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/u/Shakespeare-Bot on This is the first time I’ve ever seen it on a survey! Makes me happy

Forgive mine own ignorance, but what jump doest "queer" cullionly? i at each moment bethought t wast another term f'r nonbinary I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words. Commands: !ShakespeareInsult , !fordo , !optout May 07, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/WimdowsXP on How it is sometimes

i cant exactly tell the difference, sorry for misinformation May 07, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/Lunarfalcon025 on This is the first time I’ve ever seen it on a survey! Makes me happy

Forgive my ignorance, but what exactly does "queer" mean? I always thought it was another term for nonbinary May 07, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/existingllama on Made myself some earrings and then made some more for my ace friends

Oh these are so lovely! May 07, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/Lucavious on Already on it my guy

I mean they’re basically describing Japan unfortunately. May 07, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/bunnycandyO on Friends telling me I'm not really asexual, just "ugly and fat"

My mom said that exact same thing it’s really hurtful for someone who you thought would love and support you unconditionally says that you aren’t valid. May 07, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/Blues-Boi on Friends telling me I'm not really asexual, just "ugly and fat"

Oh that’s even worse ;-; May 07, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/Traditional_Ad_6954 on How do you guys reproduce?

Why fornicate when I can just grow a clone from my hair and slowly build my own army? May 06, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/REAL_MORTALIS on How to do mitosis

everything goes boink if you boink it hard enough May 06, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/college---board on This is the first time I’ve ever seen it on a survey! Makes me happy

yeah that's pretty neat! May 06, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/belac4862 on Its not as subtle as a black ring. But I think this suits me better any way!

Its a really nicely built ring. I have many, but this one is of top quality. May 06, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/college---board on Its not as subtle as a black ring. But I think this suits me better any way!

ooh i saw this one on etsy, looks great on you! May 06, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/Twifty101 on How to do mitosis

Scientific progress does go boink after all! May 06, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/asteriaoxomoco on This is the first time I’ve ever seen it on a survey! Makes me happy

My doctor has it as an option too, but didn't grasp that asexuall ≠ doesn't have sex. She looked at my form and said "guess I don't need to ask about birth control." So I had to pipe up and say "umm actually, I'm sex favorable and married to an allosexual, and I have an IUD..." May 06, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/no_this_is_pattycake on Already on it my guy

I’m a millennial but I’ll chip in! May 06, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/Traditional_Ad_6954 on How have your attitudes / beliefs changed since learning about asexuality?

Definitely how I view myself and my confidence. I used to think that I was too picky and had high standards for a partner and thought I was just hopeless. After realizing that I was aro-ace, it completely changed my perspective of the path to happiness. It alleviated a lot of my own self-hatred for not finding "the one" soon enough because of not possessing attractive traits, etc. I realized that I don't have to have a partner to be content and that I could create my own happiness. Self-discovery has gotten me to love myself a heck of a lot more than how I used to. May 06, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/-Solidwater on Question for the Asexual Ladies

It didn't. It's gross for its own reasons. May 06, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/Thornescape on Any advice on boundaries?

There's a pacifist tradition of "passive resistance" that I'm fond of. The idea is that you calmly and clearly refuse to do something that you don't want to do. You're not hostile or aggressive, you just calmly and patiently resist. When it comes to boundaries, it's important to make them increasingly firm. It's fine to start with hints and casual comments about your lack of interest, but it's important to steadily increase your resistance to stuff that you don't want to do. It's important to make that resistance as firm as it needs to be. I once had a group of guys tell me that they were going to kidnap me and take me on a bachelor party and get me drunk. I started fairly vague in my refusal, and had to slowly escalate it to the point where I had to explain that if they tried, I'd call for the police. In a way, it's sad that they didn't respect me enough and that it had to get to that level, but thankfully I wasn't dragg

/u/ButteredStrumpet on Already on it my guy

Finally, a gen-z activity I, a millennial, can participate in! May 06, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/belac4862 on Its not as subtle as a black ring. But I think this suits me better any way!

Yep! I wasn't even planning on getting one so early. I was just "scouting" and pricing different things when I saw it. It looked like really good quality, which it is, so I just had to get it. Did you get a small bag of skittles with yours!? May 06, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/ForestSmurf on Question for the Asexual Ladies

Yup. And it really made me think being born a boy would have been nicer. Also no fake compliments but better fake insults. But thats it. I still feel like a woman I just hate myself at least once a month. May 06, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/Olivia_O on How it is sometimes

Not having found "the right person" sure sounds like grey ace/demi to me. May 06, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/tchaik_psych on Its not as subtle as a black ring. But I think this suits me better any way!

Hey I have the same one!! Did you get it from that cute little etsy seller? May 06, 2021 at 11:40PM