You're an AAAvenger. June 21, 2020 at 11:55PM

Awesome! Glad to be able to help and I hope your partner is able to understand and come to terms with it June 21, 2020 at 11:54PM

It has 😊 I'll read those articles you linked and I've sent them to my partner too June 21, 2020 at 11:53PM

Yikes!!! I have to say that so far the Ace community seems so much more excepting then that sub. I haven’t seen gatekeeping issues here. I have there. June 21, 2020 at 11:53PM

Sexual pleasure is the actual physical feeling that you get from having sex or masturbation. like having an orgasm, or being stimulated in a certain area will usually make you feel sexual pleasure. I think sexual attraction is being attracted to people in a sexual way. Like wanting to have sex with someone because of how attractive they are to you this post probably has a better explanation than mine, but it uses the word arousal rather than sexual pleasure June 21, 2020 at 11:53PM

It's no problem! Thank you for sharing with me too, I like to help people come to terms with themselves so I hope my advice has helped even if it's just a tiny bit. June 21, 2020 at 11:52PM

It wasn't just me, a lot of ppl went over there to tell them this bc of me and they all got banned even everyone who commented on those posts. So I felt bad and contacted the mods of that subreddit and that's what got me banned. (I didn't post/comment on the subreddit). We just stood up for what we believe in. June 21, 2020 at 11:51PM

Thank you for sharing with me June 21, 2020 at 11:51PM

Tumblr discouse is a goddamn dumpster fire 🙄🙄🙄 June 21, 2020 at 11:50PM

This is wrong on so many levels, I'm impressed, and also angry. And people are even upvoting it, like what the hell. June 21, 2020 at 11:49PM

Nah it wasnt ignorant at all. It's hard to describe things and I think you did a pretty good job. Welcome to the ace family bro June 21, 2020 at 11:49PM

I totally get that, feels like you're talking to a person who can understand you so I get that, just wanted to say I'm no professional so you know I dont have professional knowledge of any sorts, my advice is just based off of what I know June 21, 2020 at 11:48PM

When your sexuality is part of your self identity, you will feel threatened by people who lack something that is part of your identity (in this case sexuality). It’s no different than racism. June 21, 2020 at 11:48PM

I see. I’m can sort of guess where/when the shift of meanings happened. That sucks you got banned. June 21, 2020 at 11:46PM

Sorry but can you please tell me the difference between sexual attraction and sexual pleasure? I'm a bit unfamiliar June 21, 2020 at 11:46PM

I always thought 'But It's Better If You Do' by Panic! At The Disco was about an ace person desperately trying to fit in at a strip club lol. June 21, 2020 at 11:45PM

I'm with you on the garlic bread but concentration camps are not okay June 21, 2020 at 11:44PM

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I don't really want to say controversial things, because I really don't want to be banned from this sub like I got from r/lgbt for what I'm about to say. Pansexuality and bisexuality are extremely similar to a point that it doesn't matter that much with which you choose to identify with. If mods aren't okay with this please delete the comment but dont ban meeeee Also pansexuality was originally made to be inclusive for all genders, but that would mean bisexuality isn't but that's just not the case. Which is why the meaning of pansexuality shifted a bit June 21, 2020 at 11:44PM

Maybe for the same reasons a woman having sex with another woman made het people feel "unsafe"... Oh noooo! You're different!! I don't understand! :( Get back in the closet you weirdos! The cognitive dissonance is remarkable June 21, 2020 at 11:43PM

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