someone who they've been with for longer.

I know this is how it is done now. I just hate it. I spend weeks chatting and getting to know someone. I think it will work, and we set a irl date. I get ghosted. I don’t get it. Why does it hurt so much? Why is it so hard? Submitted September 11, 2021 at 11:43PM I know this is how it is done now. I just hate it. I spend weeks chatting and getting to know someone. I think it will work, and we set a irl date. I get ghosted. I don’t get it. Why does it hurt so much? Why is it so hard?

Does anyone believe in things such as criticizing yourself in order to set yourself on the path of the type of person you want to be? I know it’s oddly specific, if i had to give an example it would be something like “I shouldn’t be allowed to do this since it has no deep purpose for me” type of mindset. No one does and is just me? It’s worked so far if anyone’s asking Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:02AM Does anyone believe in things such as criticizing yourself in order to set yourself on the path of the type of person you want to be? I know it’s oddly specific, if i had to give an example it would be something like “I shouldn’t be allowed to do this since it has no deep purpose for me” type of mindset. No one does and is just me? It’s worked so far if anyone’s asking

I started texting a girl about a week ago and things have really kicked off. She texts me for hours even when I don't want to and even shared with me that she leaves everyone on delivered for hours and opened my messages as soon as she sees them (I can confirm.) she shares things about her family, her life and always asks me for advice shares her problems with me. But when I try to end a convo with say "goodnight love you 😘" I only get a "night night" and yes I probably shouldnt be annoyed and overthink it just because she didn't heart kiss emoji me back. But she recently called herself in a message my best friend "I bet I'm your best friend" and called me man one time. Am I overthinking it and should just ask her out already or should should I just stop (she's just wants to be friends) Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:08AM I started texting a girl about a week ago and things have really kicked off. She texts me for hours even whe...

I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, I just didn't care in my youth or got rejected if I liked a girl. I'd consider myself as relatively attractive so I don't think looks are my problem. I just can't manage to make a move because I have this big fear that I'll do something wrong or embarrass myself, it's horrible. Even when I think about getting with a girl it scares the shit out of me. It feels really pathetic typing this out here into an Internet Forum but at this point I'm just desperate to get some advice or anything that helps me beat this anxiety Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:10AM I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, I just didn't care in my youth or got rejected if I liked a girl. I'd consider myself as relatively attractive so I don't think looks are my problem.I just can't manage to make a move because I have this big fear that I'll do something wrong or embarrass myself, it's horrible....

Here's my current 1. Hi, I'm Tim. I'm in a wheelchair but don't let that put you off... I am a animal lover,. I have a miniature poodle who I adore... Love my rock and metal music. I'm a big gamer... Submitted September 12, 2021 at 12:11AM Here's my current 1. Hi, I'm Tim.I'm in a wheelchair but don't let that put you off...I am a animal lover,.I have a miniature poodle who I adore...Love my rock and metal music.I'm a big gamer...

honestly i thought i was ace at 15 and im in my mid 20s now, and i still think i’m ace so. honestly even if things do change what’s important is being able to feel comfortable- whether that’s labelling yourself or not! if id-ing as ace makes you feel comfortable then great! if it stops being comfortable you can change it, switching up labels doesn’t have to be a big thing. i don’t think there’s anything harmful about identifying as ace specifically at a young age, but as long as you don’t get stuck in the label, if that makes sense. the same applies for identifying as anything else- as long as you’re not beating yourself up about being something, or potentially being something else, i don’t see an issue. September 11, 2021 at 11:41PM

When I discovered I was ace I thought I could answer this question. Turns out I’m not a man. September 11, 2021 at 11:40PM

Just as a note, lith queers/lesbians have no qualms with lithsexuality being called lithsexual. In fact, it was a lith queer who coined the term. September 11, 2021 at 11:40PM

How do those work exactly? Are you supposed to change them throughout the day like pads or are they meant to be worn throughout the whole day? Wouldn't they get really wet and uncomfortable? I'm interested but I'm also nervous lol September 11, 2021 at 11:39PM

Not much changed for me other than my past experiences suddenly make a lot more sense and I still question my romantic attraction every other day. But otherwise nothing changed. September 11, 2021 at 11:38PM