I like it very much, I'll save this post just in case (I don't have a Switch, yet). July 27, 2020 at 12:04AM

Yeah;; I though that was pretty iffy as well :/ July 27, 2020 at 12:04AM

I just searched it again with ally instead of allies, and it came up with the same result from the screenshot~ is it different for you? July 27, 2020 at 12:01AM

considering the definition as I understand it, yes July 27, 2020 at 12:01AM

Anyone else bother by the “and/or?” Cause it’s driving me nuts. I find it more annoying than the inclusion of allies...like “or?” Really? July 27, 2020 at 12:01AM

Seems strange that they would be included in the term, doesn’t it? July 27, 2020 at 12:00AM

Hah, ace vibes and covid vibes, clearly ahead of her time. July 26, 2020 at 11:59PM

Before it said that asexuals were not part of LGBTQIA >.< July 26, 2020 at 11:58PM

Idk why it's included, my understanding is that allies are people who support the LGBTQIA+ community without being a part of it July 26, 2020 at 11:57PM

I don't get what this is about? How's it good now? July 26, 2020 at 11:57PM

I'm just posting this for any women who are looking for an answer to this too...yes. Libido can take over sometimes and just surprise you with things, doesn't mean you're not ace....you're still a human and most of us have hormonal drives that interfere with our lives and have no care for what we -want- lol July 26, 2020 at 11:56PM

I only realized when I saw some Twitter post talking about the difference between sensual, aesthetic, and sexual attraction, and it sent me. Looking back and realizing that every time I thought I was sexually attracted to someone, all was doing was thinking they were beautiful, at most wanting to cuddle them if they were closer to me. But since I didn't really understand how to be physically close to people outside of sex (thanks society) I just assumed that what I'd been wanting was sex. Even though every time I had sex my mind would wander, I'd want to stop, I'd get incredibly disappointed whenever things progressed past kissing, and even having a full meltdown after my first consensual sexual experience. So I realized that what I'd been feeling wasn't sexual at all, and as soon as I realized that I felt such relief that I didn't have to have sex ever again. July 26, 2020 at 11:55PM

can someone explain why “allies” are included in the term, and what is actually means? July 26, 2020 at 11:55PM

There have been asmr videos that I’ve liked but never people speaking. The way people talk in them makes my skin crawl July 26, 2020 at 11:53PM

I mean thats technically correct but I don't think anyone would/should fault someone for referring to early "Christians" such as Moses or Joshua as Christian. They worshiped the same God and were the precursors to Christianity as we currently know it July 26, 2020 at 11:48PM

Yes, Fusing is a trust metaphor, If it was sex, The diamonds would allow cross-gem fusion July 26, 2020 at 11:47PM

Good question July 26, 2020 at 11:47PM

I had been reading Fanfictions about characters coming to terms with being ace and not feeling sexual attraction for months, and I had felt a bit of euphoric joy when they figured themselves out. I was thinking something along the lines of "Wow I can relate to these characters so well and I'm so happy for them, it's always cool learning about different sexualities and cultures behind them, it makes me a better ally." I only looked at a definition when an online buddy accidentally came out. And the descriptions fit perfectly. At 15 I was sure of my sexuality and heteroromanticism. Funny that... on my sixteenth I experienced a loss of romantic attraction and I was a wreck for a bit because of it, thinking something was wrong with me,until I browsed the definitions of romantic attractions to understand the difference between grey and demi. Being aroflux is a thing and I've mostly stopped being romantically attracted to people. If at all, those feelings only linger...

This was something I was worried about that always makes me question being ace. Your comment.. gave me the biggest sigh of relief Oml. Thank you lmao. I’ve been doing research for a long time and have been very confused. Like I know for a fact that I’m ace, but sometimes I’m like... why do I.. ya know... 🤢 July 26, 2020 at 11:46PM

Christians not knowing what's written in the bible? Blasphemous! July 26, 2020 at 11:46PM

I've been married to my husband for 18 years and I recently discovered in his internet history that he has been masturbating with other men on websites omegle and flingster. He also had a folder with screenshots saved of him and the other people doing it. I'm not sure what to make of it. He has never giving any indication of being gay and he has never cheated. I don't know if I should confront him about it or let it go. I imagine it could be embarrassing for him. Submitted July 26, 2020 at 11:44PM I've been married to my husband for 18 years and I recently discovered in his internet history that he has been masturbating with other men on websites omegle and flingster. He also had a folder with screenshots saved of him and the other people doing it. I'm not sure what to make of it. He has never giving any indication of being gay and he has never cheated. I don't know if I should confront him about it or let it go. I imagine it could be embarrassing for him...

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Hi All, I (32F) recently ended a 1.5 year relationship and am working on getting myself back out there. I’m usually a good judge of character, but I’m trying to ask better questions earlier on in the dating process. Short but relevant tangent: For anyone not familiar with the TV show The Walking Dead, as the seasons progress, it becomes clear that other people are just as much of a threat as the zombies. So, to better judge those they come across, the main protagonists come up with three questions that they ask the people they encounter: How many walkers (zombies) have you killed? How many people have you killed? Why? So, my question is what three questions would you ask a date to find out key information about them (their values, character, philosophies, etc.)? I find it better to ask questions that require some subtle self reflection instead of just asking things straight out. I have a developing list of my own, but I’d love to hear yours! Submitted July 26, 2020 at 11:3...